#pro aspec

[squidfreak]

Yes, everyone views relationships differently because we are all our own people who need other things more than the next person. Yes you are allowed to view one kind of relationship as more important than others, yes you are allowed to only find a few important, yes you are allowed to see every relationship as equal, yes you can find them all unimportant and not needed, and so much more. What matters the most here is that you don't try and tell someone how to view/work their own relationships, let them be.

[kiruliom]

"our history is beautiful and vibrant and we shouldnt let it be forgotten like the people who hates us wants us to" and "we shouldnt try to fit today's people into the past's boxes because humanity changes and should acknowledge that holding onto the belief of 'theres no evidence of this in history so it cant be real' is a conservative mindset" are ideas that can coexist btw.

made abt queer history but if it fits your experience with something else then that makes me a very very boy

[bitch-spectrum]

Seriously if you're still anti any label in this day and age there's no hope for you. Literally go cry about it alone in your room. You're just homo/transphobic. Get out of queer spaces if you can't handle queer people. We don't want you nor do you really even want a community if you exclude people for niche experiences. Grow up already.

This does not apply to labels like "dreamsexual" or "map" or whatever the fuck. This post is about xenogender, neopronouns, aspec, and mspec. Yes, including mspec lesbians, gays, and hets.

[squidfreak]

Since fictosexual (& fictoromantic, fictorose, etc.) has gotten popular as a label, would reclaiming and using "animesexual" in a good-faith light be fine now?

Yes

No

Nuanced (feel free to comment your reason!)

Voting ended onDec 11, 2025

SOME INFO: animesexual wasn't originally a troll term, it was actually coined by @/beyond-mogai-pride-flags here. (ALSO! These other ones I found made by them.) It's only seen as one because of the amount of trolls who used it to cause discourse and other annoying attention-seeking activities. I guess the name also doesn't help the label much.

Please reblog after answering so I can get more answers on this topic! :)

[squidfreak]

If you are on the aplatonic spectrum, do you identify with or relate to the label "caedoplatonic?"

Yes I relate and use caedoplatonic

I relate to caedoplatonic, but personally don't use it

I am APL & don't relate to or use caedoplatonic

I use a different label similar to caedoplatonic

Voting ended onFeb 5

This poll is not to prove any kind of point of aplatonic identities, simply out of curiosity because I've met alot of aplatonics who are caedoplatonic or similar! ^_^