#release control

[ohblonn]

the only thing I’m emotionally invested —besides my own life because ofc that’s my main investment—, is the happiness of baby Punch 🐒🥹💖✨

[paizleyrayz]

"Whatever is happening, whatever is changing, whatever is going or not going according to my plans - I release my hold on all of it. I leave behind who I think I am, who I want to be, what I want the world to be. I come home to the great peace of the present moment." Elizabeth Lesser

[lindseyeryn]

QUOTE by Lindsey Eryn of PEPTALKS™ APP

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[teachinghappiness]

[amivara]

F#ck 🖤

[soulmates-twinflames]

Our anxiety does not come from thinking about the future, but from wanting to control it. ~Kahlil Gibran   www.relationshipsreality.com   Art: Mario Sanchez Nevado

[ohblonn]

Hi Blonn, do you think the energy between them has changed? Have they drifted apart? Or do you believe things will get better over time? I hope answering this question doesn't bother you.

Hi.

Yes, it has changed and it was expected- at least I expected it because I read it months ago and I don't know if the others are just catching up to this... I'm not surprised, and I did not just read about this.

There was going to be a period of uncertainty and this hasn't changed... if anything, it's already happening and I need for people to start getting used for these two young men to be apart and do their own growing up. Most of all, get into your heads that if they are in whatever mood between each other, they NEED to be in whatever mood they are with each other (and you all cannot change this).

It's neccesary that their energy change and even if for *people* it seems as if they drifted apart, maybe it's something they need to cross through this.

And I'm being direct and blunt here even if people around (yes, I know who you are) are bashing me on their groups because I'm a 'sellout' and I'm talking in mystery codes or whatever. I'm saying DIRECTLY because I've always been truthful and never sugar coated anything: this is happening and you all need to release control. Yes the energy around them is changing and it needs to change.

This doesn't bother me, but I also feel really... uhm, don't know how to describe it. And it's not your question, but I'm uneasy about people's inhability to accept change, and how these are human beings and feelings are not static and are supposed to change overtime- and perhaps that's how it's supposed to be: changing.

[healingforthesoul]

emotional healing

Step 1: The Power of Releasing Control

In the context of emotional wounds, especially with family (like your mom or sister), control often plays a huge role in the emotional dynamics. Control can be an external force, but sometimes, we also hold onto it internally, thinking that we have to control things in order to feel safe, loved, or in charge of our life.

Let’s break down why control (or the need for control) can impact your healing process.

Why do you feel the need to control situations with people who have hurt you?

Are you afraid of being hurt again?

Do you feel like if you don’t act a certain way, you won’t be accepted or loved?

Do you fear being abandoned or misunderstood?

Write down any feelings you associate with the need for control. Example: “I control my emotions because I’m afraid of being rejected if I show them.”

Step 2: God’s Truth About Control

Here’s where God’s truth gently disrupts this need for control:

You don’t have to force things to happen for your good. God is in control. (Psalm 46:10)

Your value is not based on anyone’s approval or opinion. (Romans 8:1-2)

God will never leave or abandon you—no matter what anyone else does. (Hebrews 13:5)

You can release control because God has perfect control over your life. (Jeremiah 29:11)

Step 3: Practice Surrender—Letting Go of Control

Take a few moments now to release the control you’ve held onto. I want you to picture it in your mind—the things, thoughts, or people you’ve tried to control to keep yourself safe or loved.

Imagine placing them all at the feet of Jesus. You don’t need to hold them anymore.

Repeat this prayer:

"Jesus, I release my need for control. I trust you with my emotions, my relationships, and my future. I choose to surrender to Your will. I don’t need to hold onto fear, rejection, or guilt anymore. You have it all in Your hands. In Jesus' name, Amen."

Step 4: Breaking Free from People-Pleasing and Reclaiming Your Voice

Many emotional wounds, especially those involving family, come from people-pleasing—wanting to keep the peace at all costs, even if it means suppressing your own voice, desires, or needs.

How does people-pleasing show up in your life?

Do you shrink back when you want to speak up?

Do you say “yes” to things you don’t really want to do, just to avoid confrontation?

Do you over-apologize or over-explain yourself?

Write down specific examples of when you’ve people-pleased in the past week or even in your life.