#social patterns

[patternsinsociety]

Certain behaviors are repeated not because they’re good, but because they’re visible..

[shaylogic]

when I'm struggling with a difficult emotional experience...

I seek out one person I trust to talk it through with

I look for any company to share the burden

I can't trust people, they'll make things worse

if i share my struggle, I'll be taken advantage of

I don't want to burden other people with my problems

I'm inherently unworthy of care

I'll only seek a favor from someone who owes me one

Voting ended onJan 14

[patternsinsociety]

Limited resources skew perception of worth.

[patternsinsociety]

Reputation is often more important than truth.

[patternsinsociety]

Social friction reveals hidden norms.

[patternsinsociety]

Attention determines perceived importance.

[patternsinsociety]

Reputation spreads faster than truth.

[patternsinsociety]

Scarcity increases desire, not value.