#potential partner

[sapphic-problems]

Anon who wants to kiss a guy: I'm still not totally sure I'm a lesbian, could it be I want to date him? I know he's interested in me... or maybe this is just me trying to convince myself that I want to date him because like I enjoy hanging out with him and talking about life but I don't see him as a potential partner and I wouldn't want to do more than kiss him... I've dated/kissed a few guys in the past but it does feel more like friendship plus kissing than an actual relationship...

Ah confusing feelings huh? Maybe you could just try it out, kiss him if you want that way you can see how things go and see how things feel afterwards. Also consider telling him how you feel, if that is comfortable for you. I think this will just take a bit of time to figure out your feelings but that’s okay. At least you know that you don’t see him as a potential partner and wouldn’t want to do more than kiss him. I would say just to give yourself time and you’ll find your feelings soon.

-Jess

Anon from previous ask: http://sapphic-problems.tumblr.com/post/158577677048/this-is-probably-a-weird-question-but-im-pretty

[inspectorspacetimerevisited]

There are rumours that a potential partner for the programme has laid down some red lines

that neither BTV nor Rachelle D. Tavies approve of, meaning there’s going to be conflict going forward, unless another partner steps forward.

[icedt65]

[dragon-master-kai]

Had a date. The first one I've ever been on and got stood the fuck up.

This dude called it a date, but has also been using the term hang out interchangeably.

No messages no calls, prior to today or even during or after the scheduled meet up time.

Idek what I feel. A mixture of anger and disappointment I guess.

I work at the same place as this guy so let's see how things go on Monday.

IN OTHER NEWS: I started my Xmas shopping whilst he was busy not communicating or coming it would seem

[emergent-to-end]

Partner/Boyfriend Application

Morti's Partner Application

Hello! My name is Mortimer. I am a white, 20 year-old trans man. I am making this application to hopefully find any sort of partnership (be

you don't have to do this or take it seriously, i just wanna find friends/a partner lmao

[damagedsmile]

Joker does not fall in love easily nor does he base his potential to love upon aesthetics, preferring personality over looks any day since looks can change with enough money & a surgeon’s blade. It can take a lot of work to get him to love someone, as he has to believe them to be trustworthy and tolerant of his flights of fancy and of course he has to decide if they are worthy of his own trust.

Once these little tests have been proven to him, he will begin to open up & share his world quite easily, in fact he’ll want nothing else but to include this person in his world.

He’s always been attracted to those in need, someone who needs protection or support, but this doesn’t mean he would love someone weak or 100% submissive, as he needs his own share of protection and support in return; he simply looks for someone potentially as damaged as he is who can dream the way he does but who can also provide a level of balance for him and snap him back to reality.

[damagedsmile]

💑 What are my muse’s requirements for a potential partner?

 I covered this in a couple of HC’s but here we are in a nutshell just for you Anon!

- no over-sexed behavior that verges on sluttiness: whether it’s a guy, a girl, or someone intersex doing it, he loathes it entirely and will find it a massive turn-off (most guys do, believe it or not, when seeking potential partners)

- interestingly enough, he is also turned off by people being overly coy; to him,, overuse of suggestive coyness verges upon seeming intellectually challenged 

-  someone potentially damaged who can dream the way he does but who can also provide a level of balance for him and snap him back to reality when he gets out of hand with whims etc

- 100% honesty (even if the truth is awful) & loyalty

- a generous amount of determination as he will test people to see if they are worth his time & trust

- gender has no importance but they should be able to put up with his use of genderfucking (flamboyant sissification/feminization that can occur inside/outside the bedroom), along with his anger etc

- blonde is preferred in females but not a requirement

- patience: he is an older guy and works differently than a young man when it comes to intimacy, something he often feels anxious about when with a younger person

- intelligence & similar interests for late-night conversations

- someone who won’t push him to reveal his secrets

- an open mind to anything inc. kinky shenanigans

- he does like corrupting his potential partners/teaching them new things so a bit of innocence in some way or another would be welcome