So I have a thing for teacher/student trope right (with the student being a consensual adult, obviously)
But every time I think about it
I remember that multiple times I was in that scenario, in my life..
AND
Every time I was like
Bitch I don’t care that I’m 18/past 18 and find you attractive. You shouldn’t be attracted to your student. And you’re 60 (somewhere in their late 50s). Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
As an old man lover, like, IN REAL LIFE, I don’t just like fictional older men, I do like real life men 50+. That’s a fact. I went on dates with them, I flirted with them etc etc
I always had this mentality that “just because I like older men, doesn’t mean they should like me back, power imbalance is too big with my current life knowledge”
The way one of the teachers acted around me was cute. Would always let me cheat while I’d look him right in the eyes. And get awfully shy if we’d stay alone. BUT THEN HE MADE A MOVE SO CLEAR I WAS LIKE HUH????? NAAAAH MAN. And I realised that he was always trying to find excuses to touch me, be near me, lean over me at my desk and maybe it was not so cute after all!
When you are attracted to people much older than you - keep your heads clear. You’ll miss a lot of bad signs. Better keep yourself safe and understand that your brain needs some proper growth before you can start thinking about getting in a relationship with someone who is fairly older.
