#pharents

[vikoisdoodling]

pharents on holiday <3

[emotoangel]

look at them 🥹

Dan admiring Phil’s baby bump <33

they’re gonna be great dads, so excited for their new era as pharents🫶🏻🫶🏻

[dansasterology]

when phil lester gave birth to me he passed the “fruity little drink lover” genes in a way dan’s “hmmm bitter 🤤” genes can’t dream to compete with. like yeah i won’t get drunk after downing five fiery shots but god forbid i dont have a phaggy little cosmopolitan in hand after that

[otherwaybabe]

ehhh as cute as the kids conversation was, it really didn't feel like an actual serious discussion to me. more like a silly fantasy hypothetical. like they've said on multiple occasions that they couldn't even handle a dog right now, much less a kid. while it's obviously not impossible in the distant future, anytime soon seems completely unreasonable.

I mean, things do change. You don't start talking about screen time if it's not an active conversation imo.

[otherwaybabe]

Can we talk about the kid talk because?????

What happened to “I don’t want kids” Howell?

Apparently he was replaced with "will we allow screens" Howell. That wasn't a hypothetical conversation. That was the conversation of two men who are actively thinking about it. Possibly actively casually looking at agencies.

[otherwaybabe]

I've been thinking, so I've recently rewatched the game of life video. There was a lot of babytalk than I rememberd more coming from Phil. Him saying “give me all the babies” it made me think how back in the day dan said he wanted three kids and he would be the best father ever. He said it with no hesitation and so matter of factly. Obviously things can change and it's their decision at the end of the day but Phil still makes them getting a child jokes today. I've realized Phil wouldn't joke about it unless he knew dan was ok with it. I guess what I'm trying to say I don't think kids are out of the realm of possibility for them. Maybe later when dan feels more at ease, I'm just rambling and not speculating at all just something neat I noticed.

But I'm also on marriage hill so what the hell do I know.

I mean they said as much two live streams ago. It was "we're not having kids....yet"

So, my guess is the next tour is their last, at least for a while. And then they start seriously talking about the logistics of adoption.

[otherwaybabe]

Thinking about Phil and pregnancy.

They definitely have some sort of fixation on it. The idea of Phil getting pregnant does come up a lot. Like a weird amount for it to not be a thought lodged in at least one of their minds.

I definitely think its something that Phil likes the thought of but I don't know if he'd actually get pregnant if given the chance since they've very recently and explicitly stated that they do not want kids.

Idk if its just an appealing hypothetical for him or if its more of a kink... but I don't think it comes from a gender thing nor a genuine desire for parenthood. My guess is a barely disguised fetish (which good for him) or just a "Wow being able to grow a life and have a little half me half dan person about would be really nice :)" thought that he likes in theory even if he doesn't actually want the reality of a child

I do wonder if part of Phil not wanting kids, at least right now, is because he can't carry them. Like if that's a part of what he wants and it's not possible...

Kind of like how Dan was against marriage when it wasn't possible and now is seeming to be less so.

But it's also possible it's more of a kink thing than something he actually wants. Could go either way, really.

[otherwaybabe]

Hot take but i don’t think Phil would completely rule out having a child ever, it’s just obviously not the right time

Just from personal experience, it's hard to think about having a child when you're chronically ill, and they both are, so that's even worse.

I will say from the day they said they don't yearn for a child and subsequent phodcasts, the conversation got a bit less "NO" and a bit more "not yet,"

I think, when they announce they're not touring again, that will be a clue.