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Throwaway account for obvious reasons. Also I’m on my cellular phone so excuse any formatting issues.

So a little background: my ex-girlfriend is my soulmate. I was literally made for her, if you will. She came from this really abusive family. Sometimes they would lock her in a dark room with no food or entertainment for days because she misbehaved as a kid, it was really awful. Anyway, I helped her escape by running away with her and helping her remake herself. I had to do some fucked up stuff (excuse my language) to get it to happen but I figured it was worth it to help her.

Well THEN she decided to get with a ton of men. I was fine with it because her and my connection was special and the men always died pretty quickly anyway. Plus, she didn’t emotionally connect with them like she did with me.

Until this one guy comes along. We’ll refer to him as GU. He was this weirdo with long hair and a guitar, and he lived in a van. Also he was constantly eating, gross.

But despite his lack of elegance, my girlfriend had a crush on him and they got together. But this time instead of playing around with him and eventually coming back to me, she decided to have a kid with him.

She died in childbirth. She left the baby to GU and I. The baby became my new purpose in life. My girlfriend’s other friends, GU, and I raised him together. Now he’s 14 and he wants to know about his mom. The others and I talked and we decided to tell him the truth; the only problem is that they don’t know all that I know about his mom. I was the only one she didn’t keep secrets from. WIBTA if I didn’t tell him?

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AITA for putting concrete blocks in my cabbage stand?

I (Oldish,M) run a cabbage stand as my primary source of income. Up until about a year ago, business was going really well. But then this kid (12M) starts causing me some trouble. You see, he claims to be the saviour of the world and thinks that entitles him to do whatever he wants. The first time I met him, he knocked over my cabbage stand while running away from this other guy (16M) with his girlfriend (14F) and her brother (15M).

I was mad and yelled after them, but they didn’t seem to care. I decided to move, but it seems everywhere I go, there they are. It’s like they’re following me. I can’t think of why they would do that, but I assume they’re fire nation. I can’t even open up my cart anymore because the second I begin making a sale, they come out of nowhere and knock it over, destroying my cabbages! Don’t they know this is my livelihood?

Anyway, I digress. I recently moved to a city that I’ve been told is the safest place on the planet. (City’s name is absent for privacy’s sake. I don’t want to risk the kids finding me.) I finally felt safe and began making sales again. But then the other day I saw this boy who looked suspiciously like Mr. Saviour. I can’t imagine it’s him, after all, this city is very difficult to get into. But just in case, I’m going to put concrete blocks into the base of my stand. Maybe that will show them not to bully small businesses owners. WIBTA if I follow through with my plan?

Edit: There was this new little girl with them who earth-bended the blocks away. They crushed my cabbages. I am moving out of the city. Hopefully I will not see them again, but if I do, next time I will try steel, because no one can bend metal. Wish me luck!

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Hey, all. Hopefully you can help me decide what to do here, because I’m honestly stuck.

So I (26M) was engaged for a few years to an astronaut (26M) and we had a “son” together. (Son is in quotation marks because legally he’s not our son but my fiancé was always doing kind but weird stuff like adopting random kids.)

A couple years ago my fiancé volunteered for this mission to go to a distant moon. It was supposed to be a year long mission, and he was so excited. The only problem was that he is/was terminally ill. He only had a few years left, and the mission would shorten that tremendously. I begged him not to go, saying it would kill him (which it would) and that I just wanted to spend the few years he had left together. He said it was his life and this was his dream. We argued. A lot. I don’t feel great about it, but I couldn’t just let him go on a suicide mission because he felt like he had something to prove.

I told him it was me or the mission, and I wouldn’t marry him if he went. He got really mad and said he was going anyway, and his mentor and our son both supported him. (Which honestly was a ridiculous counter argument, but that’s not relevant here.)

He died mid-mission, and because he was in charge of steering the ship, everyone else died, too. I wasn’t high ranking enough to get any more information but it seemed gruesome. Afterwards our son goes missing, along with some other students.

Here’s where shit really starts to go down: Since I’m in the airforce, I get sent out by my jerk boss to fight off an invader I’m told will be a piece of cake. They immediately shoot me down, along with my team. No one even comes looking for us. Several of my teammates didn’t make it... I assume they think I’m dead too.

Anyway, the other day I found out that my fiancé is actually alive. My question to you, Reddit, is wtf is my next move here? Is he still my fiancé? I think everyone thinks I’m dead, how do I deal with that? Time sensitive question, thanks so much!

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R/AITA for trying to kill my ex friend’s son?

I know how the title sounds but hear me out. So when I was younger I was friends with this girl. Her parents sucked and I don’t have any parents. But we instantly became best friends. We played games pretty much all day, and we were both always super lonely when the other wasn’t around.

But then she gets this job that she’s been after a long time. I’m happy for her even though it means we can’t play as often. Then one day she says we should play this new game where I stand still and don’t move an inch. Then she left and didn’t come back.

I assumed that she wasn’t back because she was mad I wasn’t playing the game right, so I made sure to stand extra still.

Then there’s this news broadcast saying she died. She ran away and faked her death with her new assistant, had a kid (16M), and killed herself. I was so devastated that no matter how hard I scrubbed my face after, none of my mascara tear marks would come off.

I did some retail therapy and bought some cool stuff, like new clothes and a giant syringe full of poison.

Okay Reddit, this is where I think I could be the asshole.

So I’m still not feeling better after my shopping, and I remember that the news said where my ex friend’s son and her other friends live. I look it up and it’s a small town of like, 400 people. I go there and after a little searching, I find him. Then I stab his friends, hit them in the head really hard to erase their memories, and go to stab him. He’s prepared though, and erases my memories. I’m fine with it though, because I already planted the poison syringe in a bomb-type-thingie that will destroy his town.

I don’t see anything wrong with what I did but my ex friend’s son is really upset. AITA?