Brief intro to me, woo. You can call me Skiro, he/him. This is my quoi sideblog, specifically about my quoiromantic n quoisexual musings (though shoutout to quoigendered people). I've only recently taken up the quoisexual label while still IDing as aromantic. In my eagerness I started this blog quq
Summary of my experience:
- I'm generally detached from romance, mainly because I largely associate it with dating (which weirds me out). I haven't dated nor am I inclined to, which is why I still ID as aromantic. Still, I question wtf romantic attraction is a lot, especially in tandem with platonic attraction.
- I am maddeningly confused with sexual attraction. Identifying as quoisexual helps me accept that confusion for what it is - a blurry, elusive mess.
- This is important because for the longest time I was ok-but-not-really-ok with having a labeless sexuality, or at least a sexuality I didn't actively label. No labels really fit me. That was until I rediscovered quoisexuality. Finally I found an identity that could concretely describe my confused musings. An identity that could anchor me in certain confusion.
Where does that leave me? Well, sometimes I wonder about attraction, often feeling frustrated. Sometimes I give up and don't care. It's well confusing, haha. Curious to know if others feel the same or differently.
