hi! How are you? I wanted to ask you if my crush is a red or green flag. He has:
This would kind of depend on your placements as well, as to how your relationship is, and how you both receive each other. The harsh reality of relationships is that somebody can be so toxic with and for one person, but completely the opposite for somebody else.
Keeping that in mind, these would be my initial thoughts based solely only on your crushes placements.
Based on my own personal experience with a Gemini Venus man (or two…) they tend to really over love, but it comes off in controlling ways. They want to be apart of every conversation, every thought, they want to truly be the center of your universe. They can truly be incredibly jealous people.
Gemini Venus mixed with a cancer moon…:They let their intrusive untrusting and jealous thoughts win almost every time. If you leave your phone unattended, they will unshamefully go through it. And if they find something they will be bringing it up. They are huge snoopers. And they honestly don’t trust almost anybody.
They have a strong desire to love and to be loved, and try to act in a providing type of role, however it comes with expectations that aren’t always verbalized.
Based on all the placements as a whole, this individual is probably very loyal, not very secretive (even if that’s how they may seem), and all in all knows how to play the long game if it gets them what they want.
The red flags in my opinion would be:
- they will never actually fully trust you, even if you give them every reason to, they will always be looking for a reason not to
- their jealousy and fear of abandonment trumps their love for a person, and may cause them to act out in certain situations and be controlling
- May either be incredibly self-responsible, or on the flip may be constantly looking for somebody or something else to blame for their behavior
- their emotions and their fears essentially run their whole life
-intensely loyal to those they love or deem important
- are not into anything they can’t put their all in
- in tune with their emotions and able to have deep conversations
- want to be their lovers best friend
- know how to read others love languages to love them in ways they want or like
- will defend you and your name at all times even if you are not physically in the room