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Hello Guys and Dolls. So every Saturday night you better be at LaClair in Soho (201 Lafayette Street) to party with LaSociét
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Hello Guys and Dolls. So every Saturday night you better be at LaClair in Soho (201 Lafayette Street) to party with LaSociét
The curse of Leadership
This blessing is also a curse and this curse, the ultimate blessing. The older you get, the less this bubbly, happy, progressive personality is accepted. You’re deemed an outsider and are then forced to turn inward That’s the first curse: Loneliness. You are always alone because no one else gets you. They try, but they cannot fully comprehend you. You are an onion of all different layers and peeling them seems to sting others somehow. They’d rather admire from afar. Smile at you and walk away to say god knows what. Sometimes they don’t even smile, they just stare. What you really want is to cut the bullshit and be friends with all of them. And play. You know, like when we were kids and it didn’t matter to us. But you can’t Your brilliance is too bright and you must be in a room all too yourself. It’s annoying! But it is also a gift. You command attention everywhere you go and win most of the time. In fact, all you do is win. Even when you “lose” you’ve gained something Because you’re too much of a winner to get caught up in the losses. And in so doing, you grow and leave others a little further behind. The greatest part of all this is that you have no competition but yourself. You were forced to turn inward and thus became both your best friend and worst enemy all at once. They turned you into narcissus, constantly monitoring and exploring yourself. Only when you let go of this anguish and accept both your successes and shortcoming as others seem them are you at peace. The second curse: Everyone always wants to be around you. Even while they are demonizing you, they want to be close. So they taunt and jeer you in order to get attention. The challenge is that you want to respond and tell them off. But to win you sometimes have to lose. Lose the battle but win the war. Let it go. Don’t even give them a piece of you to grab onto. Because ultimately, that’s what they want. They are the admirers who try too hard to get your attention. This is exhausting to you. These people are the flatterers constantly compliment you and hyping you up. Sounds good but you never know if its genuine and they always end up crossing the line. They will force their way over to meet you. Distract you while you are trying to concentrate, take away your originality by mimicking you and they will dominate your time seeking advice. All you want to do is tell them that “they can do it too!" and that you’re not special. You’re just like them..all it takes is a little hard work! But they don’t believe you because they don’t believe in themselves. They spend so much time on you that they have none left to spend on themselves. They’re spent. So you have to work extra hard...constantly smiling. You have to listen and try not to flip out on them for talking about such mindless things. They always want to talk and if they’re not talking, they’re staring. God forbid you actually start talking about yourself. These same people will try to bring you down. How dare you be beautiful and smart and know it and flaunt it. “it doesn’t work that way, sister” Why cant they see the beauty in themselves? This is a curse. You’re then forced to be what they are idolizing you as. An other, not to be reached. A teacher. A leader when well, sometimes you just want to be arrogant, ignorant, bitchy, and irresponsible. You cannot deviate from this role of the impenetrable leader. If you do, society will reprimand you. But enough bitching and moaning. You’re blessed. This is a blessing: Your voice actually means something and your messages have longevity. People follow what you do and so by being positive you get other people to be positive as well. You alone can inspire the masses to amend their behavior and you should be thankful for that gift. Your legacy will be passed down through generations and generations.