#poly lifestyle

[iwasateenagebordigist]

The CIA invented polyamory in 2019 to shut down nascent leftist movements in the United States

[xmagnet-o]

Don’t think I can do the stereotypical poly life. I’m get too envious, plus having sex with multiple partners seems chaotic to me.

I guess my idea of a multi-person relationship is more about community and creating a lifestyle where everyone has a role. It doesn’t necessarily revolve around sex or kink. That’s the ideal “poly” relationship I would want because I’m disabled and need support but also do my part when I can. I want to be taken care but also take care of others. & if I ever decide to have kids, I know my kids will be taken care of by my other partners.

[astraseraph]

Not to soft flex but Supportive relationships are important.

[ponderingpoly]

What isn’t polyamory?

It’s not cheating, that’s why we call it ethical nonmonogamy. It’s not simple to add more love into your life, in fact it can be quite complex. Calendars and availability don’t always match, which can cause lapses in couple time. It isn’t about more sex, unless you want it to be.

It’s not easy learning how to process and handle emotions in a healthy way. Sometimes polyamory isn’t about dating more people, and dry spells happen. It’s not about doing it for someone else so you can date them - if you don’t do polyam for your own heart, it probably won’t work for you.

It’s not about always getting along with your love’s love (aka your metamore) nor does it mean always getting everyone together at once. Commitment issues—read this carefully— are not the reason for choosing polyamory. It’s not closing the door to romantic love because you’ve found a partner. It’s not about finding someone better and it’s not about being selfish.

This is just a start, what can you add?

[bimboyslvt]

PRIDE MONTH

Y'all better be representing like my potato looking behind

[bimboyslvt]

Drawing of one of my partners. He decided it would be fun to try drag!!!