#not polyamory

[brat-pack-it-up-boys]

Thinking about whatever the hell Dallas, Tim, and Sylvia have going on

[therivercrow]

Vague posting but ugh, I'm bad at friendship sometimes.

Caring for people is hard.

[polyamoryfacts]

I am very bemused that I am followed on my main by bots. I have about 100 followers over there. Most of which are themselves bots, I think. I get about 3 new bots per day, and pretty much no real people.

Meanwhile, here I have 4k+ followers, several posts with about 1k notes, and pretty much none of my followers are bots. (A lot of BDSM porn blogs, though, fascinatingly.) My new followers are pretty much always real people.

I am not bragging, but, like, what is the algorithm there. What use is that account of mine to bots? Wouldn't it make more sense to target this observably more popular side blog?

[aro-culture-is]

aro culture is beginning to question if you might be open to a ply qpr, but being unable to find any sort of community to dip your toes into and learn more about it :(

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[joxterjoestar]

my ex legit cheated on me 🧍it's been months ago but stuff r hard to process for me a ill post art when im doing better 🌼

[polythought]

Seeing memes like "do good deeds and tell no one" is something I have mixed feelings about. I know we're "supposed" to value not needing credit for stuff. And...I don't think I *need* credit? When I tell people I've done something that I think is good, it's not because I want a pat on the back. It's because I'm trying to encourage a culture of doing the same.

I know that if I hear a friend of mine did something awesome, that often inspires me to do it, too. Sometimes, a personal connection is motivating that way.

I worry that a lot of my friends might be doing good deeds and it'll never cross my mind that I could do something similar because I didn't hear about it.

Of course people can make general suggestions. Ideas. People can introspect about nice things to do based on what they've heard about strangers doing or strangers suggesting. Or things that have been done for them. Or an internal sense of what's right and altruistic. But I also think the chances of joining a trend increase the closer you are to the folks doing it. And if you don't know they're doing it, that opportunity may be lost.

So I'm going to go out on a limb and say...tell me the good things you're doing.

I don't actually think I believe that it's morally superior to tell no one.

[my-homosexual-romance]

I wasn't sure what to draw so I just used the colors of the flag to create this

Day 4: Polysexual

Also: Sorry it's a little late