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Let’s normalise children distancing themselves or completely cutting contact with a parent without questioning their decision, without trying to manipulate them or saying “ you only get one mum, dad etc”

A child does not cut contact with a parent for no reason, it’s often a last resort, after many attempts to create a relationship, after many apologises even though they never received one single sorry.

It is not a child’s or adult child’s responsibility too fix a relationship that the parent broke.

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Nobody chooses to be a drug addict, nobody chooses to have a substance dictate their life, relationships to themselves/others, health etc. Addiction isn’t a choice or a fault

People can only choose recovery when they are ready, when they are hurting that much that the pain of staying the same outweighs the pain of uncertainty, change, sobriety.

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Please stop thinking to be worthy of good things you have to be perfect. You are human, you make mistakes just like everyone else and you still deserve to be happy.

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You are worthy of love even if you do not feel like you are.

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Being sensitive and emotional does not make you weak.

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To anyone struggling at this time of the year, your heart may be heavy but hold on.

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You are entitled to rest, you do not have to earn rest. I repeat you do not have the earn the right to rest!

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Give yourself time too heal. You can’t heal from anything over night.