halefucks said: people have this picture of derek being the manly one and therefore having to be on top.. which is ridiculous
that's some antiquated gender roles right there
sophiewithaz said: exactly! it’s been scientifically show that gay couples who are sexually versatile have happier, healthier relationships. bottoms for everyone!
science is always proving awesomeness
jadesymb said: maybe I’m weird, but I figure if you’re having sex with the same person for a while, at some point you’re going to mix it up. And I love Bottom Derek. and Top Derek.
at some point, you're going to get bored or like be, hey, let's switch. variety is the spice of life
burdenedwgloriousslash said: I can only tolerate it if he is a bossy bottom. It’s the alpha status and his trust issues. He needs to always be in control. All my other M/M can switch it up and do whatever.
i consider that out of character that is, because derek's bossiness is such a front to how brittle he is at being in a role of power.
ademska said: lord help me i will never understand but they are VEHEMENT with their thinly-veiled misogyny and homophobia aren’t they
sexuality is so fluid. like, trying to box in an identity is just wrong
plumpelinthighs said: eh maybe bc they consider derek to be the “man” and stiles to be the “woman” of the relationship? which is pretty fucking dumb bc they’re BOTH GUYS.
it's pretty insulting also to think woman always "bottom"
breenwolf said: praise ur light
fattomatoberries said: it’s wonderful and all good things and those people just haven’t read the right fics yet.
everyone should be reading all the fics