#rogueoftimeywimeystuff

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rogueoftimeywimeystuff

 “googles “how not to give up and just draw porn for money”

(If you drawing porn for money, the furry community is your best bet)

i’m very aware

[thebibliosphere]

I am not trying to be mean, and I know it's harder to watch phrasing when bad things are happening. Compassion is a better word to use than empathy. Many people with low empathy (some Auties frex) feel dehumanized when someone says "no one with empathy could do x or y". Especially cuz empathy is used as a psychiatric term as part of diagnosing ASD and ASP. Again, I'm sorry. I know this is probably a bad time but I'll probably forget if I don't send this now. >.>

Thank you for telling me, I had no idea. I’ll make sure to adjust the way I phrase things!

[fierceawakening]

I disagree with your point on Nazis (seeing as they agree to and identify with an ideology based on the destruction of other groups they see as subhuman). Trying to convince someone who sees me as subhuman to see me as human is not something I should have to do. If someone who sees a swastika wants to punch the person the swastika, there's no reason they shouldn't. Bigots should fear showing their bigotry in public. (1/2)

For the rest I’m willing to write it off as ideological differences. I don’t really want to go into the abuse sections in a public forum due to my own abuse. (2/2)

I think we’re at an impasse here. I think, as I said, that being the one who escalates a confrontation from verbal to physical has consequences for the escalator that the “punch ‘em or you’re a coward” crowd doesn’t even acknowledge, much less address.

That was the point of my post, and you’re still not addressing it here. It still matters to me, and I still think it counts as a reason it’s inappropriate to deem someone who chooses nonviolence cowardly.

[smallswingshoes]

23, 37, 38

So apparently the mobile app doesn’t really have a good way to notify me anymore when I get an ask…… >_> And I’m usually on mobile. Oops.

For this ask meme, I believe?

#23: Talk about a time someone turned you down.

Huh… You know, I can’t think of anything super specific right now? Like, I don’t usually ask people out, especially when I was younger because I was an awkward chicken about it. I mean, I guess I could interpret this to be for things other than asking for dates, but I can’t think of anything lol. I guess the closest would be when I went on a couple dates with this really cute woman a little bit ago and it was going pretty well, but she realized that she didn’t have the time to manage more than 1 relationship at once and she wanted to focus on building a relationship with the other woman she’d gone on a couple dates with. It was all very mature and communicated well and we left the door open for possible future dating stuff. I was a little disappointed, ofc, but I’m glad she was direct about it.

#37: Talk about someone you thought you were in love with.

Hmm. This is weirdly phrased for me because there is no “thought” for me. I was in love. I tend to be pretty loose with my definition of love compared to other people, I think? Idk. The closest I can think of for this is my first boyfriend. I did love him. I don’t anymore. Tbh, it’s not something I enjoy talking about a ton because it was a deeply unhealthy relationship, which was mostly my fault. I became severely depressed and even suicidal at that time of my life and I took it out on him a lot because I was in denial and didn’t know what was happening. I consider the way I acted to be abusive and it’s something I don’t think I’ll ever repeat. I now know what drove me to that behavior, I have far better skills to deal with a situation like that, and I won’t let myself become like that again. So I do think I was in love with him at the beginning, but it devolved into an abusive, unhealthy relationship where I still regret my actions. (How’s that for a cheerful topic lmao)

#38: Talk about songs that remind you of certain people.

Ooh, this one is pretty fun. For me, I don’t really listen to music the way others do, I think. I seem to miss a lot. I have audio processing issues with it and I really only seem to get an echolalic enjoyment out of music. But I do have some songs that remind me of certain people.

For one, Heat of the Moment by ASIA is forever my friend @mybumblebeeblr and I’s song. I got her into Supernatural way back when it was my special interest and we fucking LOVED that episode. We’d sometimes text each other when we’d heard the song out and about. It was great. I also associate MIKA songs with her cuz she introduced his music to me.

I associate Chains of Love with Jim from the Jimquisition because that’s actually the first time I heard that song. Sometimes they play that song at my workplace and it delights me.

I Need to Know by Marc Anthony reminds me strongly of the woman who taught my ballroom dance class because it’s the song I learned the tango to. Smooth by Santana has a similar effect, although I cha-chaed to that one.

Gangnam Style by PSY actually reminds me of my dad because of how much the music video amused the hell out of him when I showed it to him, which is unusual. He doesn’t usually get the internet meme stuff but he loved this.

Suspicious Character by The Blood Arm will always be a Misha Collins song to me. I have never been able to find the website since, but I found this link to a website that blasted that song (the first time I’d heard it) and it was just a page of like… Misha gifs tesselated in interesting ways that changed when you hit different keys on your keyboard and I only found that website once and I spent like 30 minutes on it and I have never been able to find it since.

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rogueoftimeywimeystuff replied to your post “as a polyam system dating a polyam system, with multiple headmates...”

I mean.... That just sounds like one long kiss with an organized coordinated switching of headmates.

Aaaaand the negotiations on our end just got a lot easier, at least.

[gynoidwordnerd]

Jennnnnnnnn

Yes good :D

All of the following answers apply to her Eclipse Phase iteration, though a lot of it is the same for versions of her in other continuities.

B A S I C S

full name: Jennifer Susanna Descombes-Landry. (She often makes jokes about her long legal name.)

gender: Female

sexuality: Basically “ladies, nonbinary people, but not dudes”.

pronouns: she/her

O T H E R S

family:Two moms and a sister.

birthplace: Santa Clara, California.

job: Several different ones in several different places and times. At various points, she has been an academic mathematician; a librarian; a psychosurgeon (i.e. repairwoman for the mind); an organizer for political activism groups; a fiction writer and literary critic; and, most recently, a freedom fighter.

phobias: Is able to concoct a lot of fate-worse-than-death scenarios (in addition to the ones already produced by cortical stacks and TITANs and such) - but one of her worst fears is being left alone in the world to think about all the things she could have done better.

guilty pleasures: Reading and writing erotic fiction of various types. Also the furry fandom, in case the body mods weren’t an obvious enough sign of that.

M O R A L S

morality alignment?: Neutral good.

sins - Let’s go with lust - for the sensory and tangible pleasures of life, not necessarily for sex.

virtues - Charity. She struggles with survivor guilt, and it doesn’t sit well with her when other people aren’t able to live their lives in a fulfilling way.

T H I S - O R - T H A T

introvert/extrovert: A profound introvert, who has difficulty fully opening up on some things even to people she trusts.

organized/disorganized: Remarkably organized for someone with so much on her plate.

close minded/open-minded: Definitely open-minded, albeit a little too much so: has internal trouble writing anybody off as not having at least some relatable concerns, even as she tries to force herself to do just that in some cases.

calm/anxious: Worries a lot, but can seem calm just because depression often takes the place of anxiety for her. Is remarkably chill about certain topics, including romantic relationships, though.

disagreeable/agreeable: Quite agreeable unless she’s in a depressive mood, at which point she’ll basically say no to everyone about everything.

cautious/reckless: Tries to be cautious. Has a growing case of Chronic Hero Syndrome, and increasingly arrives at the (often premature) conclusion that she’s the only one who can solve a given problem. Nonetheless thinks things through in non-emergencies. Recklessness by others pisses her off, unless she has been led to agree completely that it was the only option.

patient/impatient: Despite the above, remarkably patient.

outspoken/reserved: Mostly reserved, but when one of her topics of interest comes up, she’ll definitely make it clear what she thinks.

leader/follower: Tries to be a leader. Is good at seeing the big picture, but not really that good with managing people. Still tries.

empathetic/unemphatic: Mostly too empathetic for her own good - but when she’s wrapped up enough with her own issues, can get unreceptive to other people, even to the point of being insensitive on accident.

optimistic/pessimistic: Makes a concerted effort to be optimistic, because her brain will do its utmost to make her a pessimist.

traditional/modern: For the most part, aggressively, in-your-face modern: a staunch proponent of morphological freedom and augmentation of transhuman capabilities; AGI and uplift rights; and post-scarcity-inspired economic systems. That said, she’s from Earth and has a comfort zone, which (among other things) meant that she didn’t leave the body she was born in until forced by circumstance to do so, long after the Fall.

hard-working/lazy: Tries to cultivate a “brilliant slacker” vibe, but can’t remotely pull it off. She is the kind of person who would try to learn psychosurgery at the professional level in four months’ time, albeit under severe emotional pressure.

R E L A T I O N S H I P S

otp: With Chelsea Sloan (aka Synapse), her long-suffering telepathic girlfriend who has been doing her damnedest to save the world herself. The two of them have a long history together, and - after everything they’ve gone through - seriously deserve to be happy.

ot3: Jenn / Chelsea / Taylor… / Ciel / Nima. Taylor is the smooth-talking psychic sharpshooter on their team, Ciel is a commie robot fairy, and Nima is a dragon-themed Batman-like superhero/investigator.

brotp: With Kabuki, a member of the party who left earlier on. They both spent considerable time with the Scum, and Kabuki’s impetuous attitude worked well with Jenn’s approach.

notp: There’d be no chance of it ever happening, but: Jenn / Zevi Oaxaca-Maartens, a character from EP canon who is an asshole, because said dude is a complete sleazeball.

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rogueoftimeywimeystuff replied to your post “If you’re trying to establish your knowledge of punk and your go-to...”

hate you a little

Love me a lot.

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rogueoftimeywimeystuff replied to your photo “Can mutuals pls not put this user on my dash anymore, thnx”

Sorry I know I did this recently. >.> I try to avoid.... Sorry.

Ur fine, I’ve seen the user pop up a few times recently and don’t really recall your url among those posting them. No worries even if you did; it’s fine. I only see them on mobile anyway since I’ve got Tumblr Savior for the url.