#qpr partner

[buddie-i-slitheredherefromeden]

Guys romance is overrated fall head over heels in platonic love instead I promise it’s like the best thing ever

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Aherm

I cannot express how much I love my partner, they are really- truly the best thing to have ever happened to me that fateful day a good few years ago.

They go through so much mentally and emotionally,I do not just “tolerate” it, I embrace it and love them through anything they need me for.

Big or small,stupid or serious- next to me I hope they sit. I love hearing them talk endlessly on calls and when they randomly text me throughout the day. Even in the middle of the night I’m willing to wake up that morning and respond right away.

I have known them for longer than I have known my brother,Joseph. I knew them during the hardest time of a lot of peoples lives. The pandemic.

River is someone who may be a little cringe creature- but they are amazing and unique. I’ve began to embrace the fact that one day I will marry someone with as much character as this person.

I will live with someone that has stuck with me for longer than most of my friends. They have been here. I’m so proud to say that I’m their boyfriend,theirs.

They are my Two Time to my Azure. My nightshade,perhaps. If they ever did anything they regret,I could only try to talk them through it all. I could never feel hate to them unless it was something very very deserving,in which I don’t think that would happen.

This person deserves everything,my love and people’s hearts.

My starlight.

[inkedcitruses]

Spouse stuff and mi amor drew the last two

[demibkdkstan]

So I have a question for fellow aroaces, like even if you don't have an answer reblogging will help me find one.

So, I consider myself to be in a qpr. My partner and me are moving out and buying a house together, we've planned our foreseeable future together and we've discussed the fact that I don't really see myself dating or getting married but ik she is someone who wants/needs that and that I'm ok with continuing to live together even after she gets married and we can continue our life like that.

She also has a lot of automatic things that I don't give to others, like touch. She's an incredibly touchy person and I love her and want to give her that so overtime I've learned to be ok with lowering that barrier towards her. We haven't currently moved out together yet but she will oftentimes spend the night with me, like just cuddling and sleeping together, completely platonic but like, I've always explained that those sort of things to me I basically don't feel comfortable doing unless with a romantic partner, just the cuddling and the touch, etc. (I am Demi so I have been in two romantic relationships before, they were just friendships that developed into that).

I've explained that I'm demisexual to her before, which honestly she never took with a big deal just an "oh, ok" and we moved on. I also explained that like I don't have ride or dies so I'm not hers, but I had to figure out why I was ok doing all of the things I would previously only do with a romantic partner and I realized that the way I look at you is we have a platonic, relationship. That ik technically that term just means friends but like it's different, that I view her as basically the equivalent of being someone I'd marry if I had any romantic feelings.

So like, I've danced around the qpr subject, and when I said that she said she's honored and that it means a lot and so on, but we don't talk really about that much.

So I suppose my question is to me, she's my qpr partner (idk the term for that, but I don't need a term, she's mine and I love her), and to my understanding, our feelings are along the same wavelength. So is it wrong for me to think of her as my qpr partner? I haven't just come out and said "hey are we in a qpr" but to be honest idk that I even would want to do that. Like she's mine and I love her but like I don't really even want ties in the same way a romantic partnership is ties. I just know that she's my best friend in a way I've never had a best friend and that I want to build a life beside her. Not even necessarily with her, because again she's going to get into a romantic relationship one of these days (hopefully to my brother if he gets his head out of his ass and gets around to asking her out. Shut up, they're adorable together and I ship them) but beside her and idk. I enjoy the label in my head but I don't think we need it out loud. Is that ok though? Am I assuming things? Should I ask her? Is that even needed though with all the conversations we have had?

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My most fav item bc it was gifted to me by my partner (QPR)