something I dont like about the rq community is that it's all so sexual. I can understand it sometimes, especially being propara. but it's to the point where any blogs that are dominant and sexual blow up while blogs where the op isnt inherently dom and/or sexual are just left in the dust. everyone wants that one mysterious dom but no one wants to interact with any other blogs. what does someone have to do to gain moots, friends, partners, etc, if they arent that one 'nonchalant' handler conabuse guy. ntm they're ALL men. all big blogs are cisGUYS. where is the love for women or transppl? I dunno. just something I've noticed that's irritated me.