#didsystem

[collectiveofeden]

I got banned from an LGBTQ+ crisis holine for being pro-endogenic today.

yes, really. I got hired on as a support councilor, and made my introduction as a diagnosised DID system that is happy to help out with plurality related conflicts regardless of their system's origin. The owner of the hotline knew nothing of the discourse up until this point.

multiple anti-endo systems bombarded their DMs, calling me ableist and said people like "me" were ruining the community. I provided my sources. despite the owner agreeing with me in the end, they couldn't keep me as a councilor OR LET ME USE THE HOTLINE because my opinions built on inclusiveness made the other systems uncomfortable. edit:

This is the hotline I got banned from for being pro-endogenic.

tw // suicide // bigotry

I originally didn't want to name and shame this hotline, as I didn't want to be petty or hurt my cause. However, I received MANY comments about how irresponsible it is for the moderation to withhold life saving crisis support over something as inconsequential as the origin of their plurality. Endogenic identifying systems already experience extreme harassment and discrimination, and denying crisis support to an endogenic system could truly be their last straw and lead to more queer/plural suicide. Something sysmeds fail to understand is that endogenic =/= not traumatized. endogenic =/= no mental health concerns. all the endogenic label means is that their plurality, often a small part of who they are, was not caused by trauma (or by trauma alone) It would mean a lot to me if you could leave a review for the server on DIsboard, warning endogenic systems that they are not safe there. If you feel up for it, maybe even open up a mod ticket and explain endogenic origins to them. I tried my best and failed, as I got dogpiled by sysmeds. Disboard Link: https://disboard.org/server/1352076674165899394 and, if you have a couple dollars to spare, help my system secure funding for the Plural Association Warmline. This helpline will provide support for ALL systems! Donation Link: https://streamlabscharity.com/@collectiveofeden/the-plural-assoication

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[ghosthouse-sys]

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[thebeesystemandmemes]

So awkward

[weaseldoesgaming]

The way all for the game has such a grip on us already

[thdramasuncensored]

I believe we wouldn't have that many DID fakers if we brought back roleplaying back in style.

huge believer in the 'some people with self diagnosed "DID" are actually just roleplayers or delusional attachments" im not kidding

i'm tired of being "fakeclaimers are toxic" sometimes people are just faking it

they label it 'osdd-1b' because suddenly feeling like ur a different person (which is NORMAL to most extents, by the way.) HAS to be an uncommon disorder and cant be ANYTHING else right

for a matter of fact, autistic people do that kind of thing a lot. you might not have osdd, you could just be autistic. just saying

[starlite-sin]

What a lot of people think self-dxing is:

*sees a video of traits* I do that, so now I’m gonna call myself that

What it actually is:

*sees video or post about traits* oh hey I do that

*gets curious and looks it up* 

*denies having it cause “i don’t relate to this at all”* 

*realizes that they do, diagnostic criteria are just very ridged and don’t provide a lot of explanation* 

*maybe a breakdown or two*

*talks to friends who have it*

*laughing about this anxiety, only for the scary moment of “oh yeah no that sounds like *insert disorder here**

*talks to a therapist if able*

*talks to strangers who have it*

“Maybe it’s not this, maybe it’s this...”

*More research to try to prove themselves wrong*

*realizes all the childhood/teenage moments that should have been a red flag* 

“Well, all these other people have it like this, but mine is different, so I don’t have it!” “No, that’s still a trait/symptom, just less well know or less sensationalized”

*finally coming to terms that maybe you have it*

*depending on what the disorder is, fearing your social life is fucked*

And that’s that. I have never heard of a person going “haha I do that” and calling it a night. There’s always way more to it. 

[thelovebotsystem]

played tomodachi life 2 demo today and it made me so happy to see me, my in-sys boyfriend, and our main psys partner on an island ALL TOGETHER!! LIKE THATS US!! IN OUR OWN LITTLE BODIES!! :D

Then we named it "Yaoi Island", the Miis call me faggot, and I do a gay little pose every five seconds. Life is good

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