#nonbinary oppression

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people being willfully or unwillfully ignorant to the extent of nonbinary oppression is in and of itself exorsexist as it re-enforces the notion of nonbinary people as a "fake/illegitimate/unserious" gender group as opposed to the "real/legitimate/serious" gender binary; it furthers the passive yet chronic marginalization of nonbinary identities and contributes to the uphill battle of nonbinary issues to be recognized and seen as legitimate let alone acted upon and meaningfully changed. people using & perpetuating oversimplified and superficial frameworks for viewing and dealing with exorsexism (e.g. only accounting for purely transmasc and purely transfem nonbinary people and ignoring all other nonbinary identities) also contributes to the unwillful ignorance stated previously and also re-enforces the notion of nonbinary issues being mundane/unimportant/easily addressed compared to the issues of binary gendered people.

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I think it's cool that binary trans people can have their genders be recognized "by strangers" who otherwise know nothing about them but also I think the stranger's behavior is exorsexist as it not only leads to the misgendering of nonbinary people based on appearance, but also attempts to de-legitimatize nonbinary identities through forcing the only socially recognizable forms of gender expression to be that of binary gendered people. And yes even if these strangers recognize androgyny expecting all nonbinary people to express themselves androgynously is still exorsexist as it is forcing nonbinary people into that monolith/third gender just to receive some semblance of superficial recognition. As such this behavior should not be encouraged or expected from others.