9 and 15 for the pride asks?
9) When did you realize you weren't cishet?
in all honesty, i dont remember! i think i always knew i wasnt het, that was pretty clear to me. as for being trans, its quite funny rlly. my mom knew i was trans before i knew myself. AND SHE DIDNT TELL ME. i think i was maybe 13 when i asked for a binder? and here i am now :]
15) How has your identity changed over time?
ive bounced between being gay, demiromantic, and aroace. i think ive settled on aroace w a side of "wow girls are pretty".
as for being trans, once i realized i was trans it was pretty clear i was some vein of enby. that turned into agender down the line, and further down my silly analogy "i wear gender like a costume".
lately ive realized theres a bit of genderfluidity in there, but not much. usually just influences my pronoun preferences and how much i like my body. im still calling myself agender tho bc i think its the most accurate!