Jun 13, 2021
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Life update cuz it’s been a minute:
In October I started dating my partner S. He’s a cis (ish) queer man. He/him/his
In November I came out at enby. I use they/them pronouns.
In January I started dating my partner C. They’re enby and bi. They/he.
In February all of my local partners met for the first time for my bday (A, S, and C). They all got along really well and we had a good time. At my party, S asked permission to flirt with C, I said yes, one thing led to another, and I had a birthday threesome for the 2nd year in a row. S and C started dating.
In March when COVID hit, S, C, and I all started quarantining together at S’s place. We’ve been here since then (it’s July 1 as I write this). It’s been going pretty well, but I’m dealing with my own jealously for the first time which has been a journey.
On Feb 15, S and I said “I love you” for the first time. C and I said it on April 3. S and C said it either June 13 or 14. That was hard for me to deal with but I’m glad we’re all surrounded by love and care and I feel really safe.
I definitely struggle with jealously more than I thought I would. I’ve had several bad days and a lot of bad feelings. I’m trying to get better at talking about it and examining my feelings and it’s going well. C and I are going to start doing RADARs.
Today, SA and I finally broke up. It’s been a long time coming, since COVID hit we’ve barely been talking and it’s very clear that LDRs don’t work for me. Not knowing when I could see them next or when we’d ever stop being long distance was really hard. It was mural, healthy, and full of love, and we both wish each other well. We’re remaining friends to an extent and if either of us are ever in each other’s cities, we’ll meet up and hang out.
I think that’s about it. S is flying home tomorrow to spend time with his parents so C and I will have almost two weeks to ourselves, which will be nice. It’s been haaaard but very very worth it.
Hello! For those of you who know and for those who don’t, I’m doing a lil intro thing, mostly to try out the pinned post feature.
My name is Zoo. I’m bisexual and non binary, I use they/them, occasionally he/him, pronouns. Obviously I’m polyamorous. I practice solo poly and kitchen table poly, with dashes of relationship anarchy. My pipe dream is to live on poly commune.
My partners are:
A- cis het(ish) man, he/him. Been together two years come September (I write this in July). He is married (D) with a child.
S- queer cis(ish) man, he/him. Been together a year in October.
C- bisexual, non binary trans masc, he/him. Been together 6 months. Also dating S.
S, C, and I are essentially a triad. We’ve been quarantining together since March. I was resistant to a triad at first but it’s fallen together that way, and we’ll see how it falls after (will there ever be after?) quarantine, but I’m really loved and love them both very much. It’s been really wonderful and a huge learning experience.
It’s getting difficult to talk to SA. long distance is harrrd and especially with covid, our timeline of when we get to see each other next is up in the air. I don’t know how much longer I can do this
Guys a super cute thing happened at work today! A coworker came in and we were just chatting and he casually mentioned that he went to his first poly meetup this weekend and internally I was like ‘how the fuck did you find out that I was poly okay cool guess we’re doing this’ and I asked which one and chatted about that. Then I said which one I go to and he was like ‘wait are you also poly??’ And I said ‘yeah dude that’s why I thought you were telling me!’ Apparently he just trusted me enough to casually come out and it was super sweet!
No, YOU’RE falling in love with a cute Scottish girl who you’ve met up with all of twice and are now lowkey considering moving to Scotland
Anybody watching Easy on Netflix? The couple in the open relationship is one of the most real portrayals I’ve seen in media. Honestly, they remind me a lot of A & D, and I’m starting to see it from the perspective of a married couple a bit more. There’s also a scene where they just talk about feelings and their relationship for literally like 20 minutes and it’s really incredible to see that. Just in general on a show, seeing a conversation for that long and also for a relationship, to see that kind of communication on screen. *chefs kiss*
It’s also a really good show about all kinds of relationships and communication.
So A and I met at a Harry Potter event on September 1 last year. We’re currently at the same event at the same bar celebrating our anniversary. I am Soft.