#smiley anon

[dandysworldhcs]

I like to hc looey and connie with a complicated friendship, they barely hang out together but when they do they're an unstoppable force and its them against the world

-smiley anon

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[real-total-drama-takes]

i feel like duncney would have absolutely AMAZING angst potential if it was one sided on duncans side.

duncan would feel like he wasn't good enough for someone like courtney. he's been in and out of juvie since he was twelve, and being raised by cops with the black-and-white "cop good criminal bad" narrative would make a seventeen year old delinquent have some internalized self-esteem issues. i feel like people don't focus enough on the fact that duncan definitely has a really low self concept. he thinks he's absolutely irredeemable as a person. just the fucking Worst. and whether he is or isn't is up for debate, but it takes a toll on a teenage boy when your brain keeps telling you all those things regardless. and then falling in love with someone who's entire identity is being perfect would just further that idea. he would see courtney doing courtney things and notice all the little details about her and then realizing that nobody would ever notice all the little details about him. fuck, he just wanted to be loved, y'know? he was much too deep into this narrative he had. he wore his heart on his cheek, and if there was nobody to give it to, he simply swallowed it.

25 notes and ill do a version for if it was on courtneys side

-smiley anon :)

[ninja-confession-go]

jays wildbrain suit is my favorite suit of all time i think. those pins are everything to me

-let's go with smiley anon who knows i might come back

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[asksebs]

"I wouldn't mind if you talked about it a bit more, or if you talked about anything, really. I work better with the background noise anyway, and I've already bothered you with the same sort of stuff, so we'd be equal if nothing else." He shrugs.

"It's just whatever you feel like doing."

- "Smiley" anon / [The Engineer]

“Well, I was just thinking about college-”

Began Sebastian.

“My time in college, at least- I only spent like what, one year there..? Maybe two, if I’m being generous.”

With a sigh, he shook his head.

“Like I said before, I ended up switching majors, sometime around the second semester of my first year- Hell, probably a bit before. Things went pretty well. I actually enjoyed being there by then..”

[my-castles-crumbling]

i’ve been debating sending you an ask about this, but i’ve read a lot of your anon answers recently and you’ve given some really great advice. 

(i’d like to just add here that ALL pronouns/neo-pronouns are completely and utterly valid and if anyone tells you otherwise, they can go fuck themselves. Also, i’ll be using he/him to refer to my partner as that’s currently the pronouns he’s asked me to use- this will become relevant). 

So I have a long term partner of seven years. last year he came to me and said he wanted to experiment with pronouns and self-expression. 

I was totally for it and together we found a hairdresser, and we made an effort to meet other trans people and I started using different pronouns for him and it pretty quickly went from she/her to they/them. 

And when he was using they/them, he was euphoric. I mean, i’ve known him a long time, and I know when he’s happy.

And he said that was for sure what he wanted.

And then he went to his parents house and told them about his new they/them pronouns. 

And they spent the whole time mocking him. Saying he should just fully transition and he’s being a wimp and they/them isn’t real- comparing it to identifying as random objects and animals (WHICH IS NOT TRUE, all pronouns, and neo-pronouns, are VALID!)

Anyway, he came home and didn’t wanna talk about it and two days later he asked me to use he/him pronouns.

It’s been nearly two months of this and I can tell it doesn’t fit. I’m using it now because it’s what he asked and I respect him, but I also know him, he isn’t euphoric and he doesn’t like the clothes he feels he has to wear.

If i’m being honest I always sort of noticed back when he was using she/her all those years. That something didn’t quite fit. And I had already been prepared to help him figured it out. Even though it didn’t actually click it in my head until he brought it up that first time. 

He liked his new name for they/them pronouns. He picked a “manly” one for he/him and he’s been asking me to refer to him with the they/them name as a nickname. Which I obviously have. 

I do think eventually this’ll run its course and he’ll go back to they/them. 

I know I don’t have the right to claim to know what’s going on in his mind, and I have supported him every step of the way, and he’s not sad now, he’s just not pleased with it. Like he is with they/them.

I can’t decide whether I should wait and see or not.  Because knowing his family and their love to get involved, it might take a while for him to pull away enough to realise this isn’t what he wants.

But his family is important to him and if I bring it up now he’ll probably just quote something his family said. And i’ll wait if that’s what he needs, of course I will, but this is hurting him- and I wish I could help. 

I bring up how they/them pronouns are valid all the time. And he’s never once thought against our friend who uses them. 

 But I personally have always blamed his family for it taking so long for him to ditch she/her, so I don’t know how long they’ll make he/him last.

And as I said, I do not care what he ends up choosing or how he presents himself as long as he’s happy. But I just don’t think this is him happy. (Also just to add, I am 100% sure he knows that I don’t mind whatever. Obviously anyone can love anyone who’s transitioning but I am pansexual and don’t give a shit how he presents himself cause he’s amazing and I love him for him. And I am sure he knows that).

Do you think I should tell him what i’ve been thinking? I’ll be careful not to phrase it in a selfish way as i’m aware this might make it seem like I think i know better than him or I want to rush him. But neither is true. 

I just want him to be happy. 

But I also know it’s not right to push him if he’s not ready yet. 

Thanks 😊 

Hi!!

This is definitely a tough question, because gender is such a personal topic, you know? But I do think you should be honest with your partner. I think it's just the way you're honest that matters.

The parts you said about noticing he's not as happy? That's what you should focus on. Because I feel like that comes off as concerned (which you are) and loving. Saying something like "Hey, I've noticed you've been different since you started using he/him pronouns. Do you agree? Why do you think that is?" I think that would really open the conversation to his feelings. Hopefully he'll be able to recognize your love for him and that you're coming from a place of concern. You could even say "I noticed when you started using they/them pronouns, you were so happy! Like X time, you were just so confident, you know?"

I don't think, though, that you should bring up his family. It sounds like he still has loyalty to them and bringing them up could cause more conflict than resolution. Same with saying something like "I think you'll end up going back to they/them." That makes it seem like you're dictating how he'll live. I know you're not, but it could feel that way.

But yeah, I do think you should bring it up. I think partners are the best people to try to point out to their S/Os that they need to put themselves and their needs first sometimes, and stop worrying about others.

I hope that helps! Feel free to message/update me if you want! I'd love to know how you both are doing!

Also, I'm naming you smiley anon because I'm trying to give every anon a separate tag and you put a smiley face at the end of your post.

[batmanrogues-scenarios]

Hi again!! Sorry for sending you so many asks but I would like to ask for Riddler, scarecrow, two face and harley (you can really tell I have my favorites) with an s/o that is just really really rich?

:)

Never say sorry for asking questions, this is what this blog is for.

Riddler

Is kinda impressed how good they're doing

Honesty feels somehow bad cause he feels he might be too poor for them

Might start stealing more valuable things

S/O has to assure him they don't care and they have enough money for both of them

Scarecrow

Didn't expected that since they don't seem the type

Honesty if they know each other better he might ask if they're looking to fund someone

Yeah, making toxin takes money

S/O is happy to do that, he basically becomes their sugar baby

Two Face

TF whistle when he sees their mansion

When S/O says they get kinda lonely here he is ready to offer to live there but coin choose Harvey and he decides it's too pushy

Still impressed

Harley Quinn

Just runs around mansion looking at everything while S/O just laughs

Ask if she can swing from chandelier and S/O do it with her

S/O used money so she and Harley can have fun

She knows S/O would become target if other rogues found out so she lies where she gets the money

[mrkis]

I had a funny moment with jaehyun on roblox. He was just staring at me so i hit him he got up and waved at me lmao. I started running away and he tried to (keyword : tried) to run after me but fell off😭

-smiley

LMAO i just saw a tiktok of him squaring up to another player and then running off laughing because bitch(him) was shy. i can't believe i missed it. i'm so. mad. tbf i don't even have my mic activated because i'm too scared to talk to strangers and people annoy me LMAOICJSDK

[seasonal-writes]

omg!!!!!!! i just finished the new chapter, soooooo good!!!!

the way this fic always has me on the edge of my seat. I always feel like a fun anticipation when im reading it.

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akfnskdnsks AW. Thank you so much!! I’m soo glad you enjoyed it. Means a ton to hear it keeps you on your toes, sometimes i feel like i lack in that regard, pfft. Thank you again<33