#npd stigma

[asexual-amanita]

Screw ‘narcissistic abuse awareness day’

PT: Screw ‘narcissistic abuse awareness day’ End PT

Your abuse was valid. Your ableism is not.

Narcissistic people don’t have some special secret way of abusing people that no one else is capable of doing.

If a NPD haver happened to be abusive, they’d use the regular abuse tactics every other shitty person uses.

Autistic people can be abusive, but we don’t call it autistic abuse. People with cerebral palsy can be abusive, but we don’t call it cerebral palsy abuse.

Being abusive is a choice, having a personality disorder is not.

Blame the person, not the disorder.

[kawaiiibunnii]

neurotypicals when they see borderlines: "omg ur disorder is such an aesthetic!! and it's super sexy too!! I'm gonna romanticize and infantilize you!!!"

neurotypicals when they see narcissists: "you're PURE evil!!!! you deserve pain and agony in your LIFE!!! I HATE you and I hope you die an awful DEATH!!"

neurotypicals when they see people with aspd: "you're even WORSE than narcissists!! you are a THREAT to society and you should be locked up for the rest of your life!!!"

neurotypicals when they see histrionics: "lol who are you??? I don't know anything about ur disorder, and I'm too lazy to look it up, so I'm just gonna ignore you and pretend you don't exist."

stop romanticizing and villainizing disorders, it's extremely ableist. disorders are something that deserve to be taken seriously and treated with respect. you're not a neurodivergent ally if you have a fetish for a disorder, or if you dehumanize people with disorders that aren't seen as "socially acceptable" ableism isn't just discriminating against people with autism or adhd, it also Includes discriminating against people with ASPD or narcissism. so therefore, degrading or sexualizing a disorder, DOES infact make you ableist!!

[autopsyfreak]

empaths will say ‘narcissists are evil’ but then go and write a tutorial on ways to psychologically abuse us.

go figure.

[npdculture]

npd culture is

no i dont want to hang out with you

I want you to want to hang out with me

💜

[the-bonfires-ember]

Narc abuse truthers: “Narcissists only care about manipulating you and breaking you like you’re a plaything for them 😡”

me, a Narcissistic Sociopath, getting supply from my friends therapists calling me a healthy influence, strong pillar of support, and a good friend: 🙂

[stargazers-satellite]

>"cluster b demonization isn't real! you're just making that up because you're attention seeking and wanna be a victim!!!"

>open internet browser

>"how to defeat narcissists" article is on the front page in the health tab

[director-yomi-hellsmile]

Jesus fucking christ so many times someone makes a post saying "stop calling and armchair diagnosing your abusers as narcissists, your dickwad dad did not have npd just because he was self-centered he was probably just an asshole" and there's millions of comments like "well CHECKMATE cuz MY abusers were actually diagnosed narcissists <3 so you are wrong and I don't count and I have the free pass to say anything I want about npd <3" "but im pretty sure my mom was a narcissist and it was so so scary i don't mean to say all people with npd are like that but im pretty sure my mom actually had it and it was so scary :((( i don't think all narcissists are abusive it's just. my mo-" "that is so true op!!! not ALL narcissists are abusers :)) most of them are but some of them do make an effort to not bother anyone with their nasty symptoms and go to intensive therapy to get cured and become normal!!! however we shouldn't erase the very silenced and overlooked experiences of narc abuse victims as many experts from quora can confirm it is indeed real". or even like "i agree and im not ableist and dont hate pwnpd!!! my mom was a narcissist though but its not the npd's fault but her own actions that made her abusive <3" like WHY ARE YOU TELLING US THIS. WHY WOULD YOU BRING THAT UP ON THAT POST. WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO PROVE. PLEASE SHUT UP NO ONE CARES .

[cemitadepollo]

Not a day passes by without me being mad as shit that ableism against demonized mental illnesses is normalised.

We are not criminals. We are not dangerous. We do not owe neurotypicals a complete explanation on why we developed our disorders and why we aren't serial killers that kidnap people.

Fuck hollywood, fuck ableist criminology and fuck saneism.