#sam model

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hello aspec/arospec people just saw some icky sad stuff about the community :((

so!! reminder that you are super awesome and cool and amazing and i love your indentity! you are always welcome in the LGBTQ+/queer community!! being ace/arospec, SAM or not is amazing!!

-your not so local demiaroace aceflux gay transmasc friend!!

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Mspec Neptunic

[PT: Mspec Neptunic]

While Neptunic can be seen as a multi attraction I wanted to make like a Mspec Mono set of flags cuz why not?

In order : Bi Neptunic, Mspec Neptunic, Pan Neptunic, Poly Neptunic, Abro Neptunic, Omni Neptinic!

Remember everyone the SAM model is a thing(link)

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[Tag] @radiomogai, @liom-archive, @orientation-archive, @caeliangel

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[ace-culture-is]

Ace culture is being surrounded by people that say ace headcanons for kid/teen characters are inherently sexualizing the other kid/teen characters (sometimes in the same breath as saying "minors feeling sexual attraction is normal", which is true, but way to make your acephobic claims even more ridiculous). Anyway, when I hc any character as ace, i AM aware not everyone uses the SAM so I don't even think about the others like that, geez. And non-SAM aces exist. And ace minors exist.

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anyway because I just saw people bitching about the split attraction model just wanted to say I’m a demi & homoromantic bisexual and if you don’t like that or are inclined to make assumptions about my life (like insisting I’m not what I say I am I’m just traumatized somehow) get the fuck off my blog :3

and for anyone who’s confused and/or wants to know more it’s because I only fall in love with girls and only after there’s a deep, intimate bond established, but I don’t feel comfortable considering myself a lesbian because I feel some physical attraction to other genders

[pride-and-flags-47]

"The SAM is inherently damaging when aspec identities are not involved"

This sounds like some bullshit. Like, why would it be damaging to use it if you're allo? It's just better describing your attraction

[boybottomboy]

in your opinion,

if a cis girl is attracted to guys and nonbinary people, does that make her queer? i already have my own opinion, based on my blog you might be able to guess my side on this. ((((edit : in my opinion she is bi. sorry for the confusion - she is bi. im asking what YOU think)))) what do you guys think?

[ace-culture-is]

Aroace culture is wanting to make a submission to ace/aro-culture-is about your experiences, but then doubting; because is it ace? Is it aro? A mix? You have no idea, you can't differentiate them, they're intrinsically joined for you and the SAM model is a LIE