Self-Confidence/Self-Love Tarot Spell
- Chai tea (youth, healing, beauty) (with vanilla almond milk/sugar for sweetness)
- Pink or clear lip gloss/lip balm (beauty + confidence)
- Rose quartz (love + beauty)
- Tarot cards: The Empress (beauty + abundance), Queen of Wands (self-security), Temperance (balance + serenity)
- Pink candle (self-love)
- Rose incense (self-love + self-confidence)
- Rosemary (self-love) or rose petals (love, beauty, self-confidence)
1. Cast a circle (optional)
2. Set up your tarot cards in front of your pink candle, and light both the candle and the incense.
3. Holding the lip gloss and the rose quartz, focus on thoughts of self-confidence and imbuing the loving, confident energy of your rose quartz into the lip gloss.
4. Put on the lip gloss, focusing on what you love about yourself.
5. Write out the things you love about yourself and the things that make you feel self-confident. Put that paper over your tarot cards.
6. Sprinkle rosemary/rose petals onto the paper, and chant “Beauty and self-confidence, come to me; from self-doubt, let me be free.” three times (or more if you so desire.)
7. Fold up the paper with the rosemary/rose petals inside and put it in the envelope. Seal with pink candle wax, and a kiss with your enchanted lip gloss.
8. Drink your tea and meditate on confident, positive thoughts. This would be a good time to do a tarot reading on what elements of yourself you think positively on, if you so desire. I typically use my oracle deck as it’s my most positive deck and just exudes positivity which is what I want during this spell.
9. Close the circle (if you cast one)
10. Put your envelope somewhere safe where you won’t lose it.
11. Wear your lip gloss/balm whenever you need a self-confidence boost. If you need even more self-confidence, open up the envelope and read what you wrote. Reseal it as necessary, or repeat the entire spell as necessary.
