PSA for the Tomarry fandom:
I've been getting harassed for months by a well-known troll who has harassed multiple Tomarry shippers,
and now the harasser is trying to accuse me of being the infamous anonymous troll (quite transparently herself) who's being bothering everyone.
Even though I've been one of the people getting harassed the most here.
I had this sitting in my drafts for a long time, but after the "defamation" using my username — and after a brief and private exchange between us earlier, where I saw her trying to fabricate the narrative by pushing the label of me being the anon troll onto me, even going so far as to praise me for it — I finally decided to post.
She is a known harasser who turns the users she fixates on into her personal scapegoats, and she very likely runs multiple alts. Her behavior and track record pretty much speak for themselves. She has a pretty bad reputation among Tomarry shippers, and this whole persecution is probably happening because I'm always answering asks and making metas without backing down from the hate I get.
So yes, I was receiving hateful anon asks obsessively. I suspect that many of them are from her, and I'll explain why I think that is the case. But I want to make it clear; she has been trying to accuse me of impersonating her, which would conveniently cast me as the person responsible for harassing other shippers and even users within my own fandom. All while trying to manipulate things to make it look like I am the main problem, and even claiming that we had already communicated through the hprambles-blog, which I had no idea she was active on. I interacted with that blog only a few times anonymously; most of my interactions were public. So she probably knew who I was all along, since I would occasionally comment on and reblog posts there mostly about my ship and its characters, not hers.
Quite different from her mentioning and tagging Tomarry on her own blog.
And she has no direct or concrete evidence linking me to any of the things she's trying to accuse me of. Unlike her, I literally have no history of threatening anyone or trying to stir up drama with other users. You can just look at my blog. She is someone who spent months harassing me over my opinions and digging for anything she could use to fabricate an image of me.
Meanwhile, I have a very straightforward screenshot showing her doing the exact things (death threats and harassment: the ones linked to the anonymous troll) she claims I am doing.
Also, the weird intention to tarnish the reputation of a specific Tomarry shipper is quite clear here:
I'm a passionate Tomarry shipper, and since I'm always actively sharing and defending my opinions, she has developed this unhealthy fixation on me, so much so that she keeps trying to compete with my posts. Which is pretty ironic coming from someone who is just now accusing me of being the one tormenting her.
Also, I already spoke with her privately months ago, but in a very different context than now, where she pretended to help me with a problem that she was probably causing herself, and I showed and explained why. So, this person has been obsessed with me for months. Even going so far as sending me anon asks pretending to agree with my opinions while simultaneously trying to trash me. One day, when I questioned this and confronted her (likely) alts directly — once months ago and again just a few weeks ago — she pretended it wasn't her, acting strangely nice in the process.
So yes, fugamalefica, I really hope you are reading this. I'm fed up with you interfering in my fandom, trying to make me your punching bag, and now potentially trying to turn me into a scapegoat for your own actions. It doesn't matter that I'm a shipper who loves to argue and make metas about a ship you clearly don't like. I am not going to tolerate your attempts to make me your naive victim. Just as I've never backed down from the anon hate I have been receiving all these months.
Sincerely, I'm exhausted and I just want to clear things up for you all and to warn you to be cautious with this sort of person. And yes, I linked here a lot of posts from this one, which I'm explaining and giving context for.
Main context: At the time, I was dealing with a lot of arguments about feminine-coded and masculine-coded dynamics from anons who showed up just to insult me over my opinions on the topic. The harasser knew about this and was probably the one who made a 'satire' post saying "Lord Voldemort is 1000% masculine". She knew exactly how to bait me with a fake satire post about it, since I've been interacting with this idea. I interacted with the post at first, but then deleted my reaction when I started suspecting the account wasn't actually satire, considering the blog's further content and how it started interacting strangely with my suspected harasser. And, coincidentally, just now fugamalefica is using it against me, probably because she created the post herself and was just waiting for my reaction. It is what she calls "evidence to boot".
Someone even sent me this anonymously, and I was honest about it. Now I'm wondering if it was actually her who sent the ask. I only started realizing this after seeing the posts from the 'fake satire account' @sanguisdelux, which is possibly her and I blocked now. And a very suspicious account that interacted with my blog practically confirmed this.
Also, a few weeks ago I got a very interesting anon ask. One that made a theory click in my mind about the anonymous troll's real intention. And it lines up perfectly with what she's trying to do to me now, turning me into the troll persona she herself invented. ↓
Even though I'd already suspected her, I didn't have proof. Not until she orchestrated all this recent drama to pin everything on me and wipe her hands clean of the problems she has been causing for me and for others for months. It is no surprise she had been planning to blame me for so long, creating situations where I would conveniently fit the narrative she wanted. So I really think that she and her transphobic friend are finding all of this very entertaining. And yes, I found out about that "insignificant" little detail about her best friend from the exposed (the first linked post) someone sent me about her and some racist she was connected with. Congrats to both of them for keeping such a terrible track record while still trying to pin all of this on me. Truly brilliant.
Also, I was talking about all of this with some of my mutuals on Discord and ended up venting the entire situation to them; from my initial suspicions to the fact that fugamalefica had reached out to me months ago in private, pretending to help, and I trusted her at the time because I thought we were both being targeted by the same harasser, who was just her all along.















