from the way robb tells this story i am absolutely convinced that jeyne was explicitly instructed (most likely by her mother sybell but maybe by others) to seduce robb the wounded king
this was ill done. robb was injured and weak, likely on pain killers, and emotionally destroyed by news of theon's betrayal and of bran and rickon's deaths. this was dubcon in its most charitable reading and i would judgementally pressing my thumb down on the scale towards non-
and robb really floors me here with the way he weighs his actions and jeyne's position
he is the only man in the series (to my memory!! it's a big series and 'one of the only men' doesn't make my point as well) that recognizes that leaving a highborn girl potentially pregnant means the social end of her life. no matter how pretty or gently born she is she will always be damaged goods!! some other man's scraps!! whether she actually was pregnant or not (and we know she was not) the potential that king robb got a bastard on her would remove her suitability from other better-matched marriage prospects. and that's just the social implications!! that's not even mentioning the actual physical dangers of getting a girl pregnant. or the financial consequences.
"it was the only honorable thing to do" !!!!!!!!! robb is ridiculed by his men and by his mother for being a foolish child so in puppy love that he would lose the military support of house frey over a cute girl from a nothing house. but he does not wed jeyne for puppylove nor for folly. he weds her for honor!!! because it would be dishonorable to bed her and leave her to her own devices afterwards. it would be wrong!!! even if he bedded her under suspicious and dubious circumstances in which it wouldn't have been possible for him to give lucid and informed consent. he doesn't even care about that!!! he cares about her and where their one night stand would leave her.
robb :(((













