#no truscum

[relatablephotosofjustinmcelroy]

Hey everyone just want to make it clear that this isn’t a space for TERFSs/Truscum thanks!

[pasteloscar]

reputation in this game feels like it’s my spoons you get so close and just run around panicking that you’re gonna be a rogue cause you ate a FROG and-

[butch-bakugo]

You know what, nah

Transmeds/truscum/gender critical people are no longer allowed on my blog.

I gave yall a chance but everytime i see you my notes to see if you fit my dni its always paired with something nasty.

You either are " nb-skeptic" or flat out anti-nb, think you have some ruling on lesbian identities despite not being a lesbian, anti-sjw, racist, " edgy anti-libtard", litterally just a transphobic cis person, perpetrate the constant myth that all nb are agender( we arent! You also arent nb!) Or hate on any label you label as " too close to mogai" and ive had it.

Yes on my blog, mogai is a complicated topic. There are specfic identities i dont agree with and wont endorse( i may damn some just because they are outright nasty, ableist or trans-trivializing) but a fair amount yall just hate for no damn reason other than it dosent fit your transphobic " two genders" escapade.

Yes i support genderfluid/flux, demi-genders, third gender but i deal with mogai people on a case by case basis and i refuse to just throw a majority of the nb community under the bus so you can feel " safe " here.

So because of absolutely shitty behavior on your part, transmeds/truscum/gender critical people are no longer allowed on my blog. You are free to plead your case in asks either on anon or not ( not dm. You can hide in dms from a side blog) but if i get too many nbphobic responces you are gone for good.

[desultory-suggestions]

Hey- this might be a weird thing to ask, and if you could ask your followers to chime in I'd appreciate it, but how do you know if you're trans? (P.s. I am an adult so if you're not comfortable interacting with adults please dont feel obligated to answer this ask!) Thank you ♡

Hey, love! It’s no problem!

Followers may reply!

I will declare now that no transmeds/truscum may interact with this post. Blocked on-site if you do, I don’t have time for petty discourse over other people’s identities. It’s not for you to decide how they feel. 

I think two of the major ways people realize they are trans are through gender dysphoria and gender euphoria. You may have one or both, or neither fit your perception of your experience. Dysphoria is typically defined as discomfort with your assigned gender, feeling uncomfortable with your breasts/genitals/build/voice/name/pronouns. I get uncomfortable when called she or her, for a long time didn’t realize why? I thought it was normal to squick at the mention of “my growing body and blossoming womanhood.” but when people mentioned boys going through puberty I didn’t mind, I was rather intrigued. One may have dysphoria over your chest but not genitals, it’s not cookie-cutter. Transmasc people may choose to wear, a chest binder, and transfemenine people may wear a bra/padding/or something similar. Euphoria is usually a sense of satisfaction and ease when you dress a specific way, are perceived as your preferred gender, referred to as your chosen name and pronouns, etc. I usually feel a rush of happiness when someone calls me he, or when I get to dress in a suit! These are some more common ways of understanding gender, but it’s a very personal journey and it may look different for you. No dysphoria? Valid. Severe dysphoria? Valid. Research online and read other people’s stories, maybe something will click. If it turns out you are trans, you are welcome and loved in this community! If it turns out you’re not, that’s okay too and we will still support and embrace you on your journey.

-Evan

[types-of-femmes]

science femme

an overflowing pencil case, crumpled up graph paper diaries. they runs on logic, but you can see how they get flustered around you. cornell method notes covered in hearts. study dates at the library, the smile they get when you succeed. peter pan collars, dyed-colorful labcoats over midi skirts.

[oli-smiles-sometimes]

Just a reminder

This is a transmed, truscum, and radfemme free blog pls and thanks. You can be trans and not have crippling dysphoria, you can be trans and not want to have any surgeries or go on any hrt. You can be trans and not have problems with your body. Y'all just chill out damn.

[sadfishing]

various gender affirming procedures have been around for long enough become quite standardized and relatively safe if you have a decent surgeon from what i understand, it's not as risky as people make it out to be. Also dysphoria is unique for every trans person and I can only speak from my own experience, but I know that no amount of positive thinking will change the physical discomfort I experience around parts of my body. The hope that came with realizing that I was ALLOWED to change it in ways that would offer some comfort and relief, that I didn't have to just 'accept my body the way it is' is one of the few things currently making my dysphoria less unbearable. It's not really even about how I identify, some trans folks don't experience the same kinds of dysphoria or for other reasons choose not to pursue surgeries and are just as valid in whatever their gender identity is. I'm a woman regardless, I just want to find comfort in my body.

[sammyfaeyrin]

So real talk for a minute

How do you like come out to friends about not being the gender you thought. Cuz like coming out the first time was kinda a breeze once i really felt i figured it out. But like not gonna lie i feel like the original label im using doesnt fit as well as i thought it did. I feel a lot more like a demi-girl as opposed to genderfluid. Idk. All i know is i wanna id as either a woman or demiwoman (idk which is better, cuz like using girl kinda feels like infantilization???? Could be wrong on that. All i know is im an adult so woman would be more precise). Idk. I just wanna come out as a demiwoman but dont know how cuz it feels really awkward to be like "hey guess what i know i made y'all use they them for like 3 years straight now but uhhh jk im a woman not a tumultuous blob of shifting gender"