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Hello everyone, Neon Mods (specifically Moxxi) here

I'd like to apologize for the lack of posts recently. I know that this blog helps a lot of you but recently we've been burnt out. Not just that but a lot of the stuff said on SystemsCringe and FDC has been getting to me, and that's definitely not a good thing to happen

We'll start posting again soon hopefully- don't worry though, if we need another break we'll take one

[debunkingsystemscringe]

You're right, it's not legal (though it could be in Headspace, but not meatspace/ real life), but insys dating can be incredibly healthy. It can help with trauma as well as encourage stuff like integration (which isn't fusion, it's lowering amnestic barriers)

Also just so the redditors don't say stuff like "lol, source?" and so we can actually find some good material on plurality, could someone try to link some sources?

[debunkingsystemscringe]

!!!This blog is not meant to harass anyone, and any usernames will be censored!!!

Welcome to debunkingsystemscringe, where we look at posts on r/SystemsCringe and similar places, and debunk the reasons why the poster/comments believe that a system is "faking" or "cringe"

This blog is currently run by the Neon Garden (@welcometotheneongarden, #neon mods) a monoconscious, introject heavy system, and the four winds collective (@killerrqueztt / @the-real-wispetzz ) #4windz mods , a potential P-DID fictive heavy system.

We aren't experts on plurality, so if we missed anything when debunking posts, feel free to reblog/send an ask if you want to add anything

DNI: If you think that all systems are inherently medical regardless of if they're disordered or not, anti endo, anti tulpa (the idea of tulpas specifically, if you're against the term that's fine)/willogenic/thoughtform or use ""demo systems"" to hate on the endogenic community, if you use the term "traumascum", if you use any subreddits we debunk or support their ideas, anti xenogender/neopronouns, transmeds, and TERFs

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I would like to wish everyone who sent FakerBaiter any form of anon hate, suibait, harrasment, death threats, or has made false accusations about him a very

✨️Get off this fucking blog✨️

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[Image ID: A cropped screenshot of a Reddit post. The title reads, "I love all of you but I need a break". The post is flared with a light blue flair labeled 'Text Post'. The post itself reads, "I do truly appreciate the amount of support I have gotten over the past 5 months or so. Even though I get many hate comments, I also get just as many who acknowledge what I do, but overtime being as deep into the syscourse community as I have been has taken its toll. The endogenic community is fucking toxic. They have and continue to make me question my own mental health, and as I have mentioned in the past, have lead me down the path of believing I'm a system. I am grateful to my team for reminding me of the absurdity of that, though. Although I may still post once in a while, my accounts will remain moderately inactive. I guess for now I could say the endos win. The ones who have accused me of sexual assault, grooming, manipulation, and harassment. The ones who fill my inboxes with countless hate messages and suicide baiting. I hope you enjoy your worthless fucking victory. Get a life and get some help. As for the rest of you who don't follow me but are still active in syscourse: remember to take breaks and enjoy life. If you post in this sub or similar ones remember that posting doesn't come before anything else. Go spend some time with family, friends, and other loved ones. I may or may not be back. I just need some time. I love everyone on this sub, though. <3 You all have been awesome to mod. Keep it up! End ID]

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[debunkingsystemscringe]

Ever go onto r/SystemsCringe and see shit like this

And think to yourself, "wow, sounds familiar..."

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r/systemscringe actively participates in stuff like, well 'trauma olympics'. i had my opinion disregarded bc 'i have worse trauma than you' and 'being shouted at isnt abuse' (and other, generally rude comments, mainly around emotional abuse) and then they told me it didnt happen. (?????)

i think one time i talked about how my emotional abuse was belittled and they actively say harmful phrases like '[x, that can be abuse in some situations] isnt abuse', because i personally struggled in wondering what i experienced was abuse or not due to it not being physical.

its often phrases like "being shouted at isnt real abuse/trauma" or "lol being grounded isnt real abuse/trauma" when depending on the situation, anything could be trauma. being shouted at or having arguments is scary, especially when youre a kid and parents are just a massive authority figure to you. and being grounded can be traumatic to kids with no other outlets, being alone, especially with abusive parents.

i wonder how many emotional abuse survivors have been tricked into thinking what they experienced is not abuse..

(.. sorry if ive sent asks about this before its just. so disgusting to have my trauma almost disregarded, like its lesser when its not a competition, why not just heal together instead of comparing. )

The stuff they say is just awful, and I'm sorry that you had to experience that

They say that DID is a trauma disorder but they belittle those whose trauma isn't "bad enough"

Not to mention they actively say stuff like "I wish that these people knew what it felt like to be starved, beaten half to death, neglected, and sexually abused all before the age of 5, then maybe these fuckers wouldn't do this shit" which like... ewewewewwww! Don't wish that on anyone!

And that's ignoring the fact that:

1) They practically fakeclaim anyone, regardless of origin, just for being "cringy"

2) Endos CAN have trauma

3) That can make traumagenic systems who went through different trauma feel invalid and like their trauma "isn't enough"

[debunkingsystemscringe]

If there's a god, you guys are doing his/her/their work, man.

Systemcringe is a fucking plague. It made our host fall back into questioning and denial and it actually made our little doubt her own existence. Being able to show them your posts helps a lot - thanks!

- Shane

No problem! It's honestly shitty how many systems have this exact same experience, maybe we should make some positivity posts too. Idk, does that sound like a good idea? Maybe it could be a special day like Positivity Post Friday or something