How would Jackob (tbz) pursue his crush? thx
🕯️💌 How Jacob from The Boyz Acts Around His Crush/ Pursues Them 💌🕯️
softboy chaos edition™
👀 Jacob Bae, our certified golden retriever in human form, might look all composed and angelic from afar but BABY, when he catches real feelings?
It’s giving anxious daydreamer with a fake smile and a thousand internal spirals. Let’s break it down:
🌱 Phase One: “Oh no... do I like them?”
He starts off shook. That feeling creeps in like a soft sunrise and then BAM! Suddenly he’s spiraling about whether he’s even worthy (Another make me work for you love kinda guy.)
He overthinks everything.
"Did they mean that smile? Should I have laughed less? Was that too much?"
(It’s giving: ✨ “They’d never like me back, right?” ✨)
But he still finds excuses to be around you. Just lowkey.
😳 Phase Two: Mr. Avoidant but Yearning
He feels so much, but bottles it all up.
Like, he’ll literally sit next to you and act totally fine... while writing a song about you in his Notes app later that night.
He's got flirting via memes and moral support energy. Think:
"Hey, I saw you were sad yesterday… you okay?”
sends you the cutest dog TikTok alive instead of confessing his feelings
🧠 Phase Three: Delulu & Stalking Light
He becomes a private detective in a boyfriend hoodie. (By the second day of knowing that he most likely likes you would like to date you. He knows all your socials you know follow your friends socials he knows your friend's friends socials anyone who remotely might post something up about you he's aware of them they're on his radar he's following them on his burner accounts.)
He learns your coffee order. Your favorite songs. He might randomly suggest a show you JUST posted about on your story. (coincidence? NEVER!)
He won’t confess just yet he’s busy collecting data like a love scientist.
💬 Phase Four: “Let’s just be friends (but not really)”
He slides into your life softly.
“Oh hey, I brought you snacks for practice.”
“Oh, I had extra time, so I made this playlist for you.”
Y’all aren’t “dating” but your friends are whispering already.
He loves lowkey couple moments the kind that aren’t obvious to anyone except you and him.
💥 Phase Five: Brave Boy Era™
When he finally gathers the nerve (and realizes he might lose you if he doesn’t speak up), he steps into Knight of Wands mode.
Suddenly, he’s flirty.
Suddenly, there’s touch.
Suddenly, he says something like:
“If I told you I liked you… would that ruin everything?”
AND YOU’RE JUST THERE LIKE 👁️👄👁️
💖 Phase Six: The Softest Partner on Earth
If you let him in? BABY. You’re his world.
He’ll hype you like a K-drama male lead, protect you like a Disney prince, and still text you sweet goodnight messages even after hanging out all day.
But he’s still human when insecurity creeps back in, he needs reassurance. Just hold his face and say, “I like you too, dummy.” That’s it. That’s the key.
🚫 Bonus: The Secret Fear
He lowkey worries he’ll mess it up so if you ever get distant or distracted, he spirals a bit.
He's not jealous… but he knows what he has, and he guards it like it’s gold.
✨ Overview:
Jacob is a slow-burn, soft-launch, high-loyalty kind of lover.
He starts off shy and lowkey obsessed, moves into “I’m your bestie but I’m kinda not” territory, and then if he’s sure you won’t crush his heart he makes a messy, adorable confession you’ll never forget.
So yeah. If Jacob has a crush on you?
Expect a puppy-eyed protector, playlist maker, and emotional support golden retriever with a poet’s heart.














