here's all of sometimesraven's other links to avoid if you'd like. they also have a twitch with the same handle so do w that what u will. this is all like public info too i just searched their url on tumblr n found their youtube. plus they have books that they've written if you ever find them they're under raven elliot o'connor (again, public info on their tumblr). and sometimesraven on instagram, but you can find that out by just. looking up the same url on insta so it's not really hidden either. all public info just so u can avoid the transmisogynist.
at this point they are almost definitely a cry/pto and won't respond to any attempts to educate or criticize and just keep claiming that being autistic (me too) and being from england (woah a magical country where trans women are just so much more protected and things r Different for transmascs) makes it okay for them to claim that misandry exists within the trans community. intersectionality and frameworks discussing it will ALWAYS be about multiple COMPOUNDING forms of oppression, never about "types" of oppression-- or else being mayotransphobia where your transphobia is different because you’re white (which is true! but that doesn't mean it's Worse or needs a word) would be real. i've linked multiple times where trans women have explained why their ideas of sex-based oppression and "afab trans people" being uniquely isolated from trans spaces (which IS calling trans women your oppressors. you dont have to say it outright. because transphobes and nazis and ppl who perceive you as a woman ARE NOT IN THE TRANS COMMUNITY AND THEREFORE AREN'T ISOLATING YOU FROM THE TRANS COMMUNITY SO YOU AREN'T COMPLAINING ABOUT THEM) are harmful and lead to ter/fism but they'd rather just claim they're being "harassed" because having to actually own up to being a real ally to transfems is too hard for them. we all need to be better allies. you're not even trying. instead of pretending to be a victim, listen to people who are trying to explain things to you and tell you what's up with your argument for ONE second.
