no, I'm gonna say it out loud actually:
Cliques and circles forming in fandom is normal. People with similar tastes and opinions will naturally flock together.
This is because for most people, fandom is a fun and relaxing thing they engage with in their limited spare time. Most people do not want to spend that free time obsessing over things that annoy, anger, or upset them.
It might therefore seem like something is uncontroversial when it in fact is not. But, again, most people do not spend their days endlessly complaining about things they hate because, to most people, this sort of constant negativity is draining. It is much more fun and rewarding to engage with things or people we like.
Eventually, most people will develop a tendency to simply ignore, filter out, and block the things/people that annoy them, because engaging with those things very quickly gets frustrating.
Yes, that does create an environment where a certain type of fraudster can thrive. This is not a flaw; this is every human community ever. Unless, of course, you are surrounded by people who are extremely hostile towards and suspicious of everyone around them. That wouldn't be much of a community though, would it?
Because, and I cannot stress this enough, most people do not go around scrutinizing the backstory and personal life of everyone they meet. We generally believe each other, and not doing so, as default, is deranged. Suspecting everyone who writes fic you find distasteful or has opinions you dislike of being this much of a fraudster is not a healthy attitude to have. Extending goodwill and grace towards your friends is normal.
Again, yes, liars and manipulators will exploit that. But that's not the fault of the people being lied to.
If you perceive only yourself and the people you like as individuals with nuanced opinions and everyone else as a hostile hivemind out to get you, you might have a tiny bit of a persecution complex going on.
If you make this situation about your silly little shipwar, then idk what to tell you.




















