Npd is also caused by how the brain is wired and genetics
Schizophrenia and other disorders like psychosis often are genetic as well!
What i am saying is, you having narcissism not stemming from trauma is a lot more common than you may realize. It doesn't make it special, you can look it up.
Not trying to be mean, but you're kind of invalidating people with npd who got it via genetics by making it sound like a choice (not saying your faking! I do believe you)
However it still is a disorder
Nowhere did I say it was a choice or that it was special, and I'm identifying in a way that makes me comfortable in myself and how I feel better describes my experiences and my own life.
Don't try and dictate my own choices and how I define myself. You do not have that kind of authority, no one does. So fuck off 🤎
Again, my life my terms. And I'm trying to create a safe space for others who might want to identify the same as me, which..... Having community and some to relate to is a good thing.
It's not offensive or invalidating to others, and if Narcmeds would stop harassing me and sending me death threats for giving myself a term that feels good and choosing to identify as de-medicalized that would be great.
People can exist and identity however they want to, if they don't want to be seen as disordered or medical, then thats their own choice. It hurts fuckin nobody, unless you're a petty bitch online who thinks you can control other people............