#odiumsexual

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Izaya Orihara from Durarara!! is a metasexual transmasculine cenrell chaegender person who uses he/him and it/its pronouns, and he’s in a wavership with Shizuo Heiwajima, an iresexual odiumsexual chaosgender angender 80scoric person who uses they/them and it/its pronouns, and a relationship with Shinra Kishitani, a panromantic cupiosexual transfeminine soapcoric genderstille demigirl who uses any pronouns but it/its!

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Toko Fukawa from Danganronpa is Odiumsexual (and/or Odiumromantic)!

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Odiumsexuality

I recently coined a term for a sexual orientation I feel I experience. Odiumsexuality. I’ve taken “odium” from Latin for “hate,” and I define this orientation as the involuntary attraction towards people you hate.

The pride flag I designed for it consists of black to represent the potential danger and darkness of dealing with these feelings, red to represent the hatred as well as the anger towards the person you hate and yourself for having such feelings, and hot pink to represent the exciting feeling of hooking up with someone you hate as well as the strong emotional nature of this orientation.

Nice! Thanks for the submission!

-Fy

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What It’s Like Being Odiumsexual

Odiumsexuality is often written off as just wanting to have hate sex, which, I can see why, but let me tell you what it really feels like. When I dislike or hate someone, I usually become more attracted to them, regardless of gender. It could be someone who just annoys me a lot, someone I argue with, someone who even treats me horribly, etc. I don’t just desire sex alone. I start wanting an actual relationship with them. I get crushes.

The first time I recall it happening was when my friend began talking behind my back a few years ago. I started disliking her, which made me develop a crush on her. I didn’t act on the feelings, but I started wanting to go out with her.

I’m not gonna lie, it can be really frustrating. Imagine someone you hate more than anything else and then suddenly crushing on them. Oof.

The reason I made this blog is to spread awareness and inform people of what it really feels like, so maybe less people who have these feelings will be dismissed as just having a kink or being a slut.

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Odiumsexual Pride Heart Emoji for Discord

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Odiumsexual Song Playlist

Love Me Dead - Ludo

Like Lovers Do - Hey Violet

I Hate You - Sick Puppies

I Miss The Misery - Halestorm

I Hate Everything About You - Three Days Grace

Over and Over - Three Days Grace

You Are So Beautiful - Escape the Fate

Not Strong Enough - Apocalyptica

Time is Running Out - Muse

You Make Me Sick - Egypt Central

Criticize - Adelitas Way

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Odiumsexuality ~ the sexual attraction to people you hate.

The black represents the danger and darkness of this sexuality, as hooking up with people you hate often leads to toxicity.

The red represents the intense feelings of hatred and anger towards the person you’re attracted to as well as the anger towards yourself for having such feelings for them.

The hot pink represents the exciting feeling of hooking up with an ‘enemy’ and the strong emotional nature of this attraction.