I love merthur. They are the type of soulmate troupe I die for.
But after reading a lot of merthur fanfiction, I’m on the verge of hating Arthur’s character. Merlin just has to work so hard, even in the good ones, and most authors don’t even seem to realize that their manservant and prince relationship doesn’t work when it turns romantic. Arthur needs to change, he can’t treat his lover as a servant. And he freaking needs to grow up and learn how to deal with emotions and be there for Merlin. Else it won’t work!
Honestly, I like merthur, probably will always ship it, but at this point I just want to grab Merlin and shove him at Mordred so he can feel what it is to be loved, emotionally supported, and to hear words of appreciation... I certainly don’t think they are soulmates, in fact, I think Merlin is far from what Mordred needs, but I can’t take it anymore. I’m going Merdred.
What I have learned from this is that soulmates doesn’t automatically equal happy ending, even when soulmates, the actual people in the relationship still need to grow, and evolve, in order to become the true soulmate they were intended to be.














