For the ask thing- 28 25 and 38
28. Have you ever experienced the aspec obliviousness when it comes to someone flirting with you? How about innuendos?
i'm pretty sure that absolutely nobody has ever flirted with me which is either A. proof of me being oblivious or B. renders this whole question not applicable LMAO
the only thing i can really think of is one time in middle school me and this one guy had this ongoing game of like. finding each other in the most random situations and then just poking them really fucking hard like to the point where it was painful (both to receive it AND to actually do it yourself) and it got really aggressive and competitive at some point. but it was just a game??? but this one girl made some weird comment about how we needed to stop flirting with each other and it's like. i don't know about him but i am absolutely not flirting with him i just find joy in this stupidly high stakes game. but anyway after she said that we both kind of stopped so i think he also wasn't into it that way either so it got awkward for us both. lolll.
and again i don't think anyone ever like. uses innuendos on me personally? but i do sometimes have trouble figuring out certain innuendos just in like, casual conversation, but that may or may not be just because i am lacking in the social skills department overall. i think i tend to be a pretty literal person
25. Are you good at flirting? Do you flirt often?
absolutely noooooot. i think if i tried to flirt with anyone both me and the recipient would burst into flames
38. How many arospecs do you know online / IRL ?
i know absolutely zero (0) arospecs irl. as for online, quite a few of my mutuals are aro which is fun !! but even then i would say it's maybe like, ten people max? that i have any sort of actual personal interaction with at least
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