#pixieturtle

[candyredterezii]

Had a male client at work ask me what the difference was between bi and pan when I told him that I was pan and I told him, “The two can be kinda interchangeable, it depends on the person and they’re much the same,” but he didn’t understand and I kept feeling like I explained it so wrong

Nope

Pan and Bi are interchangeable and mean the exact same thing

Just some people have a preference for one term over the other

[hey--its--jess]

I was constantly sad because Krem was a sweetheart and I couldn’t romance him.

I’m in the same boat. Varric showed up on the screen and I immediately went, “Yup, he’s the one. He’s my favorite. I love him…I can’t romance him can I?”And that’s where I’ve been since. At the moment I’ve been equally flirting with Blackwall, The Iron Bull and Cullen. I’m just going to go with the flow and waiting to see who makes a move first. 

[hey--its--jess]

Is it okay to reblog your mermay art? It’s so beautiful!!

I’m really glad you like it! I was hoping that it would turn out well!It’s definitely okay to reblog any art that I post here. :D

[lifesanssin]

20) do you write in long sit-down sessions or in little spurts?

It really depends on my mood. Back when I was in the prime of my writing for With and Without, I would write whole chapters (sometimes MULTIPLE CHAPTERS what???) in one sitting. Sometimes I still do that, writing things all in one go. Other times, when I’m not feeling it as much, it’s in little spurts over a course of a few days.

What I wouldn’t give to be able to go back to writing everything in one go… ;w;

Send me some Author Asks

[lifesanssin]

You’re a good person and I hope you get to feeling better!! It’s okay if the peace doesn’t come immediately, but it will eventually!

You’re sweet. I feel like I haven’t known true peace since I got diagnosed back in the 6th grade. That’s since 2005. That’s something like 13 years, about half of my life. And I very well may have had it before then. Things just seem to keep getting worse and worse, new diagnoses and new problems…

But I am a pretty good person… at least, I try to be on a daily basis. I have a good life, a good support system, a good husband who supports and takes care of me. Part of why I get so frustrated, honestly, because I have it so good yet still feel this way. I get told frequently it’s because I just don’t appreciate the things I have enough, and I’m like, “uh sweaty are you sure you understand how Depression™ works?” Because I do! I know I have it good and should be happy with it, just, for some reason, I’m not…

…Anyway, you didn’t ask for all of this, and I’m just venting again. I really gotta stop doing that

Thank you for your kind words, though. I’m sure the peace will come someday, and I’ll definitely still be here to see it happen. Perserverence is kind of my thing, keeping going even when the going gets tough. I might sit down and cry for a little bit, but I always get back up and trudge on!

…I’m just gonna shut up and stick with Thank You. <3

[lifesanssin]

@pixieturtle

hey

so

...we should talk or somethin, yeah?