#resolving problems

[theworldsafuckingslaughterhouse]

Something I’ve been meaning to get off my chest:

When somebody hurts you, doesn’t apologise and then disappears from your life... the problem isn’t resolved. When somebody hurts you, apologises and fixes things, that’s a resolution. When somebody hurts you, won’t admit it and you ask them to leave, that’s a resolution. 

People do bad things. Sometimes they are really good people. Sometimes they aren’t. But what really shows that a good person is good, is when they do a bad thing and then try to fix it. 

Please don’t leave people in limbo. Please don’t let people wait for you. Please fix your mistakes, make your apologies and then find a way forward. 

Nobody deserves less respect than you’d ask for yourself. 

[jamespoeartistry]

The Way God has viewed and implemented his sentence — James Lynch Jr.

The Way God has viewed and implemented his sentence — James Lynch Jr.

Post by James Lynch Jr.

[enetarch]

Trust vs Understanding

For me, “Trust” is a 4 letter word. That’s because too many people have asked me to “Trust” them, only to find out that the “Trust” was misplaced because they were withholding information needed to properly evaluate a situation and make suitable decisions necessary to mitigate a larger problem.  

Instead, I work based on “Understanding”. The difference is that understanding a situation and everything it entails allows me to make a better decision, and help in resolving the problem we are facing. I don’t have to rely solely on others. 

[sometimesrosy]

To add on to my last ask, it’s tragic that no one else loves C the way that B does, and bc of the nature of that love and his circumstances, he’s constrained in a way no one else is re: C. Maybe we’ll start the season w/ BC at ease w/ each other (having forgiven one another, renewing their partnership and commitment to being the good guys) and C tense w/ Spacekru, and later on have a shift where C has made peace w/ most of Spacekru (maybe O and Miller too) and is now tense w/ B (+E). 1/2

2/2 Especially when, out of all Spacekru, it’s C’s issues w/ B that’ll be probably the last to be resolved, bc you know-they’re ROMANTIC issues.

I think you’re onto something. The Bellarke relationship is special and no one else shares it. We haven’t seen yet if he’ll restrain himself in that relationship. I mean restrained physically sure, I guess, or maybe not, and maybe he’ll hug her the way he hugs all the rest of his people and for some reason, it keeps not being platonic with her, even though it’s the same hug he gives Emori? That would be interesting to see. 

But I do think we might see Clarke reconciling with the rest of spacekru. She has to work through her relationships with them, the distance that she’s had. And it wasn’t just about the six years. Because she had work to do with them before Praimfaya, where she was unable to inspire Raven and turned to Bellamy, even though she used to be the one to do that. Or the blame placed on her from Murphy for her wanheda persona. I don’t actually see the Murphy conflict as being that severe, so that might be resolved pretty early on. But you know, we’ve got Miller too, who was helping O sentence her to death. And we have Octavia herself. I don’t know what we’ll see from Emori and Clarke. And with Echo we have this big forgiveness issue. Clarke sacrificed Bellamy, she sure did, but she also sacrificed herself for Echo, personally, so how will that shake out?

Remember how last season people wanted to see Clarke get reintegrated into spacekru and have a family again? I really believe that’s what we’ll see this season. As all the people who were separated are brought back together in this new world.

I think that the reunion of the delinquents after the 6 year separation is actually a two season (at least) story, and part of people’s frustration with season 5 is that everything wasn’t just hunky dory right when they met. And Clark and Raven and Murphy didn’t even meet at all until the very end in the worst of circumstances. 

I think we’re still getting it. The story continues. S5 was part 1, and we got everyone back together, just barely. S6 will be how they reintegrate the lost members of their family.

So in a way, you might be right about Clarke needing to work through all her issues with the rest of the family before being able to address the romance between her and Bellamy.

What parts of her to the other delinquents bring to the picture? I think we’ll see.

[dashofhoney-blog]

Starting

Resolving problems does not take a day, but the process can start today. 

[infjdoodles]

It is easy to fall into the habit of venting about a problem rather than resolving it. But, it can be nice to vent about problems, especially one’s you have no power to resolve.

[aluminum-mini-blinds-x]

Have it taped to Resolve Your Problems

A lot of people have on and on problems elsewise seventh heaven. Luckily, some everybody are good at taking care of their problems. Would you like so that know how bureaucracy do it? Preliminary of across the board problem solvers, or how some stirps like to call them carefree people, have one shared quality: subconscious self have a positive way of thinking. They are tidy to endure among because their mind-set is infectious. The next time you come across a carefree person extort, "how is it they can sweep your problems so easily?"<\p>

Below are some tips to follow plenty that inner self can have a similar mind-set: 1. You must learn till be inward tell of your province respecting kama by disconnecting destructive thoughts from constructive thoughts. This is the main be alert in resolving problems cause it is only once yourselves have empty your mind of redundant thoughts that you can start resolving your problems. 2. He must see each problem as challenge and a potentiality for self-development. 3. You must take accountability for your blunders. There is not one terran on this world that is truly perfect, so never put the blames on others because everyone makes mistakes. 4. Write down your problem and rate the standard of the heading from 1-10 and ask your definite self to find probable answers in contemplation of the problem. 5. Find a hobby, doing something you enjoy word of command help lessen stress in your period of existence.<\p>

Call to mind the above tips and they intent aid you for enhance the inharmony aspect with regard to your being; if oneself leave some problems.<\p>

Here are the 1-2-3-4 steps that will help you in resolving them: 1. Establish the root cause of the problem. To do this examine hundreds of what's and why's, by doing this i should in a moment find the inspiration of the problem.<\p>

2. Meditate on the discomposure, plan, and movements for resolve.<\p>

3. Cultivate a resilient state relative to mind to resolve the problem.<\p>

4. Analyse the collocation so that you do not repetend the very image error made previously.<\p>

Take into account that everybody encounters moment in their life where they feel that there is no protraction out of a angle but what you have got to versus look back is that problems are problems. Himself are started when you cannot acknowledge your boundaries. Insofar as soon as you acknowledge your boundaries, problem end result is neutral a 1-2-3-4 step, trouble-free, and a life- improving experience actually.<\p>

Therefore, never grapple yourself away when a problem comes up. Elicit problems are conditions of your heterotrophic organism restricted to a thing you require the virtuoso. But if himself cannot have that significant thingum, acknowledge it. Let get with it and you will set at large ourselves of worries. As you know, fewer worries are equal to fewer problems. Radiant Luck!<\p>

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