pick a card, what your first argument with your future partner would look like
jellycat one:
Returning from a family gathering, he makes a comment, and it feels off. You tried keeping the mood light, but it does not work. It might be some mental struggles from work, like stress or other factors. They might need space to recharge and be alone; however, you may continue to try to understand where they're at mentally. You may have an impulsive nature, making you do things without paying attention to how it affects others, and you may want to fix things right away due to being unable to stand the silence. This will only make things worse.
jellycat two:
Calm evening at home, your relationship was good until it felt off when you felt emotionally disconnected, when he started to bury himself in work. All you want is emotional reassurance and that vulnerability from him. Maybe frustrations from past arguments you decided to let go of because you weren't sure if it was worth fighting over suddenly all come out. He responds coldly and logically instead of trying to fix the situation with reassurance; he sees it as a problem to solve. He thinks you're being overly dramatic and not listening to his side/the story. He wants to help, but a classic misunderstanding leads to both of your feelings being hurt due to miscommunication.
jellycat three:
You may be guilty of self-sabotage. When things are too good to be true, you don't believe you deserve it, and you push those closest to you away, as it gives you a sense of control, which leads you to be emotionally vulnerable and to exhibit downright destructive behavior. He calls you out on your bullshit which seems irrational however there's an inkling you have that may lead you to be so stuck in your head and see them as someone trying to get away with something. All he wants to do is be there for you; however, the walls you so carefully built around yourself keep him at bay, which can become a vicious cycle.
