#spark ask

[yeeiguess]

Ok but I feel bad when I have headcanons that some characters are autistic like Zuko or Keith Kogane because I’m not autistic and I feel like it’s not my place :/ I have adhd, which is pretty similar to autism on some points, and I’ve seen autistic people talk about why they think these characters are autistic and it always made sense to me. Like I can’t remember them cause Shit memory but I have read multiple posts of autistic people listing stuff these characters do that they also do, as an autistic person, and that’s why they relate to the character etc... which obviously makes you considerate the headcanon at least a bit. And it’s always made sense to me, once explained. And I don’t know if I should feel bad or not for having these headcanons 😭

[thestaticsquirrel]

{Static, it's good to see you again! Did you get taller since I last saw you, gruff?}

(Static giggled sheepishly) No, i’m pretty sure i’ve stopped growing. Also you’re speaking to my dad, krzzt.

(Spark) I, erm, hello kind sir. Hey Junior, who is this antelope fella? One of your buddies, pika?

(Static, emoting Thought) Yea this is, erm… Oh! This is Bruce, heh, I almost forgot his name. It has been awhile, hasn’t it?

(Spark) Oh, Bruce. Hello there, sir. *Spark holds his right paw up above his head* I’m Junior’s dad. My name’s also Static, I named him after me, but you can call me by my second name, Spark. That’s usually how I like it, pika.

(Static) It…heh…helps us tell who’s being addressed, krzzt. And it’s a lot easier on the lungs.

((Spark’s headcanon height is 2′5½”, a tadbit taller than Static, who is 2′4″.))

[yeeiguess]

Can someone give me clear definitions of what disability and being disabled are because I still don’t understand it and I’m trying to see if it’s. Okay for me to say I have a/ disability/disabilities or not

[yeeiguess]

Ok i can get a little laugh but why is everyone so happy that Prince Phillip died

[yeeiguess]

No but I have to tell you. I have to say it. How can you be attracted to one gender and one gender only ? It’s not about genitals because you have no way of knowing what someone’s genitals are unless you see them. And we know genitals don’t equal gender. Same way, you can’t know someone’s gender until they tell you. Then, how can you be attracted to this person and not that person ? You just guess what their gender is based on society’s ideas of what makes a woman or a man (or someone non-binary), or your own assumptions from the way they look ?

That’s a geniune question please I’m just a lost aromantic I don’t get it

[yeeiguess]

I don’t know if it’s an adhd thing or not but do you ever get PHYSICALLY BORED of doing something. I was folding laundry (took me three hours because I was watching something at the same time and somehow thought I’d be able to do both) and by the end it was like uuuuugh I don’t want to fold anymore I don’t want to do this movement anymore.

The same thing happened during an exam I was TIRED of turning the pages but like it’s a physical thing. Like I feel it physically I don’t want to do this repetitive movement anymore it’s lowkey painful somehow

[yeeiguess]

Ok uh question are adhd and chronic pain like, disabilities ? I don’t think I really know what makes something a disability and I don’t want to appropriate a word but I’ve seen it used when referring to adhd a few times. I don’t know for chronic pain, I’ve just recently started like, understanding that if I’m in pain and there seems to be no reason for it it’s chronic pains so I haven’t looked anything up. I hope this isn’t rude or anything 😭

(Edit: so uh I forgot looking things up before asking was a Thing but I still think having the concerned people tell me directly is better)

[yeeiguess]

At this point I’m desperate so I’ll try my luck here

So I have an iPhone and an iPad and on both of them, I can’t erase my internet history and I can’t use private navigation. The buttons are here but they’re grey and I’ve tried everything T-T I read so many articles (most were useless), deleted and out Safari back on, gone through every thing the settings app has… the next step is going to an apple store to see if they can help. It’s been like this for years- I also don’t have the ´restriction’ button on Settings -> General since it’s something I’ve read you should check.

Anyway did this happen to anyone and/or do you know what I can do to fix it ?