T'Spark (💖🐾) - Unmasker, kind of a little, unknown age and species - Star/stars (and suggest other star, space, sparkle, magic, etc. themed neos please)
★ Any kind of bigot or asshole, any person coming here to spread hate. Just go away, you're not welcome guys.
★ Alterhuman/otherkin/transspecies haters
★ Ableists, racists, TERFs and transphobes, homophobes, all these. Get out immediately. We don't want nor need you here.
★ Radqueer/transabled/transharmed/transharmful folks. Maybe you're valid, I don't know enough about it, but I'm not comfortable interacting with you. Like if you're a nazi I don't want you anywhere near me. Transnazi, cisnazi, I don't really care.
★ NSFW/kink/paraphilia blogs. If you mention your (harmless) paraphilias every once in a while or once posted a dirty joke it's fine but I'm not comfortable following/being followed by NSFW blogs. I'm a minor.
Please follow your own DNI. If you don't like my politics or identity nothin' forces you to interact.
Thin ice :
★ People with harmful paraphilias (even if you're not pro-contact), it's just something I'm not comfortable with.
★ TransIDs. Some of y'all seem fine. I relate with lots of TransID labels. But, eh, there are some guys in the bunch I don't feel safe or comfortable with.
★ Blank blogs, weird DMers. I can and will block freely.
PI (please interact !) :
★ Alterhumans and specifically alienkins/Vulcankins or anyone from Pikmin
★ Trekkies
★ Pikmin fans
★ Spirk/McSpirk shippers
★ Artists, especially if you make fanart of my fave fandoms !
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BYI :
★ I can joke and laugh about anything, even if it's "politically incorrect". I'm autistic, alterhuman, queer and plural, you can joke about these with me, that's fine, but never ever use humor as a disguise to free hate.
★ Endo-neutral, I don't know a lot about it so I can't hate nor support. However if your blog's only purpose is to spread free hate against endo folks I'd rather you don't interact. No syscourse here please.
★ DM open for commissions, questions or just to discuss but I'll block and eventually report any person that makes me uncomfortable. Also avoid just saying "Hi !", come with a topic or anything if it's possible.
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(Userboxes by various Tumblr users, I can't find all of them so if one of 'em is yours and I'm not allowed to use it just tell me ^^)
Here’s some positivity for those who are frontstuck!
Many systems function by different members switching in and out in order to live their best lives. However, for some systems, one particular member or group of members may be stuck at the front, unable to switch out. These individuals deserve to be uplifted and treated with kindness! This post is for all the frontstuck system members out there!
🦋 Shoutout to system hosts who created their systems and are unable to switch out or fully leave the front!
❕ Shoutout to system members who switched in normally without expecting to remain at the front for long, but have been stuck in the front for weeks, months, or years!
💙 Shoutout to frontstuck system members who are unable to see or access their system’s inner world or headspace!
⛄️ Shoutout to frontstuck members who take care of their system’s bodies, social lives, school or work, and other important tasks!
🔹 Shoutout to frontstuck members who are tired or exhausted, and wish they could rest away from the front like other members of their system!
🤍 Shoutout to DID systems with frontstuck members - we promise having frontstuck members does not invalidate your system or your disorder in any way!
❄️ Shoutout to frontstuck system members who are not hosts, or who have other roles in their system that they fill!
💭 Shoutout to frontstuck members who spend a lot of time daydreaming, visiting their headspace, or building their paracosms!
🌀 Shoutout to frontstuck members who have never been able to switch out, regardless of their system’s origins!
🦢 Shoutout to frontstuck members who identify with terms like “specutien” or who use their own labels to describe their experiences!
💠 Shoutout to system members who go through long periods of being frontstuck followed by long stretches of not fronting at all!
☁️ Shoutout to systems whose members being frontstuck has caused them to deny their plurality or worry that they’re faking!
Having a frontstuck member (or members) doesn’t make you any less real as a system or any less welcome in the plural community! We promise that you belong here and you are a cherished part of these spaces and your own system just the way you are.
For all you frontstuck members out there, please know your hard work doesn’t go unnoticed! We recognize how much you do for your system and how challenging it can be to stay in the front all the time. We’re wishing you a future full of peace, rest, and happiness, even if you’re never able to fully switch out! Thanks so much for reading, and have a great day!
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Members in systems who wish they could front, but can't
Those who get stressed by the fact they can't switch
The ones who can "technically" switch, but never do
People who haven been frontstuck for a very long time
And anyone else I might've missed!
It's ok to only have one fronter, you're still very much plural! We love you very much, and your experiences are valid! You should be listened to! Never let anyone invalidate your system, you deserve to be taken seriously!
