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okay so I want to breakdown the “key placements” that can save a relationship from breaking. you know any relationship can work regardless the synastry/composite, and also even with the best interaspects a connection can still fade, right? My question rises from my observation of finding moon-sun conjunction en synastry/composites which have other chaotic placements, as well as beautiful love-stellium that did not maintain the union due to falling into the “wrong” house. So what for which case?

♡ 𝕋𝕙𝕖 𝕘𝕝𝕦𝕖 𝕚𝕟 𝕣𝕖𝕝𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟𝕤𝕙𝕚𝕡𝕤: 𝕒 𝕕𝕖𝕖𝕡 𝕕𝕚𝕧𝕖 𝕚𝕟𝕥𝕠 ‘𝕜𝕖𝕪 𝕡𝕝𝕒𝕔𝕖𝕞𝕖𝕟𝕥𝕤’ 𝕚𝕟 𝕤𝕪𝕟𝕒𝕤𝕥𝕣𝕪 𝕒𝕟𝕕 𝕔𝕠𝕞𝕡𝕠𝕤𝕚𝕥𝕖 ♡

Disclaimer: same can count for friendships ofc! Also, I don't want to give a 'text book answer' here, because I feel like the dynamic between two people and what brings them together and makes them stay is far too complex as to simply name a few aspects. So I hope you are open for my 'discourse' approach I have here!

Question: So which exact aspects/placements/overlays can tie a connection together?

First off, the basics: you have to look at all the charts together

-> yes, when we want to look at significant themes and the overall quality of a connection (especially if we want to make some sort of a forecast) only looking at one chart or one part of synastry will not be as effective as putting it all together in a bigger picture! This might sound a bit exhausting at the beginning, but doing the extra work will help you finding actual patterns in the dynamic of two/multiple people!

-> So you always want to look at the two individual birth charts, synastry, as well as composite (but remember that composite charts are representative of connections that existed for around a year already). Overall compatibility is not unimportant, but only gives you a little glimpse of what you can actually discover between people.

One of the most important things when it comes to synastry readings: your own birth chart and its themes

-> I really, really want to empathize this point. One and one makes two, not two people are one. That means, you gotta figure yourself and your birth chart out first (and the one of the other person ofc) and see, what you two as individuals carry into this connection and what will be themes you will be individually put a big focus on, what exactly is it that the two of you individually need the most from a connection and the partner in order to feel content and form a healthy union?

-> While it's generally good in text book theory and definitely feels very nice to have the Moon and Sun in a positive aspect to another, or your Venus in your partner's 7th house, you can see couples having a loaded 6th house, harsh aspects between the personal planets, lots of Saturn aspects in synastry and they are still going on strong. Why?

-> It depends on what two you are made of and like (despite the fact that astrology doesn't limit the possibilities of forming a healthy connection with someone). Example: If you were to be a Cancer sun with a Virgo moon and Aries rising, already by the position of your big three, there is a strong empathize on the position and well-being of your Moon sign and Mars sign in synastry. Having your Venus in a bad aspect to your partners Venus def sucks too, don't get me wrong, but the comfort of your Moon and Mars in Synastry will definitely be a top priority, and something you'll notice the quickest if it were to be in a rough (or good) position, next to Venus . Therefore, a good position to the Moon and Mars can make one overcome incompatible Venus. Same would be for a person who's Taurus Sun with a Sagittarius Rising. Jupiter plays a crucial part too, next to Venus, Moon, Mars, Mercury, or any love/relationship/friendship asteroids.

Just as people who natally have their Venus/Mars in close aspects to Saturn (doesn't matter if they're good or bad) often report that they can endure heavy Saturn influence in Synastry and Composite way better or don't mind it that much. They are not only used to it, but can also want and need it. And to expand the example even further: people who have strong Saturn influence in their birth chart - specifically if it's close aspects to the inner planets - can seek out people with Capricorn/Aquarius placements as well, as Saturn's influence ties them together and brings similarity. Even if they don't have lots of placements that are overly compatible with these signs, the aspects can really make the difference in the end.

-> Regarding overlays, this can be the same theme. If you're someone who has strong Mercury/Gemini influence in your chart, and your partners planets fall in the third house (which is usually considered less romantic) this can be just perfect for you as you actually need lots of communication/social interaction and value it on a daily basis! (Because the 3rd house and Gemini/Mercury can have overlapping themes, not because I think Gemini is the equivalent to the 3rd house!). So don't be disheartened if your partners Venus doesn't fall in the 7th or 5th house, when their Venus might fall into a house of your chart that is already very prominent and thus significant to your overall themes and patterns of your birth chart!

→ what to look at generally when it comes to qualities we seek in close connections to others/relationships (specifically long term):

We all know it's important to look at Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, Mercury, all together, but never leave out the importance and impact of your chart ruler!! Your chart ruler directs your chart after all, someone generally vibing with the way you navigate your life/being will be important! Also, for additional depth, look at the planet that rules your sun sign, e.g. if you’re an Aquarius Sun your Saturn and Uranus m might play another big defining role in compatibility to others.

Jupiter: shows us the qualities we seek out/need in others in order for us to continuously grow and self-empower, basically someone who doesn't hinder us from forming our own 'luck'. The person who represents our Jupiter qualities can help and inspire us on the long term.

5th house, 8th house, 4th house, 7th house/Descendant/1st house/Ascendant (look at the planets in the houses/the houses rulers in order to get more info on the overall themes of these houses)

Juno: what we need in order to stay committed, how we continuously commit and show commitment

ᴏɴ sɴʏᴀsᴛʀʏ ᴄʜᴀʀᴛs:

-> now that we figured out the significance of our own birth chart at first, we look at Synastry itself, and before we start getting into aspects, let's focus on overlays:

→ not every overlay is for everyone, hence why there is always a pretty heated debate about which overlay is the ‘holy grail’ in close connnections. It's important to recognize that. Overlays can be pretty hit or miss depending on how you handle the houses themes in your own chart and/or how much they are represented in your natal chart. You can have lots of 8th house influence in your chart and thus really crave that 8th house synastry, but if you haven't at least started working healthily/progressively on your 8th house themes (yes I'm specifically talking about the negative ones), every 8th house overlay can be a pure pain in the ass and trigger the hell out of you to be fair. Likewise, you can have lots of 5th house overlays, but maybe the overall focus on pleasures and fun, can create a rather short lived connection, that lacks groundedness and substance for some people. You can have lots of 7th house overlays, but that doesn’t mean the person will be your long term companion if you still have a very hard time integrating the 7th house signs energy in your life/recognizing the Descendant in yourself. It’s important to put overlays in the context of the whole synastry chart and your individual charts and to not exclude them too much.

→ You see, it's also about how we handle what is given to us and eventually comes down to what we want. This brings us to the 'wrong' overlay:

→ First and foremost, yes: there are houses with inherently darker/tougher themes and that won't change in Synastry either. Doesn't mean your connection is doomed, it just means that the themes of a house and its meanings can not be changed in any context, but that it takes two individuals that will have to figure a way out to deal with said themes accordingly.

→ For example if you'd have a Venus in the 12th house nataly, your partners Moon falling into said house and conjuncting Venus is still a generally positive aspect to have (especially long term), but that won't erase the 12th house themes that color said aspect for you two.

→ So I want to give a quick rundown on the house overlays that can generally harder to deal with due to the themes they represent! Again: doesn't mean they signs of doom in a synastry chart! This also applies for the composite chart!

-> 8th house: I think the reason why the 8th house is hard to deal with is because people often forget about the theme of it in your own natal chart. The 8th house shows us where we need to take responsibility for all our own issues that prevent us from deepening a connection. On a more surface level, the 8th house shows us where we share and sacrifice our self with a partner: all that belongs to us, like our money, but also our emotions/soul, mind and even body. The amount of trust and growth the 8th house requires in yourself in order to willingly trust your partner can be quiet difficult to obtain for some. Furthermore, the 8th house is activated by closeness with others: only by being close to others, you get triggered and can pin point to your own 'trauma/inner shadow' that you experienced in close intimate connections that you haven't progressed yet. It's a house that requires lots of maturity but also bravery and honesty. Having 8th house overlays are therefore not for the faint of heart. Can be soul-crushing beautiful when two people dare to trust and face their devils and be honest, or will simply crush your soul if it's negative, and cause lots of projection to be fair. There's little room for anything in between here.

→ 12th house: The 12th house forces us to give up control: that's the part that comes with self undoing. It's all we can genuinely believe, that is not part of us, that is absent in our life, or we wish we had, but remains a daydream. It’s also the house of isolation, and this theme can still be apparent even if we’re in a relationship. Therefore, the 12th house overlay needs lots of trust and with that, bravery. In a former post of mine I talked about the 12th house being a possible indicator for unrequited love, since it's not only indicating an 'on and off' energy, but often times one doesn't even dare to make the first move. It's watching from afar. Seeing and feelings things the other doesn't, or at least yet. The 12th house is the house of self-undoing: it's the last house and can therefore symbolize an end, but not a foresighted one, it most likely feels sudden, even if the signs were visible all the time. Therefore the 12th house can evoke fear for those who can not build this almost telepathic connection and strong trust and intuition with another, but also in oneself.

→ 6th house: Ahhh.....the house of daily crisis lol. It symbolizes routine and health and how we overcome crisis, so yes, whatever happens between two people, if it falls in the 6th house it'll need to adjust to some sort of routine or becomes automatically practical, which is not a bad thing in itself, but to say so much, whatever planet/point/angle lands here needs to withstand the test of life or better said how we construct life. The 6th house points to our health, because the way we manage our life and construct it will play a big part in our physical and mental health. Therefore, anything in the 6th house will have to prove itself if it's healthy enough to fit into the house person’s routine. Therefore this house is often frowned upon as so 'unromantic' (which it honestly really doesn't have to be) and sucking the 'feelings/excitement' out of any connections (apparently for some, I'm a Virgo rising, so I like someone who can fit into my schedule lol).

→ And yes, you can find cons and pros in every house, I could list the pros and cons of the 3rd and 9th house for hours, or the 10th house creating lots of inner and outer pressure for the planet and house person in synastry, but the 6th, 8th and 12th house are definitely the houses that can carry the most grim undertone.

→ Okay, and before I list a few aspects regarding synastry, I have to play the armchair psychologist for a few seconds. The question from OP was regarding committed, long term connections (doesn't matter of which kind), so we generally want to look at aspects that bring a very foundational understanding of one another, as well as devotion/responsibility for the connection. These are general aspects I'd see as beneficial for every connection, but again, as I've mentioned in the previous part, depending on the significant themes in your chart, other aspects can definitely be more important.

Moon to any personal planets and AC-DC contacts: conjunction, positives, oppositions, semi-sextile mainly. I mention the Moon because this is the most vulnerable part of our chart, physically as well as emotionally. The Moon has to feel understood, or at least with negative aspects, two people should really focus on making the other feel safe and emotionally understood. Saturn and Jupiter can work out too, but it'll be easiest with positive contacts, conjunctions or oppositions, the square or incojunction can be pretty tough, but I've seen people work these out too.

Saturn contacts to personal planets or AC-DC/IC-MC angle: Saturn naturally works like a glue because it creates responsibility, but this doesn't have to equal in it feeling nice, it can actually feel pretty suffocating, so make sure that you don't stay for wrong reasons. Pluto can also work like a glue because it creates unspoken loyalty and depth like nothing else between two people, but can be more explosive than Saturn. Can also make you stay for wrong reasons.

Mercury in neutral/positive contact/opposition to Moon/Sun/Mercury/Jupiter/AC-DC axis: Communication is key, I think I don’t have to elaborate on that too much, lol. But Mercury in Synastry having at least somewhat of a shared basis of understanding or even similarity between two people can ease any other tension a lot! Comfortable/easy communication adds to things running a bit smoother.

Sun in positive/neutral contact to Venus or Jupiter: awakening the strive to grow and search for something beautiful and meaningful in another, the self and the world. Jupiter is a very empowering planet, so I think it's definitely worth including

Venus/Mars in positive/neutral aspect, opposition to Venus/Mars/AC-DC axis: A strong indicator for finding what one craves and dreams of in a connection. Good at keeping up the excitement and feelings in a connection too.

North Node in conjunction to AC-DC angle, personal planets: I specify on the conjunction because it will be felt the strongest. North Node contacts can feel extremely significant, it does create the feeling of 'we were meant to meet/soulmates', if one believes in these concepts ofc. The planet person usually is seen as very valuable/mentor like for the NN person.

ᴛʜᴇ ᴄᴏᴍᴘᴏsɪᴛᴇ ᴄʜᴀʀᴛ:

-> now, here is where it gets spicier! This is the natal chart of the connection itself, and how this connection will feel to you/the other one specifically on the long term can be answered by looking at the individual birth charts of you two (again)

-> for example: next to repetitive themes/patterns in your own birth chart, you can look at the overall relationship indicators in your chart (Venus, Jupiter, 7th house, 5th house) and see how these energies are represented in the composite. Example: If you have Aries in the 7th house, with Saturn being in it too, and your Neptune and Uranus are in Capricorn in the 5th house , generally speaking a composite with stronger Aries/Capricorn energy in it, or having a relatively strong influence of Saturn/Mars and moderate + good (the combination of these two adjectives is important here lol) influence of Uranus/Neptune can feel especially nice to you in a long term connection.

-> But it doesn't even have to be that complicated. Take your personal planets + Rising sign as the basic component here, I'll give you a personal example of my chart:

I'm a Cancer Sun, Scorpio Moon, Virgo Rising, Cancer Mercury, Libra Mars and Leo Venus. The strongest connections I have are evident of having these signs strongly represented in personal planets or the Ascendant/Descendant in the composite chart. I also have very strong Saturn, Mercury, Neptune and Uranus influence in my natal chart, so whenever there are significant aspects of these four planets (or the zodiac signs they rule) it feels familiar and welcoming to me in composite. That doesn't mean overly negative aspects of Neptune, Uranus and Saturn in composite won't feel bad for me lol, just that it's a theme/pattern that I can work with well

-> Caution: You can subconsciously seek out partnerships/connections that have the same negative aspects/themes representative in composite/synastry as you have in your natal chart . If you want to 'prevent' anything, look at any possible repetitive themes.

ᴄᴏɴᴄʟᴜsɪᴏɴ:

There are definitely certain thumb-rule answers we can look at when it comes to synastry/composite, but I highly advice everyone to analyze their natal chart thoroughly (and the one of your partner(s) too), in order to see where you add your own individual flavor and needs to it! And tbf, I also think the way you are socialized (for example gender roles and gender expectation) plays a huge role in synastry/composite as well, so keep that in mind too.

Credit! text: plutoswrath, 2022. Please don’t copy/rewrite my work, ty! dividers: silkholland on tumblr.

[plutoswrath]

☆Interceptions and Duplications in the Birth Chart☆

✩ Table of contents ✩

Interceptions and Duplications – an introduction

Interceptions in signs and houses

Duplicated signs

Duplicated houses

✩ Interceptions and Duplications – an introduction ✩

If your birth chart ever looked like this:

or even this:

✦ congrats: you have an interception. An interception points to a house in your chart that is occupying two signs, also known as a house 'swallowing' one sign. You can see in the examples given above, that there are houses that rule two signs (the so called interceptions), while there are simultaniously signs ruling two houses (the duplications). In the examples above, the two people only have two interceptions and two duplications, but there are people who can have up to 4 or even 6 interceptions in their birth chart, depending on how close to the poles of the earth they were born. Interceptions are only visible if you use Placidus, Koch or any other house system that will not split up the degrees of the 12th houses equally (30°), or else one house couldn't 'swallow' another sign.

✦ The intercepted sign in your chart is known as a 'hidden' area – what is meant by that? It's basically a signs qualities that are hard to access, seemingly 'overshadowed' by the sign before. An intercepted sign points to an area in our life that has no own house it can rule over, sitting in the shadows of the sign before it.

✦ How come the intercepted sign is hard to access and tap into? With interceptions, we will find that these characteristics of the sign that is intercepted were not supported and thus properly developed in our early upbringing. For example if you have Leo intercepted in the 1st, chances are being proudly present and allowing the self to shine in the moment and to search for ways to playfully interact with your environment wasn't something that the people in your close environment supported or other qualities were more important - we look at the sign before Leo here, so Cancer qualities were supported and expected.

✦ This is another aspect important to notice in interceptions: they always come in pairs, aka their opposite sign. If you have Aries intercepted, Libra will be intercepted too, thus it's important to see that the natural balance of the Aries-Libra axis is 'damaged' in some sort of way, as the signs before Aries and Libra (Pisces and Virgo) want to take over the role of the single ruler of the house these two signs it it. So it's important to get to know the transition of meaning between the signs. Example: Pisces is the dream, while Aries becomes the dream in real life. Pisces rings in the last days of winter, while Aries is the new life and rings in the blooming spring and embodies the foreign dream with enthusiasm and action.

✦ As the interceptions always come in pairs, knowing the general themes the sister-sign pairs embody is from importance as well.

✦ Interceptions can also be seen as areas in your life that weren't fully 'ready' to be accessible and discovered by you yet, hence, they hide in the shadows of the sign before them. This can manifest on a more psychological level, often times it can be in the literal sense as well, so that your physical environment was the 'lack of' that made things inaccessible or harder to get and thus actualize. Generally speaking though, the intercepted sign is an area in life one only understands better the more they grow, only then, one will realize the blockage and confusion, as well as possible misguidance that can happen in intercepted houses.

✦ Intercepted planets: if you have a planet in an intercepted sign, it is intercepted. Compared to empty intercepted houses, an intercepted planet can be even harder to 'unlock', because the planets qualities aren't fully or healthily developed, thus, leading to 'blooming late' in those planets. Therefore, empty intercepted houses are still easier to work with than empty intercepted houses, because the planet is an active part of our life that can not healthily express and manifest itself.

✦ Interceptions bottle up a lot of energy, therefore they can act out impulsively and seemingly overflow, leading to the individual recognizing the parts of themself they have dismissed, malnourished or forgotten. Therefore, they can act out negatively as well, as the native forcefully tries to integrate these qualities into their life, without understanding the hidden motivation behind the why. Interceptions usually carry some sort of 'origin story' as to why the intercepted signs qualities are not properly expressed, so it's important to look at the reasoning.

✦ Now that we've settled the basics, what to do with the interceptions? There are two ways in order to active the intercepted house, as well as to 'make up for it'.

✦ How to make up for it? We look at the duplication here. The duplication is a sign that rules two houses in order to make up for the intercepted area in the chart. You can see the duplicated sign as your area of expertise in that sense. There is a big focus on these signs qualities and chances are you early learned to develop them well. When you have an overview over your interceptions and duplications, don't forget to look ate the modalities and elements of the intercepted/duplicated signs/houses, as this will give you an even more in depth understanding of these dynamics.

✦ How to activate the intercepted sign? Here we have to look at the ruling planets of the intercepted signs (e.g.: if Leo is intercepted look at Sun). In this way, we can see what energy we need to tap in and understand in order to activate and healthily support our intercepted sign.

✦ Important reminder, please read: It is important to look at everything in combination here, from the interceptions, to the duplication and especially the signs and houses in combination, one interpretation on it's own will not bring the full picture to the surface.

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✩ Interceptions in the signs and houses ✩

✦ Aries-Libra: This is about one's sense of self in relation to others. In fact, it's about how the individual assert the self and how one relates to others, as well as how you integrate those two components healthily. Assertion and compromise can become foreign abilities, here the sense of self can also be orientated on others: there is a difficulty actualizing dreams and plans, as well as communicating them to people or not getting lost in the ideas and plans of others and mistaken them as ones own plans. Autonomy is challenged, changing ones path can become difficult, same with mutually deciding with others to set a path together. Here, one become too detached from ego and ego of a group/a connection, one can feel too detached from situations, connections, even life itself sometimes, being more about intellectualizing or fantasizing of how things are or should be without feeling a very personal link to it. The individual can have a difficulty with merging too much with someone else in a connection (taking on their ego and individuality) or being too detached and separated from others, being more of a 'loner'.

✦ 1st and 7th house: This can feel like part of ones identity is missing, something waiting to be let out and manifest itself finally. One can feel 'incomplete' and misunderstood in their social connections as they feel people don't see them as who they really are or will not accept and give them what them what they need. One's part of self was not appropriate/encouraged to grow into, they had to be someone else in their environment. Can create feelings of 'people don't really see me for me' or who the person thinks they are in their head. Can lead to difficulties in connections due to possible in-authenticity/ sudden change of character.

✦ Taurus-Scorpio: Stability is a big theme here, an individual who has troubles identifying what is valuable in their life and what they should stick to, not knowing what is good for them/not having a natural sense of dedication for something they see value in/see as worthy. An unhealthy relationship to material goods can occur, due to not experiencing the privilege to endorse in them/endorse in them healthily. Here, one can also forget what they can bring to the table and stop cultivating what one perceives as valuable, there's a tendency to forget ones own power and being able to provide for ones own safety and especially maintaining it. There is a possibility that the individual looks at others to bring them a sense of value. Having troubles actually following through with plans and ideas, or not being able to relax and enjoy what you have or earned, possibly leading to greed/a fear of losing what one has. That inability to share can also be about emotional depths and the own insights/truths, vulnerability is difficult to express, thus one always remains in the status quo.

✦ 2nd and 8th house: Insecurity is a general theme here, not growing up with enough financial, material and emotional security. Qualities of the self are not perceived as valuable/where not perceived as valuable from others or one wasn't seen as valuable because the intercepted signs qualities are hard to develop, ultimately leading to see that the repressed characteristics in one are also of value and can help one regaining material but also inner stability (strengthening self-esteem). Insecurity shows in intimate connections, there could be a parts in the individual that were left unaddressed but really needed in order to move through any negativity and become more self-empowered, as well as to notice what one needs on an intimate base from the people close to them. One can thus not recognize their inner/hidden power, as well as be afraid of what is safe to be shared with others – part of the self can become 'taboo', possibly due to being encouraged to silence that part or forcefully burying it deep in the psyche.

✦ Gemini-Sagittarius: This can feel harder to expand ones mind and form an opinion of your own based on what one takes on and learn from the world. The axis of information, knowledge and believes, ones horizon can feel limited here, often times due to ideas and facts that have been given to us as the only answer or ultimate truth. The expansion of the mind can feel hindered by not knowing how to mentally and spiritually leave a current situation and set the self free to search for a clearer coast. There's also a general fear of leaving what is familiar, physically or intellectually. There can be rigid believes that hold the individual in a tight grip, someone is afraid to leave ones bubble they grew up in, pointing to a general pessimism/suspicion towards anything new or not ordinary/more creative. Relating to others or getting information from others, as taking wisdom from others because the self apparently can't have the answers can be common here. Overindulgence in information, but not getting any real value and use out of it. Possible over-consumption of knowledge or only reducing knowledge/learning to only the subjects that 'really matter/are necessary'. There is a lack of fun in exploring.

✦ 3rd and 9th house: What does one want to communicate and for what reason? There is a side to the individual that feels like it isn't worthy of being communicated, that wasn't perceived as 'intelligent' enough, could include judgment of ideas and a style of speaking/learning and seeing the world in educational institutes, the neighborhood, siblings or peers. The individuals 'why' in this world seems flawed, their words and self expression is based on what exactly? There is a chance they can't put their finger on it themself. Could lead to possible mislead in life, a 'shock' of realizing that one is running away from a part of themself. Can result into literal inability to move away and roam the world. Siblings can be the reason for why one had to keep certain thoughts and ideas to the self, why someone had to stay 'quiet'.

✦ Cancer-Capricorn: Not knowing how to nurture the self. Difficulty caring and providing for the self and possibly even for others too, because there is a lack of emotional depth and connectivity, even if one is able to connect mentally with others. It can result out of a lack of care at home, there's a general question of where home is and how one can create a comfortable, stable and healthy home life. Feeling like having no true roots, impossible to build anything stable and profitable on ones own roots can be common. Having troubles in stabilizing any emotions in people, as well as material security, one can feel like they haven't have the inner stability to root themselves successfully in the world. Flexibility and logic was more valued than emotions/emotional care, as well as material stability. A general feeling of powerlessness/defeat can be a common feeling, as one is not able to set their believes and ambitions in stone, a lack of discipline and working consistency, a general sense of impatience.

✦ 4th and 10th house: Here, the problems resulted in the home life and manifested later in ones public life as well, showing clearly when it comes to the reputation, here the intercepted signs qualities were particularly not supported and encouraged at home, possibly due to a parental figure having certain expectations of the child that left them empty, but it could have come from anyone else from the family/a general family/generational issue as well. Problems with the parental figures are relived at the job/with other authoritative figures later in life. Disliking that one can not be in public what they want to be seen as or possibly they need to hide particular parts of themself to succeed in their career/in the public sphere. Someone having to 'mask' a hidden part of their self in public.

✦Leo-Aquarius: Not seeing ones uniqueness, ones individuality (mind and heart) being mistaken as 'common' and thus resulting into believing one has to 'stay in lane'. 'Acting out' was possibly taught to be avoided, one shouldn't have taken the spotlight, one feels like it's hard dedicating time and effort blindly on the self and doing things 'egoistically', out of fun and doing what simply feels good for the self. There could have been occasions where one was falsely made to believe that being focused on the self isn't good, that one was 'too selfish', because they weren't putting the work into others. Stepping mentally as well as physically outside of the box wasn't encouraged because focus was put on caring for what's in front of you, possibly the family or anything that 'really mattered', so there was no time thinking outside of the box to begin with. Having a fear of what will happen when one is against the norm, possibly having been alienated once or fearing what will happen when they get alienated.

✦ 5th and 11th house: Showing where one was forbidden to be oneself and where someone's special talents were discredited or taken from them, where the light was (purposefully) dimmed and what seems either inappropriate and is demonized but actually really craved in ones self expression. Could be due to having to be responsible for others, especially children. Due to certain parts about the creative self being not supported, one could have troubles having any future aspirations or hopes for their future (loss of imagination), troubles finding a group to support or seeing one of a part of group that supports one. Difficulty with friend groups or finding like minded people, one can become closed off or want people to appreciate and support their creativity here. Feeling a sense of hopelessness because they can't let the sun shine on them, so they have troubles seeing the future and other people in another, brighter light.

✦ Virgo-Pisces: A lack of organizational skills and taking care of the self physically and spiritually. Here could find someone either growing up without having to develop Virgos and Pisces skillset, either very ego-focused and relying on other people, or simply because there was generally no sense of organization around them, meaning one hadto become self focused. Therefore, there can also be a disconnect to anything spiritual, one focuses on the physical realm and what has to be done now, being dependent on anything set on believes, trusting something you can't imagine and can't physically grasp and is not set in the here and now right in front of you can become hard. There is a general apprehensiveness towards the acceptance of how things are and surrendering and fixing them. 'Tiding up' ones environment as well as ones self (spiritually) could be a neglected necessity.

✦ 6th and 12th house: This interception can be a bit difficult because even though the intercepted 6th house might be easier to notice, the 12th house interceptions isn't always. Ultimately, it will show in the relationship to mind and body. Anything unresolved in the intercepted 12th house can manifest in the body, and thus try to reclaim the attention of the individual. The individual might reject the shadow house of the intercepted 12th house, thinking this can't be who they are from deep within, potentially sabotaging the self into disbelieve. Next to sudden issues related to health/the body, there could also be a difficulty about working for others, which can also manifest in the job/work field. There can be a general lack of understanding why certain qualities are important in organizing ones life, making it harder to maintain a stabler lifestyle, thus also a stabler mind-body relationship.

✩ Duplicated signs ✩

✦ Aries-Libra: Good understanding of the self and how to insert the self in social settings, knowing how one functions alone and with others and thus having a good understanding of social contexts/skills. A good understanding of when to be alone and when to lead others, knowing the balance of being headstrong and moving forward, as well as slowing down, listening and negotiating.

✦ Taurus-Scorpio: Knows how to get what they want because the individual has strong tenacity. Knowing what is good for them and what brings them value, as well as making things valuable, strong moral codex and fixed ideas. Making more out of what one already has, being choosier with what one gives away to others due to heightened self awareness, being focused on cultivating valuable things for the self, focusing on self-empowerment and generally being aware of ones own power, as well as regenerating quickly.

✦ Gemini-Sagittarius: Here, the mind becomes the biggest weapon. Grasping new concepts and being able to get out of ones own bubble/comfort zone might come easier, as the individual not only naturally soaks up lots of information, but can also easily build a mental connection to others, though they can be very fixated on logical reasoning/coherent patterns. Walking encyclopedias/ manual, mentally very adaptive. Communication can be from advance (no matter if written or spoken).

✦ Cancer-Capricorn: Knows how to balance inner and outer needs as well as expectations, the inner security brings them the solid foundation everything they want can be build on later in life. Having great endurance, because acknowledging real life circumstances one has to deal with brings acceptance and discipline, while the emotional stability gives also makes one regenerate emotionally – the last point can also be achieved through others, others (the ones cancer considers 'family') being their regeneration point.

✦ Leo-Aquarius: Knows their purpose, confident in ones individuality and wearing it as a batch. Is focused on creating their own place in society, rejection is a form of adjusting to a new course, dancing to the beat of their own drum (or with like-minded people) is very important here and thus gifts them also with a lot of self-reliance and self-sufficiency. Generally makes own aware of the fact that differences create a beautiful contrast to others, individuality is celebrated. Even if their isn't a clear goal/direction they follow in life, the experience of (re)defining and reinforcing themself while being on the way is what gives the joy.

✦ Virgo-Pisces: Can bring a good understanding of the connection between body and soul. Here, the dream and reality can work really well together, giving one the benefit to not only dream extensively, but also be aware of the real life rules to make this dream ones reality. One is aware of the limitations and/or requirements (organization), but also very in touch with the spiritual, intuitive and creative side that guides one towards meaning in life. Spirituality and the mundane go hand in hand here. One is focused on analyzing and working on (or even with) own difficulties, trying to deeply grasps any concepts and trying to achieve inner, spiritual growth, by understanding the bigger picture through the details.

✩ Duplicated Houses ✩

✦ 1st and 2nd house - 7th and 8th house: Ones identity and value/self worth correspond to the other here, who 'I am' and what I own and have merge. I can increase/decrease my self worth through my identity, meanwhile my material stability/possession and my self worth influence my identity. Developing a strong sense of self-worth is empathized here, as well as being strong in character. Social connections can become another focal point, in a way, people can be your source of energy or be of value for you. Business and intimate connections can mix here, trying to duplicate (material) worth by working together.

✦ 2nd and 3rd house - 8th and 9th house: Ones close environment and self-worth correspond with each other here, what and who your surround yourself with might have an even stronger impact on how you feel about yourself and the ability to maintain material security, your environment can really set the tone for your self-esteem. This can also point to seeing greater chances in how to make your surroundings more valuable (putting resources of any kind into them), or seeing where you can get value out of them, potentially increasing your self-esteem. Here, one also develops a strong faith/believe/life philosophy after any experience that broke their security and thus the individual can be very resilient. There is a chance someone will deepen their 'truth' by gathering more knowledge on it, either by learning/studying on it or by experience. Can give the individual a sense of fearlessness.

✦ 3rd and 4th house 9th and 10th house: Communication/logic and the heart merge here, thus leading to someone who can transfer and dissect emotional messages through the spoken and written word easily, here, the early education and the home might have merged (studying at home, school feeling like 'home'). Learning is part of the default system of the individual. The individual could put an empathize on expansion and not growing stagnant, even in their career later on. The deep emotional understanding of people and communication skills help the individual communicating their higher set of believes and philosophies to others, one is motivated to leave a mark in society because they have a deep set believe that fuels their inner flame and energizes them.

✦ 4th and 5th house 10th and 11th house: Allowing our vulnerable self to be shown to others and be expressed creatively and be looked at. This can create a very honest, authentic individual, unafraid to let ones 'ugly sides' be reflected in their performance to others. Chances are also creative, unique self expression was encouraged at home and is part of ones emotional outlets (eg. drawing, cooking, dancing to process emotions). This can also lead to someone needing to be in a cycle of people that they feel mentally as well as emotionally connected to in their work space or generally speaking a career path that allows them to meet a lot of like-minded people. Their compassion wants to be transformed into activism, the ego here is bound to be giving to the collective/the future, possibly caring a lot about future/younger generations or the prevention/betterment of (parts of) society/social groups.

✦ 5th and 6th house 11th and 12th house: Creative self expression and work, as well as the mundane/daily life merge here. The individual could feel a strong urge to have a creatively expressive job, being able to express themself freely in their work space, or to have a job that is in a creative/artistic field/children likewise ones daily routine could revolve around ones ability to have time to have fun/be creative. The individual could feel strongly connected to the collective, working with or for people with a higher goal or motivation in mind, possibly being guided a spiritual believe or seeking out communities/people that share the same believe/motivation. The individual could be very sure of how exactly they want to leave a mark on this world/how they want to leave this planet.

✦ 6th and 7th house-1st and 12th house: Here, the individual might find themselves naturally very giving and dedicated to other people and/or in general dedicated to their service for others/society. Others show how we can improve and manage ourself better by helping/managing them/their life. The strong focus the individual has to their work and co-workers can help them unravel the side of them they have a harder time accepting/integrating as they might meet many people embodying their 7th house signs energy at their work place. The 12th house themes of the subconscious self can unknowingly into ones identity. The individual might be very focused on self-improvement (or self destruction). Despite that though, the person can be very in touch with their spiritual side/spirituality in general and likes to carry this side of them on the outside, possibly liking to guide/help others. Due to the 1st and 12thhouse duplicated, the individual can be hard to read/understand for others (at first glance).

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❤️‍🔥Everything Synastry and Composite❤️‍🔥

SYNASTRY

✧ The Non-Lilith Person in Synastry: Adam, Eve and the Snake-Lady

✧ Eros conjunct Psyche in Synastry

✧ Breakdown of Key Placements in Synastry and Composite

✧ Indicators for a long term connection in Synastry/Composite

✧ The Angles in Synastry Pt. 1: The Ascendant

✧ The Angles in Synastry Pt. 2: The Descendant

✧ Out of sign conjunctions in Synastry

✧ Black Moon Lilith in the 6th house overlay in Synastry

✧ Ascendant in the 8th house overlay in Synastry

✧ Saturn conjunct Descendant/opposite Ascendant in Synastry

✧ Juno conjunct Descendant/opposite Ascendant in Synastry

✧ Black Moon Lilith conjunct MC in Synastry

✧ Venus conjunct Moon in Synastry

✧ Mars conjunct Ascendant in Synastry

✧ Pluto Opposite Ascendant in Synastry

✧ Pluto conjunct Ascendant in Synastry

✧ Mars conjunct Saturn in Synastry

✧ Neptune conjunct Mercury in Synastry

✧ 12th house Synastry Observation

✧ Pluto in the 7th house Overlay , Part 2 with focus on Pluto Person

COMPOSITE

✧ Breakdown of Synastry and Composite

✧ Critical Placements and Aspects in Composite

✧ Composite Ascendants

✧ Indicators for a long term connection in Synastry/Composite

✧ Jupiter in Composite

✧ Yods in the Composite Chart

✧ North Node conjunct Ascendant in Composite

✧ 7th house stellium in the Composite Chart

✧ Chiron in the 7th house in Composite

✧ North Node in Leo in the 7th house in Composite

✧ South Node conjunct Ascendant in Composite

✧ Composite Juno conjunct natal IC

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The Angles in Synastry Pt. 1: The Ascendant

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The angles can be compared to the ‘backbone’ of the chart. They represent the four pillars that form our identity and show were we ‘become’ and take action towards ‘becoming’, Thus, when the angles are touched in synastry, there is a constant flow of energy, and it’s either stimulating or irritating, as one part of our self/identification is constantly influenced and thus triggered by someone else’s energy. Naturally, if the angles are touched in synastry, the influence of these aspects on the whole chemistry can be very significant as the planet person will have a strong influence on the direction of ‘becoming’ the angle person takes.  When the Ascendant is touched in synastry, at best it can show how to people hit it off from the beginning or at worst, what set’s them apart fight from the beginning. When the Ascendant is touched, it can set the whole mood for not only the start of a connection, but also its development over time, as the Ascendant is how you a) immediately relate to one another and b) how you influence the Ascendant person’s development of the person they are, the way they navigate through life. 

! The following will show the positive as well as negative potential of Ascendant contacts in synastry.

✧ Sun-Ascendant:

When the Sun and Ascendant touch positively/neutrally, this can bring an immediate familiarity between the two, the Sun person is generally supportive and inspiring to the Ascendant person, they usually see themselves reflecting in each other, though the Sun person is rawer in the expression of this energy and thus can potentially come off too strong for the Ascendant person at times, especially if they themself have difficulties with their Ascendant’s energy. Generally though, the Sun person can seem like the ‘master’ of energy, meaning they can show the Ascendant person the best way in how to become more authentic in their self image and how to integrate their self image into their environment successfully. Harmonious/neutral aspects can create a ‘feel-good’ connection, that is not only exciting because it grands opportunities, but also bears the potential to grow and learn together. At worst, the Sun’s expression is too overbearing, too out of control for the Ascendant person. The Sun person can become too demanding and pushy/bossy, while both feel misunderstood and like their freedom of choice and independence is threatened.

✧ Moon-Ascendant:

Moon and Ascendant in combination can create a wonderful comfortable atmosphere, and most likely the Moon person feels welcome to express their emotional nature, because they feel the Moon person just gets them. As they both feel like they somehow reflect each others way of processing emotions and what is needed to be comfortable, this can easily lead to more vulnerable and intimate moments between the two, though this effect can also lead to a feeling of intrusion for the Moon person, as the Ascendant person can act like a ‘mind reader’. At the same time, the Ascendant person might think the Moon person is emotionally overbearing and exhausts them. This contact, no matter of harmonious, neutral or negative, can show a point in a connection where both are very reactive with the other, emotions come and go spontaneously, thus this can be a point of moodiness and instability as well.  At worst, this can lead to misunderstandings, the Moon person being perceived as too sensitive for the Ascendant person and them having to adjust to their needs.

✧ Mercury-Ascendant:

Communication just flows here. As it's easy to find topics to talk about, Mercury and the Ascendant coming together can bear the opportunity for decreased boredom, but also being able to reflect the world around one with one another. Both might enjoy that they make sense out of the world in the same or similar way, thus giving the opportunity to define and sharpen each others intellect. Both can hold an equal amount of adoration for the other, while the Mercury person can have especially big heart eyes for the Ascendant person, as they show how the Mercury persons energy (even if it's just similar) can be successfully integrated in ones direct approach to the world. Thus, there is an opportunity to feel small in this connection, or make it a competition, with an belittling attitude from either the Ascendant or Mercury person to the other. So when there's not a mental stimulation, which leads to mutual intellectual progression and/or integrating the self better into ones environment, at worst this can lead to difficulties in finding common interests, bickering about every detail and potentially feeling annoyed by the others constant disagreement or even feeling little around the other. Even if a debate is interesting, if there's no real closure, both feel like it's hard pursuing the other and making amends. Awkwardness at first meeting with harsh aspects can occure as well, because both don't know how to successfully start a conversation or how to run it organically and smoothly.

✧ Mars-Ascendant:

This connection can be quiet exciting at first. The Ascendant person is energized by Mars, and Mars is motivated by the way the Ascendant person expresses themselves. The Ascendant person can naturally awake curiosity and thus the 'pursuer' in Mars. This connection can lead to the desire to take action together, or motivating the other to take action. Especially the Ascendant person can benefit from the Mars persons energy, as their motivation and attention can lead to a confident boost, or Mars helping with any sort of plans the Ascendant person has for their future. Needless to say, this connection is famously known to create physical attraction, as the need to take action towards the Ascendant person and the amount of attraction and attention the Ascendant person receives can heighten physical chemistry. But there is also another side to it: neutral or harsh aspects can create real competition between the two. The competition is playful at best, but can turn between a fight of egos easily. Unintentionally or intentionally riling the other up is possible here, irritation can lead to frustration and thus heighten the chances for fights. Aggression is openly expressed here. Putting one's foot in the others mouth can be common as well, the Ascendant person can especially feel like the Mars person is rather inconsiderate and too impulsive or stubborn.

✧ Venus-Ascendant:

A famously known beneficial connection, because both find it easy to connect to the other, as they represent the standard of what one needs in order to build a friendship, or at least a harmonious bond. Here, both most likely seek for the same or similar experiences and values in a social connection and thus really enjoy spending quality time together. The Venus person usually feels easily drawn to the Ascendant person, and the Ascendant person appreciates and welcomes the Venus person and can subconsciously seek them out even. Socializing together is just a lot of fun here, though sometimes these moments can be fleeting. Both can feel too busy feeling goof and focusing on the nice stuff, that they forget the necessary, but most likely tougher topics/situations that occur in any form of close connection. At worst, this can lead to feeling awkward with the other or even turned off, as the Ascendant person can come off as 'uncultured' or without any manner/insensitive, and the Venus person as stuck up or very conceited/snobbish.

✧ Jupiter-Ascendant:

Compared to Mercury, this can be more the indicator of  a subconscious, more spiritual connection, that is based on the same attitude towards something or believe/following. The mutual connection is most likely felt. The Ascendant person can feel strong admiration for the Jupiter person and see them as some sort of ideal or mentor/teacher. The mutual agreement on whatever these two follow in life, can bring out a feeling of companionship. The two most likely will find the time they spend interesting and enjoyable or find it easy to have a good time together! At worst, the other can appeal as a try hard or preachy and snobbish/egalitarian. Same as with the Sun, harsh or neutral aspects can make the Jupiter person overbearing and hard to handle at time, other than that, the differences in believes, ethics, etc. can create tension, or make one feel off put by the other and fall into ethical fights that can exaggerate rather quickly.

✧ Saturn-Ascendant:

When Saturn and the Ascendant touch, this can evoke deep respect for the other, or at worst feeling pressured, judged and even being afraid of making mistakes in front of the other. At first, this aspect can bring distance, as if the other has to be scanned before proceeding to pursue them, but this connection can bear a lot of warmth and closeness, as Saturn here works as a stabilizer: the two want to become their best versions together. It is especially Saturn that can fall into the admirer/student role here, as the Ascendant person can be the positive example of how to successfully integrate Saturn's lesson and call for responsibility into the world. Due to this factor, the Ascendant person can soften the Saturn person up, and subconsciously they can form a 'responsibility' to stay together, because it's simply beneficial for both, as the Ascendant person can strengthen their own character through the Saturn person. So at best, this contact can be very practical and useful, but at worst, this contact can bring coldness, distance, especially the Saturn person can perceive the Ascendant person as irresponsible, while the Ascendant person feels that Saturn is their strongest critique and even cruel/not empathetic.

✧ Uranus-Ascendant:

This contact can create strong, sudden feelings when the two meet, truly electrifying, but as Uranus' bursts of energy come and go, so can the intensity of this urge to be together as well. Despite this on and off, Uranus can truly boost the Ascendant's person growth, as Uranus constantly questions the status quo of themself, their surroundings and society's structures. Both identify with what sets each of them apart, which can create a strong sense of companionship. Both can value the unconditional acceptance the other give. At worst, the need for unconventionality and change in the dynamic can cause a fragile bond, Uranus might get bored easily or thinks the Ascendant person is too narrow minded in the way the represent themself and approach the world. The two can come across as too off putting and thus they simply walk into two different directions. Especially the Ascendant person can feel like the Uranus person triggers something self destructive inside them.

✧ Neptune-Ascendant:

When Neptune touches the Ascendant, the Neptune person can see a wonderful dream in the Ascendant person and at first this can be true for the Ascendant person as well. Idealization plays a huge role here, as the Ascendant person can represent everything the Neptune person dreams of, and the Ascendant person most likely welcomes the devoting and empathetic nature of the Neptune person. They can inspire the other to create new dreams and follow them, again, the Ascendant person probably feels lifted by Neptune's spirit, but the question is how real it can be, until it crosses the line of mere dreaming. At worst, the Ascendant person can become an object of 'delusion' for the Neptune person, and Neptune gets the other off course by leading them to no real end goal. There is simply not enough realism that can actualize any of these dreams and desires between the two. The Neptune person confuses and frustrates the Ascendant person. Neptune could also be turned off by the Ascendant's cruel nature or feel scared to open up their deepest desires and feelings in front of them. It can also cause an awkward feeling of simply assuming what the other feels, without ever addressing it, because both are avoidant.

✧ Pluto-Ascendant:

This connection can cause extreme reactions towards the other: either being intrigued or withdrawal, with most likely the Ascendant person being the one desiring distance between the Pluto person. Regardless, both can be tempted to get to know the other better, as both feel like the other has something important to reveal to them (which can also point to physical intimacy). Pluto usually sees the Ascendant person as their object of interest, while the Ascendant person likes the power Pluto holds and thus almost subconsciously open ups to them. Both can feel eerily comfortable together as they feel like they carry the same wounds, or at least the Ascendant person can help Pluto understand their wounds better, how to get over their fears and integrate their power successfully into the world. Meeting each other can feel fateful even. Coming together can feel like playing with fire for the Ascendant person  at worst, this connection can cause constant triggering and provoke the worst behavior of self destruction, especially in Pluto. The connection can blow up in flames and turn to ashes when any suspicions aren't sorted out.

✧ Ascendant-Ascendant:

Both have a similar approach to life and thus start off the connection on easy terms in most cases. Working together, forming a routine and sorting out priorities as well. This connection can also indicate having followed an either a very similar life path so far or that both life paths 'complete' or improve the other's approach to life. Supportive. The harmony and similarities can turn into feeling stuck in a rut as well though. At worst, both have an approach to life that is simply too different, this can cause constant bickering or even having difficulties aligning a future together, causing the connection to fade away. Being torn in how to successfully move forward together, misunderstanding happen on basic levels.

✧ Lilith-Ascendant:

Challenging and/or exciting. Lilith here offers the Ascendant person another perspective it life, one they consider new and exciting or even inappropriate or taboo. This is why Lilith contacts to the Ascendant can feel like temptation and are alluring, as well as destructive. Sometimes Lilith provokes the Ascendant person on purpose, other times it genuine and is meant to give mutual stimulation and fun. The Ascendant person either appreciates Lilith's 'wildcard' nature, which can initiate change in the way the Ascendant person approaches and sees the world, or at worst, it causes frustration, hurt and aggression in the Ascendant person, while Lilith feels judged and alienated.

✧ Vertex-Ascendant:

When the Vertex touches this can create a meaningful connection, the Vertex person will cause long-term change in the Ascendant person by their influence on them. In long term connections, this can be a sign of strong attraction, never getting tired of the other and constantly searching ways to stay and come together. Bringing something new into the Ascendant' persons life by coming into their life. It is important to mention that a Vertex connection can come in many ways: it's not always romantic and not always long term (because the rest of the synastry and birth chart's always play into this). The empathize is here that that the Vertex person has great influence on the Ascendant person, no matter if it's a friendship,  a colleague, or simply someone they talked to at the nearest bus stop this morning.

✧ North Node-Ascendant:

Similar to the Vertex, this can also indicate someone that feels 'meant to be', but compared to the Vertex person, the North Node person is meant to work together with you, as you both follow a similar path together. Especially the North Node person feels like the Ascendant person is their friend/mentor/lover that was here to help them realize who they are truly meant to be. As the North Node holds very impatient and straight forward energy, the Ascendant person is pushed to take action in their life and the North Node person most likely appreciates and values the new opportunities for self realization the Ascendant person offers. At worst, when the North Node and Ascendant clash, the believes the Ascendant person follows in life do not align with the North Node person and can cause them to feel slowed down or discouraged by the Ascendant person, which can potentially lead to the North Node person searching for distance. The Ascendant person might feel like the North Node person is too stubborn or obsessed with how things/they should be.

✧ Chiron-Ascendant:

This can indicate a strong teacher-student dynamic between two people. The Ascendant person can become the living example of healing for the Chiron person and inspire them to grow out of their open wound/show them how to properly heal and integrate it into their life. Both can expose the other to any unrecognized or hidden wounds. The Chiron person can help the Ascendant person with any unnoticed/unhealed wounds regarding their self expression, body image or self-esteem and can motivate them to take action towards self improvement. At worst the, the Ascendant person is a constant reminder of Chiron’s trauma and can accidentally hit them where it hurts the most.

✧ Juno-Ascendant:

This aspect can be really benefitting for any long term connection, as it can show the Juno person that the Ascendant person is willing to commit to the same things in life Juno thinks of as important, especially in any relationship/friendship. The Ascendant person could shine here with their sense of devotion to the Juno person. Thus, this contact can act like a reinforcement for the strength of the connection both share. Ultimately, this can add to Junos and the Ascendant persons contentment in the relationship. At worst, Juno sees the Ascendant person as unreliable and flaky. The Juno person can become dissatisfied easily.

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✩•̩̩͙*˚ Astro Notes and Titbits Pt. 3 ˚*•̩̩͙✩

pt. 1, 2, 3, 4 x

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✧ People with Moon opposite to Saturn could have had parents that reflected the Moon - one parent was all about the other having to meet inner needs and emotions, trying to be validated by the other and coming off as rather selfish - and Saturn - one being the responsible part, all about duty, but showing little to no feelings and understanding for the other. One parent wanted to indulge in feelings and forgot the responsibilities while the other had to neglect feelings and had to be the practical part/provider and (amterial) stabilizer for the family

✧ Virgo and Pisces Moons often have mothers that (unintentionally) demand from them to be emotionally at service and avaible, these children could easily fall in the role of the fixer in the family and friend groups - they were an emotional assistant/caretaker for the mother; with Virgo Moon it often shows more on the practical side, while Pisces Moon tends to 'burrow' their mother their emotional strength and can easily 'merge' emotionally with their mother

✧ The 12th house in composite showing the potential end of a connection make sense because not only is the 12th house the last house and symbolizes ends, but it also carries the themes of unseen problems, hidden motives, secrets, distrust, detachement and the hidden root of problems

✧ Pisces Sun/Rising/in the 1st/Neptune contacting Ascendant/other planets in the 1st can lead to having small and/or sharp teeth, which is also known as the 'fish teeth' of Pisces (but Virgo placements can have them too occasionally, as it is Pisces opposite sign)

✧ Teachers who have their Sun, Jupiter, Mercury in your 9th and/or 3rd might be the ones you learn from the most or have the best learning style for you, even though they can be quiet provocative at times. On the other hand, they can make you think deeply by challenging your current believes, thus expanding them 

✧ North Node in 11th can possibly indicating coming together romantically with a very close friend or even marrying them eventually

✧ People with their Saturn sign as their parents Sun sign have a very complex (not necessarily bad) relationship with them, especially if Saturn and Sun are in a conjunction -> the parent can become their eternal supervisor, thus making the child feel as they have limited options around their parents even if the parent means well, it can come even close to being drilled

✧ On the other hand, children who have their Sun sign as their parents Saturn sign can become easier the ‘black sheep’ or ‘problem child’ in the eyes of their parents, especially if the parent figure hasn’t really mastered their Saturn placement themself. The child might feel constant pressure, as if they aren’t enough, all they do is automatically ‘wrong’ somehow as they can be the manifestation of the parents eternal struggle

✧ I noticed that people with personal planets in Leo, but especially Mars and Ascendant have hands that resemble 'pranks' in the sense that their nails are really long/pointy naturally or they like to have long/pointier nails

✧ Saturn in Cancer and/or 4th house indicates having to carry a lot of responsibility for the home life and mother figure, but it can often go unnoticed/unappreciated

✧ We rather tend to define us by our harsh aspects, more than by harmonious ones because the harsh ones are provocative, they push us to be concerned with them (and therefore our self image and self growth) directly because of the tension and discomfort. Harmonious aspects usually need more self reflection and awareness to notice them consciously

✧ Ascendant contacts in Synastry are where you set each other off at beginning of a connection and can really set the whole mood for the start and thus also progress of the connection

✧ the Cardinal Grand Cross can lead to a potential ‘identity crisis’, wanting to become many things and seeing the potential to ‘become’ seemingly everywhere so it’s hard taking (one) clear direction

✧ A duplicated 1st and 12th house (so 12th house and Ascendant in the same sign) can make you actually be high key unaware of certain things you carry on the nose and give you the tendency to be hypocritical even. You can see people like you and you’d go ugh this is how you live meanwhile this is exactly how you live. This duplication calls for strong self awareness the individual has to develope in order to realize themself in the way they want, a lot of times the root of the problem can be found in the hidden motivations/fears/blind spots about our self image that still subconsciously motivate us or hinder us from taking actively part in the world around us (leading to stagnation, time sof confusion and revaluation)

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✧ Aquarius' famous 'detachment' is a needed ability to fulfill the role of their archetype: Aquarius is known to be the sign of progress, carrying the revolution on their back and even though Aquarius is known to be a social sign (a need to connect to people) they can often feel alone or like 'the odd one out', because they are born to be an observer - that's why they are also the water bearer. They can actually communicate the emotions, ideas and desires of people pretty well and initaite connectivity, finding alternatives and bringing new ideas and thus progress to the world. But often times the way they deal with other emotions is completely different to the way they handle their own emotions, this relationship is way more complex. Aquarius' detachement is most of the time not really a detachement from others, but is more rooted in an inner detachement that can simply reflect on the outside

✧ often times, Libra moons are a very direct reflection of the dynamic of the relationship of their parents (positive as well as negative), with an empathize of how their mother figure handled their partners feelings - the Moon is what we take and feel out of our upbringing and thus the emotions based on the parental relationship can reflect in Libra Moon and the way they deal with other people's emotions and their own emotions in relation to others til they are old

✧ Virgo has a very profound relationship with the concept of self improvement, shame and perfectionism. Virgo’s ‘perfectionism’ or rather said just/right behavior often times stems from experiences/periods in their life where they either were shamed or feel profound shame about themselves -> Virgos hyper awareness of how people perceive them and things are connected and will potentially play out (Here we come back to their ruler Mercury) can really push their drive for self-improvement, which can quickly turn into perfectionism. A lot of Virgos will realize when they get older that they have to accept and embrace faults in order to become a better, ‘improved’ version of themselves.

✧ The reason why Pluto is known to be a planet standing for obsessive/addictive tendencies is that Pluto also represents power, fear and (false) control and how to realize and come free from it -> we need absolute honesty to realize how things are, remember, Pluto is the last planet and the Sun's light doesn't reach it - in order to find ones way in the darkness, it requires strong drive and focus, which ultimately lead to liberation and empowerment, but also paranoia and copulsion if the dark, opaque state of Pluto wins the best of you

✧ On people with profound fire in their chart and the stereotype of 'flightiness': these people usually need a partner that they can feel alive with, experience new facettes of life and make memories with : fire represents the ego and thus these people constantly redefine it, therefore their life is meant to be a way to 'rub off' the self, experience and active growth from both sides is from outmost importance and someone who can't keep up with that and that forces them to slow down is usually not for them. If their partner adds to their flame of motivation, the passion that keeps them going then that's a total win for them. I also think this effect is doubled when people have a majority of fire and earth in their chart especially.

✧ Yods carry the energy of Pluto, as they usually indicate deep, profound change and realization. It is said that if the apex planet of the Yod is in Pluto, then the Yod will truly show it's truest form

✧ a Quincunx (Inconjunction) carries Virgo energy, as it calls for adjustment and flexibility, finding an initiative and trying different methods to finalize a solution

✧ People with Moon/ Chiron in aspect with Mercury/ Chiron in 3rd/Gemini/Virgo and Pluto in the 3rd might especially benefit from changing the narrative of their problems, how they talk about themselves and what they associate with words and how they express things and formulate them

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✧ Pisces in 6th/Neptune in 6th have literally a 'mysterious' daily routine, people usually have a hard time reconstructing their daily routine: these people either seemingly 'disappear' when they are busy, because they also could tend to prefer working alone and thus people have no perception of what they do and when they do it

-> Uranus/Aquarius in 6th can be quiet chaotic in their daily routine as well and thus also very hard to read and poin point for others

✧ The North Node can give you good insight in which people you might prefer to step into your life or even would benefit from in a partnership, as the North Node is the progress we should focus on in our current life time: someone who can represent our North Node's energy and give it the support it needs to develope could become a long term partner or at least valued person for a period of time in our life

✧ Taurus in the 9th is known to be 'slower/close minded' when it comes to adapting to new ideas in their life and can be pretty judgy/cautious when confronted with things they don't know, but I noticed they are mostly absolutely not picky when it's about food of different cultures, I noticed it's more often people with Taurus Moon who have a harder time trying new foods

✧ The energies of the Composite and Natal Chart kinda need to blend together in order for the individual to feel fulfilled in the connection, for example: if someone has Sagittarius in their 7th house and a Scorpio Mars and Venus, then lots of contacts with Jupiter and Pisces/Sagittarius/Scorpio influence in the composite could give the individual the feeling the connection feels right/comfortable -> it doesn't have to be exactly the case as in the example, but some sort of 'recognition' of the Natal Chart in the Composite can make the Natal Chart individual content and safe in the connection

✧ Saturn in the 8th house hate lies to death and are usually the type of people to say 'I rather hear a hard truth than pretty lie' -> usually, lying is a huuuuuge deal breaker for them, even the more 'harmless' lies

✧ Also to Saturn in 8th house people, because some might need to hear it: it’s about setting healthy boundaries, not being completely isolated and alone -> being alone to the point you can not turn to anyone doesn't equal healthy

✧ Oppositions in Synastry and the Composite create a non-stagnant dynamic and keep the flow going, they can work very complementary and growth can come easier as with square, the square can easier lead to a negative outcome than opposition due to more internalized problems

✧ This doesn’t count for everyone but I noticed people with Scorpio/Aries/Capricorn Moon/Rising/Venus tend to like posing with cigarettes in their profil picture if they smoke

✧ 10th house placements, especially when it's personal planets, can be too dependent on the feedback and approval of others, they should watch out how emotionally dependent they get on the words of others, they should learn to become their own biggest supporter

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Note: My astro notes (snyastry, natal, composite, etc.) + any other misc. astrology post/observations fall under this section!

✧ On 12th house Synastry , 2

✧ On the 12th house Profection Year

✧ The Non-Lilith Person in Synastry: Adam, Eve and the Snake-Lady

✧ Asto Musings: Lilith - Wild, Ancient Mother

✧ Astro Musings: Astrology and Children

✧ Astro Notes and Observations 7

✧ Astro Notes and Observations 6

✧ Astro Notes & Titbits 5

✧ Astro Notes & Titbits 4

✧ Astro Notes & Titbits 3

✧ Astro Notes: 2

✧ Astro Notes: 1

✧ small astro observations and notes: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8

✧ On unrequited love in Astrology

✧ So you don't get along with a certain sign's energy?

✧ Inconjunctions explained: ScorpioxAries, LibraxTaurus, LibraxPisces

✧ personal guide to guessing someone’s Ascendant

✧ The Ascendant Persona Chart

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The Angles in Synastry Pt. 2: The Descendant

Part 1 about the Ascendant can be found here! x

Please don’t copy my work

♡ The Descendant is the point oppsoite to the Ascendant. The Descendant is a part of ourself which we don't always see, disapprove of in ourself, but project on others and to an extend even deny in ourselves as we can't recognize the qualities of the Descendant inside us, but in everyone else with our Descendant's energy. Thus, Here, we talk about a point of us that can be described as our 'shadow self' as well and the Descendant is the energy we attract, because we need to integrate it into ourselves in order to become statsified and 'complete' in ourself, it is an angle that is especially signficant in connections with others, as our opponent can carry these qualities inside them and thus can help us further to self reflection.

♡ The Descendant is thus a part of us we have to acknowledge, it's qualities reside within us. Furthermore, the Descendant is also something we could miss in our life: in ourselves and others. In intimate connections this can be the traits and energy we need and want to feel fulfilled, as it's also progressive for our selfgrowth. We already express the energy of our Descendant in our connections and the right connections will only give us more of the comfortableness and opportunities to express the Descendant's qualities, It's important to remember that negative as well as positive qualities are included, but the more we work on our self-awareness regarding the Descendant, the better we are able to get a feeling for the way we express the Descendant and integrate it into our life.

♡ This post will focus on more intimate connections (friendships/relationships), but remember that the Descendant also indicates other connections: coworkers, open enemies, etc. Also: planets close to your natal Descendant can influence Descendant contacts in your Synastry as well. And as the AC-DC are an axis, check the Ascendant and it's aspects always as well!

! This post will show the positive and negative potential for the Descendant contacts in Synastry!

♡ Sun-Descendant:

At best: Strong bond, because the Sun person actively represents what the Descendant person wants and needs to integrate in their life. The Sun person can become an inspiration as well as an ideal here, making the bond very strong. The Sun person can transform into a point of orientation for the Descendant person. The Sun person shines bright light onto this 'shadow area' of the Descendant person, meaning this is also very dependent on the own shadow work the Descendant person has done. Here, the persona, self expression, the ego of the Sun person is ultimately a reflection of them. The Sun person can't hide their true self, their Sun's nature, thus the Descendant person will constantly be confronted with the disowned or unseen parts of them they want and need to deal with, making this an extremely progressive connection. At worst: An overbearing connection, the Sun person can become the personification of everything the Descendant person dislikes (abut themself). Here, the Sun person can fall into the domineering role if the Descendant person has troubles dealing with their 'shadow side' and might surrender to spare themself the confrontation.

♡ Moon-Descendant:

At best: Anther possible strong connection, as the Moon person can give the Descendant person the emotional care they always wanted. The Descendant persona an feel truly 'heard' and emotionally satisfied, it's easier here to address secret emotional needs, the Moon person most likely will have a good intuition about what to give the Descendant person. The Moon person can feel needed and deeply appreciated, on top of that this can turn out to a win-win in situation as the Descendant person becomes more comfortable with traits that the Moon person appreciates as well. The Descendant person will search the company of the Moon person, they feel comfortable to open up to sides they were afraid to tap in before. At worst: Co-dependence, the Moon person can feel too good in being useful, or at worst is afraid to separate from the Descendant person when they become too dependent on the emotional care and comfort of Moon person. The Descendant person feels like the care of the Moon person is necessary for them to feel confident and comfortable. Or, the Moon person can't understand and/or cater to the Descendant person's hidden emotional needs, creating frustration and making the Descendant person closed off.

♡ Mercury-Descendant:

At best: The Mercury person opens up new and progressive ideas for the Descendant person, they help them change their perspective, broaden their horizon and grow mentally, eventually changing their perspective on people and the world and how they function together. This can heighten tolerance of their own and other's 'weaknesses'. Makes them open for discussions. The conversations they lead might be specially exciting and different for the Descendant person, though they might not always be really comfortable for the DC person, as the Mercury person can hit critical points simply by sharing their thoughts and showing the nature of their mind. The talking style of the Mercury person or the way they dissect the world around them might be especially attractive to the DC person. At worst: Communication can be hit or miss here, the Mercury person might be 'too __' for the DC person at times, irritating them, or accidentally hurting the DC person, making them afraid to show other, rarer sites of them. Both perceive the other as narrow minded at times or not easy to understand what they really mean.

♡ Venus-Descendant:

At best: Can be a very fruitful connection, showing affection happens just the way the Descendant person might want and like it and they can feel like the Venus handles friendships/relationships the way they always desired it. Very focused on the well being of the connection and trying to make it pleasant for the other, taking care of the individual needs the other has. Through this connection the Descendant person will become especially aware of what have might been lacking in former connections. The constant mutual reciprocity of displays of affection (not matter if it's words, physical touch, acts of service, etc.) can be the best part of this connection. At worst: Too much focus on the other, neglecting the self or straight up forgetting own needs. The adjustment can feel too out of touch with who the DC person is, especially if they haven't done their shadow work.

♡ Mars-Descendant:

At best: Mars's straightforward nature and pursue can be flattering to the Descendant person. Mars is usually interested and enticed by the way the Descendant person deals with others, and if they have still troubles fully embracing their DC, Mars can smell a challenge which can even heighten Mars' interested in the DC person. The both will find the ways they deal with the pursue to others quiet complementary or at least find a lot of ways in which they can inspire and motivate the other. Here, the DC person can find their spirits almost lifted to become an active part In their connections and at best be more mindful over their actions and desires. If it is a sexual relationship then this can hint to possible strong physical attraction. At worst: Since the Descendant not only marks/places in the 7th house but also has similarities with Venus as well, the Descendant person can subconsciously fall into the mediator/harmonizer role, while Mars can become domineering, making the decisions and leading the connection, the Descendant person might have little opportunities to develop their Descendant nature themself. Or, they feel irritated by Mars nature and can thus start rejecting these traits themself.

♡ Jupiter-Descendant:

At best: Mutual growth for both. Jupiter itself searches for constant expansion and the Jupiter person's wisdom, ideas, critical thoughts, etc. can bring the Descnedant person into critical self reflection of how they view their 'shadow self'. Just like Mercury this can  lead to broader thinking on the Descendant person's side but make it a bit more existential. Can lead to a journey of new self discovery. Jupiter here will lead to more honesty and authenticity in the Descendant person, as they are encouraged by Jupiter to face every part of them for the sake of living an honest life. Despite that, these two can actually spend quiet a good time together – no only can Jupiter bring optimism to the Descendant person, but can actually have the potential to bind the two together by shared interests, finding common ground in what excites the other and is interesting. At worst: Impersonal, can potentially lead to great outcomes but not necessarily longevity. The Jupiter person can be too preachy and snobbish for the DC person, as if they understand the troubles and potentials of the DC person but the DC person feels still left in the dark or looked upon.

♡ Saturn-Descendant:

At best: Can be an actually really fruitful connection, but of course, will consist more of strengthening and sharpening the Descendant person's character: Saturn addresses any areas of the DC person, where they haven't been taken care of their own behavior, where they denied themselves and where they possibly lack taking responsibility in their actions with others. Saturn here will be the reminder for the Descendant person to do their shadow work, and own up to the parts they project onto others and deny about themselves. The Saturn person is also the one reminding the DC person of the responsibility both share in this connection. The serious nature of Saturn can create a a serious and stable connection. At worst: Saturn can make the Descendant person feel trapped, bound to their expectations of the relationship, feeling like they're not (doing) enough. Can feel like there is a lack of sensitivity and understanding. Saturn can potentially act like the 'decision maker' of the connection, easily disappointed.

♡ Uranus-Descendant:

At best: Uranus here can show a very different idea of how the Descendant person has to live out, define and integrate their 'shadow self'. Uranus here can motivate the Descendant person to view their own discrepancies in a different light because the unconventionality of the Uranus person enriches the understanding of how to manage their connections. This can bring strong attraction, but the DC person might need a lot of flexibility to keep up with Uranus not conformative behavior and attitude, but eventually it can be very progressive for the Descendant person to think out of the box in order to re-frame possible conflicts with their 'shadow self'. At worst: The attraction can be fleeting and unstable, potential conflict due to a totally different approach to relationships, even though when they might share some similarities or share the same starting point over their views. The rather unusual change the Uranus person brings can surely be great for growth and self reflection, but also shaken up any foundation of a connection.

♡ Neptune-Descendant:

At best: Neptune can create the perfect atmosphere to bring out the deepest cravings and desires the Descendant person might want in a connection and their friend/partner to have. Neptune can make room for this and act accordingly. With compassion and room to unfold, the DC person can become comfortable with their 'shadow self'. At worst: Falling in love with the idea of a person. Here, Neptune can bring illusion and create the wish for an ideal in a connection, an ideal of how both can work together and what the Neptune person can bring the Descendant person. The Descendant person might feel relieved to receive what they desperately always craved and to express themselves freely, but in the end, it turns out that Neptune only gave them an idea, a possibility of how it could have been without making it a reality. This can leave the DC person confused about what they represent and attract, Here, there is great potential for projection and blaming from the DC person onto the Neptune person, forgetting to reflect and look at themself as well.

♡ Pluto-Descendant:

At best: Here, there will be no hiding with what parts of the Descendant person has not integrated and worked on yet. The Pluto person will almost see through the facade and help the Descendant person face their fears and address negative behavioral patterns. The change this brings can be very thorough and radical, and through the help of the Pluto person, the Descendant person can grow very close to the Pluto person. The connection can evoke a lot of suppressed emotions of the Descendant person,  At worst: The methods of the Pluto person to get closer and emotionally intimate with the Descendant person can be very radical and extreme. It's all or nothing here and thus the connection can feel uncomfortable, compulsive, addicting. The meltdown of a final release can leave the Descendant person in pieces, at best, clearer of who they are from deep within and what they should avoid seeking in others and allowing them to do.

♡ Ascendant-Descendant:

At best: Can be a very fruitful connection, here, the Ascendant person is the physical manifestation of the part the Descendant person rejects, can't integrate or craves in a connection and thus brings a good, progressive dynamic into the connection. Inspirational and similar, yet different enough to encourage the other to give their best being true to themselves. There can be knowing that the other person can give you exactly that you really want but can't address/speak about all the time. At worst: Here lies another chance of knowing that there must be taken care of a side of the partner/friend that is sometimes hard to understand for the other. The Descendant person might feel like the Ascendant person is rather insensitive and direct, very practical with their approach to the other. There can be a clash of mindsets and a possible limitation in what one is able to integrate in their own life and able to offer the other.

♡ Lilith-Descendant:

At best: The Lilith person can show the Descendant parts of themself they have desperately tried to denied or gives them a chance to indulge in desires and fantasies, both here can encourage this part of the other. This can ultimately leave to a better integration of the more societal viewed 'taboo' parts that are okay to want and experience in a connection. At worst: The Lilith person triggers the worst, self-destructive parts of the Descendant person, letting them indulge in the worst parts of their shadow self, being unaware of the consequences with what they are, seek and attract. Lilith here can be the 'negative' manifestations of what the Descendant person wants, because the way they connect and interact always happens around something 'controversial' in that sense. Trouble could both follow them everywhere when they are together.

♡ Vertex-Descendant:

At best: The meeting of the Vertex person will bring out the best, possibly hidden parts of the Descendant person. Here, the Descendant person will have an opportunity to show how well they have reflected themself, or possibly with the help of the Vertex person. The Descendant person can feel like the Vertex person opens up ways for significant meetings with other people that will have a long term effect of how the Descendant person views others and themself. At worst: As the Vertex can symbolize 'fate', there is never a guarantee that the experience here will be pleasant, long term or romantic/a friendship. But it will mark a special/profound moment in the Descendant person's life.

♡ North Node-Descendant:

At best: Can feel very special and 'meant to be'. The North Node indicates new things coming into our life, thus the Descendant person can be especially significant for the North Node person. The Descendant person most likely feels like they can be a very profound supporting person in the North Nodes persons life. The connection here can be very deep and long-lasting. Can create a feeling of recognition, 'finding' the other, finally. At worst: The North Node person can 'outgrow' the Descendant person if they feel that they limit themself, the Descendant  person might feel uncomfortable in which pace the North Node person moves, in a way, they could have have to keep up with their path and feel potentially neglected. They will have to address what they need from the Lunar Node person.

♡ Chiron-Descendant:

At best: Both will trigger the wounds of the other here. The Descendant person can especially trigger the Chiron person's wound that show in their connections to others and thus the Descendant person might see things in the Chiron person Chiron wants to hode or dislikes addressing, but as the Descendant person searches for the connection with the Chiron person, they will have to face their fears. Ultimately, both will reflect of what is important for them to be content in a connection. The Descendant person will have to face any parts of their shadow self that triggered Chiron or they share with Chiron. At worst: If both are unable to address the issues and especially if Chiron feels that the Descendant person projects too much onto them and is unable to understand Chiron's issues they have in the connection, this connection might require a lot of work or might end in a disappointment/pain and further unresolved issues.

♡ Juno-Descendant:

At best: This can be a great indicator for a long term connection. The Juno person is showing the traits the Descendant person craves the most and thus can feel very encouraged to display the traits they crave in someone else too, as the Juno person makes it possible and safe to tap into the Descendant's energy. At worst: Can be feel like the Juno person doesn't quiet get what the Descendant person wants, kinda missing the point all the time. The Descendant person will have to realize that they can't make themself dependent on the Juno person as well, they will realize now what they really need in order to feel comfortable and committed in a long term connection.

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i looked through the tags so i’m sorry if this ends up being a repeat 🥲 But can i have some insight on venus conjunct moon in synastry? thank you!

♡ Venus conjunct Moon in Synastry ♡

♡ an aspect that can lead to an 'instant' familarity with each other, like recognizing the other

♡ instant friendliness with one another, this aspect really adds to two individuals genuinely caring for the other and wanting to make them feel good emotionally (!) but also physically, it comes naturally to them here

♡ this aspect can sooth other harsher aspects, because Moon and Venus together are both in need of satisfaction and harmony

♡ domestic and creative activities can be empathized here, the home can become the two peoples safe space

♡ the home space especially can be the area where the most and rawest feelings are shown

♡ the bond can quickly strengthen over time, as this aspect can be very soothing and a good base for long term connections - a need for harmony is increased, but likewise if harmony is threatened both are very sensitive to whatever stands between them, the sacredness of their comfort place the connection can be heightens sensibility in general

♡ though it has to be said that idealism can be very common here, as well as emotional dependence

♡ the connection is nourished by emotional expressiveness, there is especially room for the Moon person to let their guard down, as the Venus person most likely appreciates the way the Moon person embodies feelings, the Venus person might need exactly that type of emotional temper in their connections to keep being interested in them and feel comfortable

♡ one sees the stars in the others eyes (in the most endearing way possible): Moon here cares greatly for the well-being of Venus and is very sensitive to their needs, while Venus wants to treat the Moon person as someone special, so both find themselves in some sort of symbiosis of feeling good and creating a feel-good bond

♡ the moon person especially can get from the Venus person the type of love and sense of beauty and creativity they were never given at home/from their mother figure

♡ this aspect can heal a lot of old wounds from the Moon person, they can feel very heard and seen from the Venus person

♡ can be an aspect that adds to both people wanting to create a physical home together, they might like the idea of integrating 'children' into their bond which don't have to be children in the literal sense, plants, pets, you name it!

♡ can make both people very generous with each other (emotionally, materially, etc.) but on the contrary also prone to trying to avoid conflict and passive aggressiveness

♡ can also lead to-codependence