Many times I throw people for a loop when I order whipped cream on my latte or sausage with my eggs. . "Wow, I thought you were going to be eating all healthy!" They say. . Take it from a former QUEEN 👸 of the yo-yo diet.... . I used to have an "all or nothing" mentality. I would cut out sugar, dairy, everything unhealthy and then totally BINGE when life would fall apart. . That would put me in a "I don't even care" cycle until I would decide enough us enough and start at square one again. . Yeah, that sent a great message to my kids. . Yeah, that was a lifestyle that was good for me. . Yeah, that was good for my waistline and energy. . #sarcasm #sonot . You can't just say food is JUST fuel. It's too simplified and it doesn't work anyways. . Food is celebration, community, comfort. . And when you get the moderation part down, it's being a good example to your kids AND it's sustainable! #forreals . I think of my eating as an 80/20 lifestyle. 90/10 if I'm trying to shed some weight or tone purposefully. . I try to eat clean 80% of the time. . That means that if I had 8 meals two of them don't have to be completely clean. Or if each meal has 3 categories on the plate each time I have 9 I can have one catagory that's not as perfect. . I don't want my kids to feel like anything is taboo. . I don't want them to think one cup of ice cream is going to make them fat. . I want them to strive for health, strength, and feeling good over anything a stupid scale says. . We don't talk about weight. We don't have a scale. My ten year old shows me her muscles and how strong she is getting constantly! #proudmama . This is a stark difference to me 5 years ago complaining about my weight and hearing my baby girl call herself fat. . So yeah, ordering whipped cream or bacon actually makes me a better person, a better coach, a better mama. . We gotta live this life, and love it too. . Don't real yourself (in either direction) with food or a number on a scale. You'll miss out. . Feel healthy. Love your life. Be the example now. . Flipping your thinking to live this way isn't easy. If you need a place to start message me... because it's not just about you d