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I'm not even who i'm yet .

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Modern Individualistic culture

In the West, They value the self very very highly. They prioritise the self in a way which is very unlike the rest of the world .

In the west they are like the avocado with a very large pit and they are interested in developing that pit, in making sure that pit is able to express itself. In most of the world, and particularly in Asia this is not the case. In Asia the self that dominates is the self which prices flexibility. Between flexibility and the I embedded in the avocado pit, lies the story of the world.

the level of individualism is highest in America.

the culture that gives weightage to flexibility, avoids stereotyping and so provides an enabling opportunity to everyone to do everything. 

However, this may lead to some real talent being overlooked… so there is something to gain and something to lose in both states of being.

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One of the biggest problems here is that I have a story I tell mhself, in mh head, about mhself . It might go something like this: “Gawd, I keep messing this up. What’s wrong with me? I can’t do anything right. I suck, I suck. I wish I wasn’t so terrible.”

Of course, your own story will be different, and you might have several versions of it depending on the situation. But the plain fact is, there’s a story we tell ourselves, and if it’s not helpful. It makes us feel bad about ourselves.

If we’re doing this to ourselves, how do we stop? How can we flip the script and learn to be more positive?

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🌕 Katie, 17, she/her

🌖 Wannabe poet, writer, goth, and mediocre artist

🌗 INFP Aquarius

🌘 Just a blog to get my thoughts out

🌒 Hoping to go to university for English

🌓 Tories get blocked

🌔 Please be kind!

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Best decision I've made was to demote myself from being the "mom" friend

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Miles To Go Before I Sleep

Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening ...

A poetic inspiration that has helped me get more confidence in myself and to believe that I can do anything that I put my mind to.