#overcommitting

[adhdnap]

I'm in these and I don't like it.

[caveinspencer]

gahd me today and me from last year are gonna have WORDS when i get home wtf was i THINKING

[astertimberwolf]

I have made a mistake- Many mistakes actually-

Have you ever self-sabotaged by being too overly abitious?

Yeah... It sounds backwards, but you can actually commit to too much at once and it all comes back to bite you in the arse by causing schedule conflicts. You end up having to say no to amazing opportunities handed to you on a silver platter because you're powering through deadlines... Which in turn makes you look unreliable because you overcommit.

Please, someone, save me from myself-

😭😭😭😭💀💀💀

If I sign up to one more thing- I swear to God I'll cut my own hand off.

Ugh nfjfkdkk m

[zoopupofficial]

Are you making these common freelancer mistakes? Take control of your freelance career and avoid these pitfalls.

[thechemiedemon]

Goals

goals are tough, they're easy to set but hard to keep up with, and we can get way in over our heads with them, if you dont reach all of your goals thats okay, just keep trying your best and thats good enough for now, all i want you to do is think of one simple thing that you can do right now to take care of yourself, and that can just be taking a dirty cup out to the kitchen, or even just trying to take a nap, thats all, im proud of you for doing the thing

[californiacozy]

How to be busy in college…and survive

 I’ve always thrived by being a part of lots of different activities, and while college is no exception, balancing everything can definitely be a challenge sometimes! Here’s some tips I’ve picked up while trying to make it work with school, multiple jobs, student government, and a long distance relationship.

Google calendar is your best friend.

I’ve tried all sorts of methods of organizing, but Google calendar is definitely my favorite. It’s free to use and you can share your calendar with friends and co-workers so they can see when you’re free. You can even synch it up to the calendar app on your phone so you’ll get reminders before events! As someone who usually never has the same daily or weekly schedule twice, this feature has seriously SAVED MY LIFE (or at least kept me from missing important meetings!)

Find a way of organizing and stick to it.

In addition to Google calendar, I also bullet journal and use the “reminders” app on my phone. Whenever I get an assignment, I write down the due date on my calendar and journal and set a to-do item on the reminder app so I can start later that day. This system works best for me, but you should take time to figure out what works for you, whether it be bullet journaling, reminders on post-it notes, or a pre-made planner.

Aesthetics aren’t everything

I know, I know…as members of the Studyblr community, we are constantly surrounded by perfectly copied notes and meticulous mind maps. But sometimes you just don’t have time to make everything look as pretty as it should. Sometimes I struggle with perfectionism and obsess over making things look aesthetically perfect, but I always have to remind myself that some things aren’t worth stressing over. There is usually a point where I feel confident in my knowledge of the material without making flash cards for every term or revising my essay for a third time. The key here is to not sacrifice time for aesthetics once you’ve reached that point.

Figure out what kind of schedule works for you!

At my university, there are classes that meet twice a week for 1.5 hours each and those that meet three times for an hour. I generally function best when I can really dive into material, so I try to take the longer classes whenever possible. Then I schedule work and meetings on campus throughout those days, which generally leaves me with 1-2 free or lowkey days every week. Because I know this kind of schedule doesn’t fit everyone’s lifestyle, figure out if you function best in the mornings or at night, with shorter or longer lecture times, or with a schedule that will have you going hard twice a week like me or has everything spaced out throughout. That said...

Bring your stuff with you!

This sounds like a no-brainer, but seriously…if there is any chance you will have some free time in between classes or activities, pack something to do. I normally bring my notebook and laptop with readings on it wherever I go so I can read a few pages when I have a chance. The more you get done during the day, the less you’ll have to do when you get home. This is especially important if you live off campus and won’t necessarily have a chance to go home throughout the day.

If you travel, try to simplify your schedule (and take time for yourself!)

Because of student government and my relationship, I end up traveling quite a bit, which can unfortunately really mess up my routine sometimes. Be sure to get plenty of rest the week leading up to your trip (as well as while you’re there). I also try to finish as much homework as possible before I go, so I just have easy assignments to do (like reading) while I’m there. If you’re really exhausted afterwards (and your schedule allows it), try to take a mental health day as soon as you get back. (This also works if you have an all day event or other really intense activity going on over the weekend so you can reclaim the rest you’d normally be able to get for the upcoming week)

Above all remember self-care

Take time for yourself. Seriously. Even if you have a million things going on at once, be sure to take a few minutes every day to clear your mind and practice self-care by taking a nap, watching Netflix, exercising, or hanging out with friends. Remember that everyone’s ideal schedule is different, and don’t force yourself to take on more than you can or want to. Believe me, saying no is HARD, but sometimes totally worth it for an extra few hours of sleep or a night out with friends. Remember that YOU are amazing, no matter what your life looks like! <3

[thenotquitedoctor-blog]

My former PI had a sign over her desk that read "Always under-commit and over-deliver." I am now truly appreciating the wisdom of that phrase. I think I need to write it on my forehead because I have entirely too much on my plate for the foreseeable future (granted some of it is things I have 0 control over. Attending a family member's funeral is not exactly what you would call optional in my book) and an incredibly frustrating knack for saying yes to things (or rather, an inability to say no...at least that's somewhat improving) and then trying to miraculously do 25 things at a time. Clearly the solution is to just clone myself.

[ap0calypse-chic]

So much to do. Work and commuting and blogs and stories and articles and reading books and going to the gym and doing yoga and having dates and making dinners and cleaning everything and seeing people and going crazy and having tantrums when I don't get my way...

and so little time.