#stereotipes

[folie-adeuxxxx]

[ayman-eckford]

Dear boys and man:

-It’s OK to fear something;

-It’s OK to be sensitive;

-It’s OK if you cry when you feel bad;

-It’s OK to be disabled;

-It’s OK to hate sport;

-It’s OK to hate violence;

-It’s OK not to have a job or to make little money.

It’s OK to be yourself.

And it’s not OK if someone imposes on you standards of toxic masculinity! If you don’t fit to these standards it doesn’t make you “not a real man”. The problem is with these standards, not with you.

All men are different. And all women and all non-binary people are different!

And it’s beautiful.

Never forget this!

[ayman-eckford]

It’s another System support post.

If you couldn’t remember something, it’s ok.

If sometimes you couldn’t understand how you did something, it’s ok.

If sometimes it looks like “you don’t try too much” to pay attention, even if you did everything you could, it’s ok.

Well, of course not completely “OK”. You could feel exhausted because of it. You could feel like no one really understands your problems. You could feel tied.

And blame yourself that you “don’t think with your head”.

And you could be scared of all of that.

At least I was scared, exhausted, ashamed and angry.

I was thinking that I’m the only one like that, the only person with such problems, and I blamed myself.

But after that I found a reason. I find that I’m Multiple.

And understand that I’m not alone. So, dear Systems, you are not alone.

And even if your problems seem weird, they are OK in the meaning that they are walied. They are normal for you. For me. For many Systems.

It doesn’t make you less worthy, or bad, or not strong enough.

It’s part of who you are, and it has a connection with a brighter part of System existence. For example sometimes you couldn’t remember how you did something, but sometimes it could mean that your headmate made some really important stuff that you couldn’t make yourself.

Sometimes you forget some simple stuff, but sometimes partly memory loss helps you to survive.

You are not “broken” because you have this kind of disability. I personally think that you are even not ill. This is not that kind of disability that means a disease.

Society is broken because they doesn’t get that people’s brains could work in different ways and don’t speak much about “atypical problems”.

And sooner or later society would need to change it, to accept neurological differences like it’s tied to accept religion, racial, gender and sexual orientation differences now.

Until that, we only could try to accept yourself, our headmates and each other.

[ayman-eckford]

-Your country does not define your faith.

-Your nationality does not define your faith.

-Your origin does not define your faith.

-Your family does not define your your faith.

-Religious rituals that your parents do with you when you were a baby does not define your faith.

-Prayers and rituals that you performed against your will being forced by your parents do not define your faith.

-Your education does not define your faith.

All this things can affect your ideas about God (Gods).

But only you can decide for yourself whether a God (or gods) exists.

But only you can define your faith.

Only your will (or God’s will, If you believe in this concept of faith).

So it’s OK if:

-you grew up in a religious family, but do not believe in God;

-your faith is different from the one of your friends or relatives;

-you don’t practice a particular religion, and have to created your own;

-your faith changes too often, or you too often converse from one religion to another.

- you have chosen a religion that is stigmatized in your country.

As long as you are not imposing your religion on others and don’t use it to justify discrimination and crimes, your ideas about the existence (or non-existence) of a higher power concern only you.

Remember that no one has the right to impose their religion on you, or to force you to renounce your beliefs.

[lolmalone]

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I think it's one of the most beautiful paintings that I made! I hope you love it as well as me! 💕💕💕Acrylic on canvas 80 x 160 cm Stereotypes - Woman vase- With porcelain skin- Project: Woman, in front of the mirror, INSPIRE by @lolmaloneart #stereotipes . . . #lolmalonepíntame #yoinspiro #inspirationalwomen #feminist #painting #artworkportrait #artwork_support #artlife #artecontemporaneo #portrait #lolmalone #womenstyle #artist #artist #lovemywork #femaleartists #loveart #artwork #art_help #artoftheday #artists #arte #art_collective #contemporayart #artwork_in_studio (en Costa del Sol)

[lolmalone]

Work in progress. Some colors. Unnamed yet . I would like to try to paint exactly what I have in my mind for this painting. It will be a surprise. Acrylic on canvas 80 x 160 cm Stereotypes - Project: Woman, in front of the mirror, INSPIRE by @lolmaloneart #stereotipes . . . # lolmalonepíntame #yoinspiro #inspirationalwomen #feminist #painting #artworkportrait #artwork_support #artlife #artecontemporaneo #portrait #lolmalone #womenstyle #artist #artist #lovemywork #femaleartists #loveart #artwork #art_help #artoftheday #artists #arte #art_collective #contemporayart #artwork_in_studio (en Mijas, Andalucia, Spain)

[acanci]

Does anyone know any gender stereotyping songs? Please?