The 1st person accused fugamalefica → Behavioral pattern: death threats, anonymous attacks, obsession, sporadic victim mentality.
The 2nd person accused thedarkladyascending → Behavioral pattern: racism, drama instigator, the 1st person’s scapegoat.
Let’s start introducing the obsessed Bellamort fangirl (fugamalefica: the harasser the 1st person), who has very strong opinions about Tomarrymort and has already harassed a shipper. Now she’s targeting a pro-Snape blogger (maxdibert).
This is the original post. The three screenshots above are just one of the comments made on that. Many of her replies were deleted, just like in another more recent discussion on the pro-Snape blogger’s post.
maxdibert had already been harassed days earlier by the same person in a different account. Also I’ve posted more of the weird comments she’s received since then ← (The first screenshot linked is from the same harasser.)
Another drama stirred up by some Marauders stans who already dislike the maxdibert, and fueled by fugamalefica. She’s been forming ties with some Marauders fans who dislike maxdibert, solely to attack her as a group.
Here’s a sequence of posts from the fangirl. More anon asks harassing maxdibert → I am not saying they’re from fugamalefica, I’m just pointing out the mess caused by the drama she stirred up. Plus, it’s coincidental suspicious that ever since that maxdibert made a post about Bellamort, she hasn’t stopped getting anonymous hate. And some of the maxdibert’s reactions to the whole drama.
(She was still receiving anon asks even after I’ve made this post. The account that reblogged it is the same one with a rose on her profile that’s been harassing maxdibert over Bellamort.)
Just to confirm that the blogger with a rose on her profile and fugamalefica are likely the same person. They literally have the same writing style, the same arguments, and their patterns are very similar. Plus, both like to mock the same user and her OC “Mila”. The mocked user is Rose, the one with no profile picture in the screenshots, the same user fugamalefica frequently used to mention on her own main account.
No beating around the bush: Rose (thedarkladyascending: the 2nd person) is both a real user with whom the fangirl has a certain obsession, as well as a term she uses to refer to anyone who gets into a major conflict with her over Bellamort. As we saw in the case above.
Let’s start with the fact that Rose and fugamalefica already have a long history of arguments. During this ongoing pursuit – following the same pattern we saw in the maxdibert’s case – Rose’s OC, Mila, has been a frequent target the fangirl uses to attack her.
Before the change, Rose’s username was lovelycyberdragon. Her most recent change, according to what’s shown in the screenshots, is thedarkladyascending. At the end of this post, I have linked all the blogs.
At some point during this drama between both, Rose made racist comments against fugamalefica. Regardless of whether it was a poor attempt to rely on the death threats and other slurs that Rose claims to have suffered, and which would be plausible given the fangirl’s track record presented here, responding on the same level by being xenophobic and racist will never be acceptable. Racism cannot be overlooked, and I’m already addressing it further throughout this post.
Now, having exposed Rose’s real comments, it’s important to note that there is a difference between her comments, and the ones trying to impersonate her anonymously.
There is a difference, where the anon ones clearly sound like impersonations and mockery, rather than something Rose herself, or anyone else, would say about themselves. The same happens in those anon asks.
What’s the logic behind the lies? fugamalefica pretends to be Rose, endorses CSA, and fabricates a death threat, all as a way to attack Rose’s OC for being romantically involved with Voldemort. At the same time, she uses the fake death threat to claim that Rose made threats too, trying to shift the blame and make herself look like the victim.
It’s a tactic to discredit Rose while justifying her own behavior. If Rose is seen as equally toxic, then fugamalefica can escape judgment for her actions.
In the post “Who is Rose?” made by fugamalefica – the same one from whom I took the screenshots above – she compares Rose to another user who also holds opposing opinions about Bellamort, but who is not Rose. She has already made her point in this post and says she will make a follow-up response regarding, so I won’t go into too much detail here.
The main argument used by the fangirl is that both Rose and the other user use the same phone model and the same browser, while one of them was using a VPN to change their location (it is a common tool that hides your IP address and generates a fake one in its place.) Rose has a Samsung phone, so it makes sense that she appears in the first screenshot, especially since she actually commented on the fugamalefica’s fanfic, as I showed above.
Now, let’s understand that the mention of the other user using a VPN to access the fangirl’s fanfic simply doesn’t seem logical. If both are Rose, why would Rose suddenly think about using a tool that masks her location? What’s the benefit of that, if technically she wasn’t hiding her real IP address before? It’s extremely convenient to say that they are both Rose, since one decided to contact Rose because they were both being harassed by fugamalefica. A whole kind of reverse psychology. And, in fact, it would make more sense to point out that Rose simply decided to turn on a VPN for whatever mystifying reason, rather than just accusing some random person of being Rose too. Of course, unless you particularly have something against that other person too.
Also, it’s important to mention that fugamalefica has a Samsung, which makes it very easy for her to forge the image. Especially since she knows they are from different countries, yet still dishonestly claims they are the same person. Dragging someone into the Rose drama, just because that person holds views that oppose hers regarding Bellamort. The fangirl was simply trying to kill two birds with one stone.
And yes, as I’ve already talked to this other user to gather evidence, I have proof of fugamalefica saying that she also uses Samsung, and that she knows the user isn’t from UK (Rose’s country). However, I won’t post it here until she speaks out on her own blog.
FYI: Rose was racist, and an exposed post about her actions would be enough. However, sincerity about everything could also harm fugamalefica’s side, right? Considering her habit of harassing her “enemies.”
In fairness terms, Rose is also being exposed for her concern comments. And fugamalefica using that as a way to take advantage, by spreading false evidence instead of raising true awareness, takes away some of her credibility as a victim in other situations she claims to be. Including the alt account exposed above in maxdibert’s case, and other anon asks on her own page pretending to be Rose, and now maxdibert’s anon haters too.
Also, we need to understand each individual situation and not just its connections. I have more proof of fugamalefica’s actions, and I’m exposing that just like I did with Rose. And it’s a matter of proportionality. If Rose were the one constantly involved and creating drama, I’d have more information about her instead.
Having suffered racism from someone you had been harassing for months does not make you a victim in all cases, as we’re seeing in this post. The fangirl is just as wrong for having used a racist term to refer to the pro-Snape blogger as she was for having harassed Rose for months. And Rose is wrong for responding with racism.
I can’t say, for myself, who suffered or is suffering more. That’s not the question. But I can point out each person’s mistakes, simply by highlighting the actions of each individual that I was able to filter out.
fugamalefica’s obsession goes beyond Bellamort
There’s an obsession on fugamalefica’s part to create context around Rose’s name and to almost always mention it on her blog. I have these screenshots here, here, here, here, and the weird humor of making jokes about her and Rose, well, you’ll see. Just a reminder that it doesn’t even cover everything about this obsession.
As mentioned in the screenshot of my email conversation with Rose, there is also a fanfic made by the fangirl or one of her friends, created to mock her. Just further proof that they have fun with drama.
Quite convenient, the similarity between an anon bashing Tomarry, the writing style of the fangirl, and Rose's impersonator, isn’t it?
I’ll also be leaving a few more weird comments made by fugamalefica on other posts. Besides proving that she blocks accounts so they can’t reply to her, with her openly admitting it.
Another red flag is the fact that she has a friend who shares very problematic opinions about transgender people, and she’s well aware of it.
Even in the only instance where she might have been considered a victim – the situation with Rose’s comments (regardless of whether the fangirl used slurs or death threats before) – she still went out of her way to fabricate multiple narratives to paint herself as a poor victim in every possible situation, just to gain attention. Meanwhile, in her own anon asks, it’s been nothing but baseless bullying and a stream of false information, just like what’s now happening with maxdibert.
Now, what can I say about Rose herself?
Rose is someone who hasn’t had any issue responding in a racist manner. On top of that, she keeps engaging with some pretty questionable and unhinged anon asks from the Bellamort fangirl or someone who knows them. It would be way easier if Rose just blocked those asks and any account they popped up with, but that’s not what she does. Instead, she fuels the drama by allowing that behavior to continue on her blog.
So, they’re two users with a personal drama, and whenever some conflict ends up involving fugamalefica, Rose somehow gets dragged into it and made the scapegoat. Sometimes it’s Rose herself who mentions the fangirl on her blog, although, based on what I’ve observed, she does this much less frequently. And even though her account is invisible to anyone who doesn’t follow her, Rose knows fugamalefica visits her blog often and tends to involve other people in their drama. Acknowledging all of Rose’s actions, it’s hard not to say that she contributes to the fangirl’s drama being brought to other users.
We can’t always rely on Tumblr to do something about these issues. So, we’re left to act with what we have.
Now, here’s a question: What if the very thing you love most becomes a reflection of your fractured mental health, rather than something that enriches you, driving you to seek attention, even the negative kind, just to feel some sense of internal validation?
Check the thread below if you want to know more about the users and my response to some reblogs and comments I received. Most of them are just additional information.
Since I keep updating the informations or adding more over time, I prefer to just keep everything in this same post. Also, the blogger trying to debunk the material evidence I’ve presented is using outdated info, since I have already updated this post with more details. So wasting time with countless reblogs only makes it harder to understand the real situation and turns everything into a messy drama, exactly what the harassers are trying to create, and I’m not going to let that happen.
The accused bloggers (UPDATED):
• The Bellamort fangirl’s main account
• The alt | troll account (prev.: ringaringaroseslol, allthetiiiime)
The Bellamort fangirl’s reblog and my final response:
• I didn’t accuse you of having multiple accounts, you’re the one putting yourself in the spotlight. I simply pointed out the striking similarities between you and a user who was harassing the pro-Snape blogger over Bellamort just days before she exposed you and your friend in a post. Also, showing that you don’t have any other sideblogs on your profile isn’t enough proof, since right after I made that post, at least two empty accounts (which seemed freshly made) showed up defending you and accusing me of blaming the victim. So, you could’ve just logged out or be using other accounts in your browser.
• Being a victim of racism doesn’t automatically make someone innocent in every other possible situation. And I’m not going to rehash the whole impersonation issue, I already provided multiple pieces of evidence that you were sending anonymous asks to yourself about being “Rose” and making up stories, clearly enjoying the drama. The same pattern you followed regarding the pro-Snape blogger, someone who had no reason whatsoever – other than having mentioned not considering Bellamort canon – for you to bring her into your drama and try to associate her with Rose.
There are speeches against providing evidence. If you’re unsure about what the fangirl says she does or doesn’t do, you can simply check the screenshots I sent and draw your own conclusions. There’s no point in going over the same issue again and again when everything being debated, whether it’s true or not, can be cleared up just by looking at the screenshots. Everything is here.
You, like Rose, think death threats are worse than racism just because they're illegal
I can’t believe I even have to say this: harassment, death threats, and racist comments are all morally and ethically illegal.
I am not saying for certain that this account is Rose but there's a high possiblity it is.
ministry-watchlist helps her with it.
Even if you're not Rose herself
My final piece of advice: stop fabricating false narratives that you can’t prove, and don’t escalate things into more harassment. You could’ve just blocked the people you don’t like and moved on with your life.
So, I’m not going to turn this into a never-ending back-and-forth. My original intention was simply to show literal screenshots of the others’ shady and inappropriate behavior. If you want to keep playing your game, you can do it on your own blog, with friends who support and condone those actions.
Instead of giving me another speech and once again using “Rose” as your smokescreen, you could’ve just told me your real reasons. The time you had to be honest about your actions, without deflecting and turning it into a show for everyone, has run out.
I wonder if you are reading this on another account, just know you’re already on the blacklist (blocked).
