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alex 🏈
I'm new here, soooo.. Take Mr. Qi!
More Mr. Qi because he hasn’t left my mind yet, somehow
Sebastian is startled awake at the sound of something vibrating repeatedly against the wooden planks of his floor. He fumbles his hand around groggily for the culprit, before his fingers clasp onto his cellphone. He pulls it up to his face, allowing his eyes to focus on several messages pouring in on the bright screen. He skims over them for a moment without absorbing any of their content before his eyes settle on the analog clock plastered against his all black wallpaper, the time of 3:02AM almost taunting him.
Sebastian does a double-take at what he sees, and with that is able to fully register the state of his surroundings. He takes a beat to recognize that his other hand has found its way down from your back to your ass, cupping your body snug against his pelvis. Your head has moved from its resting position on his chest, into his neck; lips open and flush against his skin, hot breaths of air tickling his neck with each exhale you take. In your sleep, the two of you have managed to intertwine your legs together, his leg slotted in between your thighs, flush against your crotch. Your fingers are warm against the bare skin of his stomach, creeping their way up underneath the hem of his shirt. The blanket the two of you had been using previously is discarded on the floor. For a second, Sebastian is almost certain he’s still dreaming.
He’s pulled from his trance at the feeling of his phone vibrating in his hand again. He takes a moment to reread the messages filling its screen; an active conversation between Sam, Abigail and Victor, all three of them inquiring about Sebastian’s whereabouts.
[SDV] Bachelors x When You Argue
Summary: How the bachelors act whne the two of you argue!
Warning(s): No warnings! A hint of angst in Alex and Shane's parts but nothing major.
Side Note(s): I tried to be more general with the bachelors rather than focusing on a specific motive for the fight, anon! Sorry for the extremely long wait, but I hope you enjoy 😔 ✨
Elliot
Very patient when the two of you fight.
I can imagine he's the type of person to believe that the two of you should "never go to bed angry with one another". Therefore, when a spat does occur, Elliot tries to discuss things, you, and his feelings towards the situation and the like, right then and there.
But in the case that the two of you are extremely angry with one another? Elliot gives you some space to breathe and calm down since he needs some time for himself as well. He may try to pour out his feelings into his writing, but each word, though passionate, doesn't sound right on the page.
He may go for a walk.
Spend some time at the beach.
Anything to calm his thoughts and help him think about the fight you and he just had, and how it can be resolved.
I also believe that Elliot would be the first one to apologize, ngl
Sebastian
Tbh, I can see Sebastian being the type of person who tries to avoid an argument.
While he's certainly the type to get angry here and there, his anger never manifests in him getting into a yelling match. It shows up in him being silent, glaring at the thing/person of his anger, or him mostly trying to keep to himself in order to handle his emotions on his own.
On the rare occasion that the two of you fight, the previously mentioned attributes are displayed, but Sebastian makes an active attempt to listen and only speaks when he feels like his opinion will help the situation.
And in the case of your anger only heightening in response to what he's saying? He'll just become quiet entirely and let you vent out your feelings, and when you're done and state that you want some space? He gives you just that, after all, he needs that himself since he feels that you just won't listen.
Okay, at the risk of being hanged at the cross for this— I think that Sebastian wouldn't exactly like a partner who yells during an argument? Mostly cause he doesn't think anything is worth yelling over?
So, Sebastian lets you cool down on your own, and once you've calmed down enough. He'll approach the argument again with the same talking points, explaining his feelings and what he thinks about the situation.
And with you being much calmer than before now— it's easier to see that he was on the right side of the situation <33 (And that you may owe him an apology for yelling)
Sam
Similar to Sebastian, I feel like he's also the type to avoid an argument, weirdly enough? But it's mostly because I can imagine that it's pretty hard for Sam to get upset.
Sure, he's been annoyed here and there like anyone else, but he generally puts things behind him and really only lets people know about his feelings when something really bothers him.
So, during a rare case of Sam getting angry?
I can't see him being too much of a yeller? But his voice will definitely be noticeably raised, and it will also be a rare glimpse into Sam having a more authoritative voice(Quietly headcanoning that Sam shows traits of his father in certain situations)
Rather than the two of you being mad at one another until either one of you breaks and apologizes, Sam prefers to discuss things right then and there until the two of you come to a conclusion.
If you ask for your space to calm down, then he'll gladly give you time, but he'll still be the type to try to usher for a conversation so the two of you don't have to stay mad at one another for long!
Alex
At the risk of being hung on the cross for this—
During an argument between the two of you, I can imagine that Alex is the type to be somewhat toxic. Not the jackass type of toxic, but more so the type of person who doesn't exactly know how to handle the situation.
Follow me here, I'm using his backstory as a reference for this
I imagine that he'd be the type to either be somewhat avoidant of the situation or try to brush it off and say that it wasn't that big of a deal. And when you continue to push and push for a resolution, to sit and have a conversation rather than brushing off the argument altogether, then that's when Alex really tries to hide away.
The silent treatment, switching subjects and topics as best as he can, the whole nine yards.
But when you explain how it's making you feel as if you're not being heard and as if Alex isn't trying, then that's when his shell cracks and he does his best to sit and listen, to be more considerate.
The last thing he wants to do is be anything like his father, so he tries.
Just don't expect him to get it right the first few times!
But once all is said and done, and Alex becomes more familiar with voicing his feelings, listening to your own, and avoiding the temptation to distance himself from the uncomfortable feeling by talking. He's super understanding and prefers for you to speak first rather than himself <3.
Harvey
Pretty similar to Elliot imo.
Very patient and willing to listen to your side of the story before attempting to add his own opinions about the argument. However, I can see him also being the type to allow his spouse their space should they ask it (or look as if they need it)
Similar to any other day, his priorities are you and your comfort.
He'll listen to your side of the story, try to adjust and change what he's done and/or said that may have struck the wrong nerve with you. Anything to make sure that you feel as if he's dutifully listening to you as any husband should.
And in the case that you need space to clear your head and gather your thoughts?
He's already either out the door or doing something else in the house.
Harvey's fine letting you come to him; it's all about your timing and when you want to resolve things. After all, it's not like the fight will change how much he loves and adores you.
Arguments come with the territory of marriage, after all <33.
Shane
Like Alex, at the risk of being hanged on the cross for this— I can't see him being the best when it comes to arguments.
He'll most likely brush you off, maybe even try to convince you that what he did wasn't that big of a deal and that you should calm down. But, admittedly, this is all spoken with the intention, not to be genuinely rude or mean to you, but because Shane is silently trying to eliminate any chances of you "waking up" and leaving him, thanks to the spat you both just had.
If you persist and say that the argument was that big of a deal, then Shane may try to distance himself even more in hopes that you'll forget.
But, you being the stubborn person you are and not being the type to let problems just hang in the air, you continue to press and press until Shane finally cracks and opens up about his feelings.
If you press about why he was trying to avoid the situation, he'll admit that he didn't want to talk because he was scared of you leaving him, thanks to the spat.
"All couples fight,"
He almost wanted to respond with an obvious "Duh". But, it couldn't have been so obvious, seeing as he tried to run away, right? So, with that out in the open, Shane does try his best to be more of a listener rather than a runner when it comes to spats.
It's not perfect the first few times, but eventually, over the course of your marriage. It becomes a little more refined where he's capable of properly articulating his thoughts and feelings to you.
And now, arguments are no longer arguments but more so— disagreements that need to be mended over <3.
All of the Stardew Valley Villagers <3
Dr. Husband Harvey getting used to the farm tasks 🐄🐓💖 I think he'd reasonably be scared of chickens at first, I wouldn't underestimate those dinosaurs either!
For @dragonstorytelling who prompted helping with farm chores, like feeding the chickens and cows. I've never drawn a cow before, cool idea! Speedpaint below.
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