no is a full sentence.
no. one bomb ass complete sentence. we do not have to explain ourselves. &we should not feel guilty for prioritizing ourselves. saying no to what we don’t want is actually saying yes to what we do want. we are opening ourselves & freeing up time&space.
being resistant,hesitant to use “no.” is linked to our desire to have the approval of others. we believe telling the ones around us “no.” will break,ruin,end our relationships. we attach a lengthy&unnecessary explanation to soften the blow &protect the other person’s feelings.
but listen, any relationship that ends because of a self-prioritizing ”no.” needed to crash&burn. “no.” is a full sentence. you do not owe anything to anyone past that period.














