#pagancommunity

[malefixium]

the trees you grew up with have not forgotten you. their branches still whisper your name in the breeze and their roots remember the paths your feet once traced through their shade.

[nikkas-cottage]

Special spring tapers I made in honor of Persephone’s return 🌸

[akkifuar]

Ветер нежно колышет золотые волны рапса, это бескрайнее море, сверкающее под заходящим солнцем. Цветы наполняют вечерний воздух ароматом, сладко-горьким, терпким, немного землистым и меланхоличным.

[eclipseshadows365]

Little Heathen Rant

I think a big part of being a Heathen/Norse Pagan is looking at all of these Hellenic Polytheist, Wiccan, etc communities and being so jealous. They seem to always have these great big communities online that they can be apart of and join covens, find mentors, and most importantly, just talk.

Like do you know what I would do to just express my love for the gods and have someone actually understand? I don't want to constantly have to pray, talk, cry, do rituals, always alone. Don't get me wrong we don't have it the worst, I know that. Celtics, Egyptian pagans, certain closed practices, etc. They all have it worse, at least we have some kind of modern media but still it just sucks. I think some of it is because of how much we lost regarding Heathenry, as well as we do get a bad wrap sometimes. I promise we're not all bad you guys!

Like Odin is so-so amazing and will always step in to help you with whatever you are struggling to learn. Thor is always protecting us, Freyja will help you find the balance between fighting and love, Loki teaches to find peace in the chaos, Hel teaches you to accept death is just as valid as any other stage of life. UGH!

Please don't take this as like 'Angry heathen yells at hellenistic pagans and wiccans' because like I started as one of you and I miss it so much sometimes but it's not my calling. And I am sooo glad you guys have these amazing communities, sometimes I just get so sad.

Okay rants over I suppose, blessed be and all that corny stuff

[xo-kosmickisses-xo]

🕯️ DEITY WORK 101: What It Is & Is It For You?

Hello beautiful souls ✨

Let's talk about something that gets romanticized, oversimplified, and misunderstood in equal measure: deity work.

Social media makes it look easy. Light a candle, say a prayer, suddenly Aphrodite is your bestie and Hades is sliding into your DMs. But deity work is neither that simple nor that casual.

It's one of the most profound—and demanding—aspects of witchcraft. And it's not for everyone.

This post will help you understand what deity work actually is, what it requires, and whether it's a path you should walk.

WHAT IS DEITY WORK?

Deity work is the practice of building relationship with gods, goddesses, or divine forces. It's not just reading about them or having them on your altar. It's active, ongoing engagement.

It can look like:

Daily devotions and prayers

Making regular offerings

Meditating to receive guidance

Dedicating specific practices or actions to a deity

Allowing a deity's energy to influence your life

Building a relationship that spans years or lifetimes

It's NOT:

Collecting deities like Pokémon

Calling on gods only when you need something

Assuming every synchronicity is a deity reaching out

Treating gods like cosmic vending machines

Using deities as personality aesthetics

Deity work is relationship. And like any relationship, it requires time, attention, reciprocity, and respect.

TYPES OF DEITY WORK

CASUAL VENERATION

You honor a deity occasionally. You might call on them for specific spells, celebrate their feast days, or keep their image on your altar. The relationship is respectful but not central to your practice.

Time commitment: Occasional

Intensity: Low to medium

Good for: People drawn to a deity's energy but not ready for deeper commitment

DEVOTIONAL PRACTICE

You've committed to regular interaction. Daily prayers, weekly offerings, consistent altar maintenance. The deity becomes a steady presence in your life.

Time commitment: Daily to weekly

Intensity: Medium to high

Good for: People seeking ongoing guidance and willing to show up consistently

DEDICATED SERVICE

You've pledged yourself to a deity. Your practice revolves around them. Major life decisions are made in consultation with them. This is priest/priestess-level work.

Time commitment: Daily, often multiple times

Intensity: Very high

Good for: People called to serve, teach, or embody a deity's work in the world

POSSESSION/ASPECTING

You allow a deity to work through you—speaking, moving, acting through your body. This is advanced, requires training, and carries significant risk.

Time commitment: Variable, but requires extensive preparation

Intensity: Extreme

Good for: Experienced practitioners in traditions that support this work

Most people start with casual veneration. Some move to devotional practice. Few are called to dedication or possession.

Don't skip steps.

SIGNS YOU MIGHT BE CALLED TO DEITY WORK

A specific deity keeps appearing in your life (dreams, synchronicities, random mentions)

You feel a pull toward a particular mythology or pantheon

You're seeking guidance beyond your own wisdom

You want accountability in your spiritual practice

You're drawn to devotional acts (prayer, offerings, ritual)

You feel incomplete practicing magic without spiritual relationship

A deity's domain aligns with work you're doing (healing, justice, creativity, etc.)

BUT—and this is crucial—interest doesn't equal calling.

You can be fascinated by Egyptian mythology without needing to work with Egyptian gods. You can love the idea of Hecate without being called to serve her.

Not every attraction is an invitation.

SIGNS DEITY WORK ISN'T FOR YOU (Right Now)

You're dealing with mental health challenges that make it hard to distinguish intuition from delusion

You want the aesthetic without the commitment

You're looking for external validation instead of internal work

You can't maintain consistent practices (no judgment—some people can't, and that's okay)

You're drawn to the power/status of "being chosen" more than the actual relationship

You're in crisis and looking for someone to fix your life

You prefer working solo and don't want accountability to anything beyond yourself

None of these make you less of a witch. Deity work is one path among many. Some witches never work with deities and have powerful, fulfilling practices.

You don't need gods to do magic.

COMMON MISCONCEPTIONS

"If a deity reaches out, you HAVE to respond."

No. You have free will. Deities can call. You can decline. Respectfully, but firmly. Not every call is meant for you.

"The gods need us as much as we need them."

This is modern, ego-soothing nonsense. The gods existed before humans and will exist after. They don't need your worship. They may want relationship, but that's different.

"All deities are just aspects of one divine force."

Some traditions believe this. Others don't. Don't assume your theology applies to someone else's gods. Hecate is not interchangeable with Kali just because they both involve darkness.

"You can work with any deity from any culture."

No. Some deities and practices are closed—meaning they belong to specific cultures or require initiation. Respect those boundaries. (More on this in the cultural appropriation post later in this series.)

"Deity work is always gentle and loving."

Some deities are harsh. Some will test you. Some will demand sacrifices you're not ready to make. Some will drag you through shadow work whether you like it or not. This isn't abuse—it's the nature of certain divine forces.

"You have to be perfect to work with deities."

No. You have to be sincere. The gods don't expect perfection. They expect honesty, effort, and respect.

WHAT DEITIES ACTUALLY WANT

Respect. Don't treat them like cosmic customer service.

Reciprocity. Give as much as you ask. Offerings, devotion, time, action in the world.

Consistency. Show up. Even when it's inconvenient. Especially when it's inconvenient.

Honesty. Don't perform piety you don't feel. They know.

Growth. Deity work will change you. If you're not willing to be transformed, don't start.

Embodiment. They don't just want your prayers—they want you to live their values. If you work with a justice deity, you better be doing justice work in the world.

HOW TO START (If You're Called)

1. RESEARCH

Learn everything you can about the deity. Read myths. Study their culture. Understand their domain, symbols, offerings, taboos.

Don't just skim a Tumblr post. Go deep.

2. OBSERVE

Before making contact, watch for signs. Are they already present in your life? What patterns emerge?

Don't manufacture signs. Real calls are persistent, clear, and often uncomfortable.

3. REACH OUT RESPECTFULLY

Set up a small altar space. Light a candle. Speak aloud: "I'm interested in knowing you. If you're willing to work with me, I'm here."

Then wait. Listen. Pay attention to dreams, synchronicities, shifts in your life.

4. START SMALL

Don't pledge your life in the first conversation. Offer a weekly devotion. A simple prayer. A small offering.

See how it feels. See if the deity responds.

5. BUILD SLOWLY

If the relationship deepens, gradually increase your commitment. More frequent offerings. More structured practice. Deeper study.

Let it grow organically. Don't force intimacy.

6. ESTABLISH BOUNDARIES

Yes, even with gods. You're allowed to say "not now" or "this far, no further." A healthy deity relationship respects your autonomy.

If a deity demands more than you can give, renegotiate. If they refuse, walk away.

RED FLAGS

A deity tells you you're "special" or "chosen" above others.

Ego bait. Real deities don't need to flatter you into service.

You're told to isolate from other practitioners or traditions.

Cult behavior. Even devoted practitioners maintain community.

Every bad thing in your life is blamed on "angering the deity."

This is fear-based manipulation. Deities have better things to do than micromanage your life with punishments.

You're demanded to do something illegal, harmful, or violating your ethics.

Not a deity. Either a trickster entity, your own shadow, or mental health crisis. Get help.

The relationship feels entirely one-sided (you give everything, receive nothing).

Parasitic. Either you're working with something that's not what it claims, or you've misunderstood the deity's nature.

You feel worse, not better.

Growth can be uncomfortable, but deity work should ultimately make you more yourself, not less. If you're deteriorating, something's wrong.

THE BOTTOM LINE

Deity work isn't mandatory. It's not superior to working without deities. It's one path among many.

But if you're called—truly called—it's transformative. You gain wisdom, guidance, accountability, and connection to forces larger than yourself.

You also gain responsibility. To show up. To grow. To embody the deity's work in the world.

It's not about power or status. It's about relationship. And relationship requires commitment, reciprocity, and respect.

Don't start if you're not ready. The gods will wait. They've been here for millennia. They can wait for you to be ready too.

YOUR TURN

Have you felt called to deity work? Which deities?

Are you already practicing? What's your relationship like?

Or are you drawn to a deity-free practice? What does that look like for you?

Let's talk. This is where we learn from each other's experiences.

Blessed be 🕯️

The gods don't need you. But if they want you, you'll know. And if you want them, approach with respect, not entitlement.

[theblasianwitch]

[leafy-warlock]

Suggestions for what to include on my altar for Sappho? I'm going to have a mini lesbian flag and some of her poetry, but other than that I'm at a loss.

[the-fire-within0]

I'm a Dionysus devotee, of course I have a long line of alcoholics.